We are all people brought up by different faith, beliefs and school of thoughts. We can never reconcile with one another's beliefs. That is a fact. Everyone has their own perspectives and we cannot run by the small line in which we force others to follow. That is the equal freedom we have in thoughts, judgement and actions.Originally posted by WindyDay:I think ultimately it is a question of personal integrity which affects the quality of this forum.
We are all people brought up by different faith, beliefs and school of thoughts. We can never reconcile with one another's beliefs. That is a fact. Everyone has their own perspectives and we cannot run by the small line in which we force others to follow. That is the equal freedom we have in thoughts, judgement and actions.those sentiments are highly commendable. i cannot but agree with you. however, my point in posting this thread is not to make anyone look bad but to articulate my thoughts.
In here, as long as someone is not bashing another's race, religion or language, we should not be biased and judgemental. We must give them equal vocal rights to their beliefs and for them to respect ours. As long nothing abusive comes around, I think we should accept this balance.
Their styles may be different but Goh does less of mug slinging. so what if Goh is Atobe? May be Atobe find no head way in his original styles so he changes using another name. Any problem?my first two paragraphs made general observations which I think are relevant to this forum. but i do think you are right about contributing to specific issues- i will do that.
Do you have anything to say on any issues discussed or you want to keep to watch and judging? Identifying Goh as Atobe is not much of a contribution.
Dear Windy,ahh, you have replied. i hope i have not caused offence to you. perhaps it's best if my lines regarding atobe and you are removed. i will do it now.
Who is Atobe?
Sorry, I am not Atobe. I am new to this forum, introduced by a friend.
Although I have been foruming in the cyberspace for more than a decade now, my main forum is soc.culture.singapore. Nickname MADCOW.
I would be very much interested to know who has the same style as I have.
Originally posted by WindyDay:ahh, you have replied. i hope i have not caused offence to you. perhaps it's best if my lines regarding atobe and you are removed. i will do it now.
you can also read up atobe's various posts from page 2 onwards. he has acquired a reputation for being.....errr..i leave you to make up your mind.
The thread topic is too personal for my likings. I think we cannot stop people from complaining but can always advise them after that. The people with offensive agendas had their threads removed/locked appropriately by the mods here and I don't see it as a problem. We cannot stop crimes, but we can prevent it.well, it's hard to judge if what i say will offend others. but as a goodwill gesture, i have removed the lines comparing goh and atobe. my last intention is to become 'personal' or offend anyone least of all goh himself. it is what i dislike about many replies on other threads.
I believe you should not harp on the quality on the general topics. They do provoke people to think and thus lead to positive understanding for the general public.
offensive?Originally posted by WindyDay:you can also read up atobe's various posts from page 2 onwards. he has acquired a reputation for being.....errr..i leave you to make up your mind.
is there a difference between these few?Originally posted by Qitai:Personally, I feel quite bored with the constant complain and some even ridiculous complains and misconception. A lot of the thread are either just complain threads or/and those that highlight an issue, offer no solution and puts the blame to you know who. Some posters cannot even differentiate the difference between PAP, parliment, government and GLCs.
Harping on quality posts will only cause more fools to generate random nonsense here.Originally posted by WindyDay:well, it's hard to judge if what i say will offend others. but as a goodwill gesture, i have removed the lines comparing goh and atobe. my last intention is to become 'personal' or offend anyone least of all goh himself. it is what i dislike about many replies on other threads.
i cannot concur with you on not talking about the "quality" of threads though. i feel that many lack quality to begin with... which is what prompted me to write this in the first place.
the topics certainly make people think i agree, but as to whether it promotes 'positive understanding' as you claim is another matter altogether. i dare say many will and do believe what they read here, to the extent that prejudices are reinforced, and the uninformed are misled even further. this is evident esp. when the issue at hand is factual.
sometimes it is the difficult dilemma of deciding between self-interest or the interests of the country. comments that are racist, biased, intentionally provocative easily find supporters, especially those who are not sufficiently informed and are already looking for an outlet to vent their feelings. i think these examples are self-evident in this forum.
having said all that, i hope the 'general public' is really the silent majority here who are now thinking "windyday, you are wrong. we know exactly what is going on here- who is genuine, who is not, who has a grasp of the subject, and who does not."
Whinging occurs because people are not happy . Happens everywhere , even australia. I do enjoy questioning bad policies with plenty of enthusiam. However saying all these, I do feel hindered to do anything in Singapore . About a few years back when I was a student , I once took part in a live "open" discussion where there were 2 MPs answering questions. I asked something sensitive and I think it was a direct hit on their policies- and I was asked for my ic number and name by one particular MP. How did you think I felt and of course I was told never to bring what I said out of the room - it's a sudden sensation that you could be marked down. I was asking a simple question and imho got rail roaded despite being told to speak my mind before the start of the discussion. It is people like me who comes into these forums to speak because there is no point in going on a face to face confrontation with people in power.Originally posted by WindyDay:Hello All,
I have been a reader of this forum for the past two years, but have never really contributed until now. I feel compelled to do so due to the declining quality of many threads which have degenerated into slinging matches. Many contributors seem to lack any real knowledge of the issues discussed, and only appear interested in complaining endlessly, portraying government policies as bad, or attacking other users. The result is a whinging culture here.
That is not to say that all policies are perfect. In fact, many deserve public discussion- but just not the sort of quality (or lack of) that appears here. There is no real effort to know the issues in-depth, and what is produced is the sort of talk one finds in kopitiams on a lazy Sunday afternoon. I also find a greater inclination to quickly label those who disagree as 'anti-govt' and those who agree as 'pro-govt'. There is no need to divide people so readily into two opposing camps.
long felt sg is a disguised as a democracy. underneath? i'm not going to say. we all know.Originally posted by fymk:Whinging occurs because people are not happy . Happens everywhere , even australia. I do enjoy questioning bad policies with plenty of enthusiam. However saying all these, I do feel hindered to do anything in Singapore . About a few years back when I was a student , I once took part in a live "open" discussion where there were 2 MPs answering questions. I asked something sensitive and I think it was a direct hit on their policies- and I was asked for my ic number and name by one particular MP. How did you think I felt and of course I was told never to bring what I said out of the room - it's a sudden sensation that you could be marked down. I was asking a simple question and imho got rail roaded despite being told to speak my mind before the start of the discussion. It is people like me who comes into these forums to speak because there is no point in going on a face to face confrontation with people in power.
The aussies however enjoy a robust conversation and they are open ...they don't care about identification - free country as such.