Should I believe him...
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My bf and I study in the same poly but different course...everyday we will meet for lunch..and then i have a close girl friend in my class..so sometimes she was alone and I ask her to join us for lunch..that's how they know each other..by names..
many unhappy things happen between me and him..eg..he is insensitive..he skip lesson till he was barred from exams..and always talk about wanting to die..
one day..he sms me asking for my close friend's hp number..at 1st I don't want to give..but he said he want to ask her sometihng about me..and got angry and say i dun trust him..i got angry too and in a fit of anger..i gave it to him...
The next day i asked my friend wat he asked her....she say...he ask her can be her friend anot...can chat with him anot..and she say wait i will be angry..then he tell her we have broken off and he treat me as a friend only..and it was exams period at tat time..she say she didn't sms back..my friend still tell me don't worry..she wont fall for this type of guys...
I was really pissed off hearing these..and so i sms him...telling him to go and die if he wants..and leave my friend alone....
and he asked..i hate him anot...so i said i do..and he say he won't appear in front of me ever again...and said he is only making use of my friend to make me angry..so i will leave him..and still say he don't want to make me suffer with him..
but 2 days later...he sms me asking me out..i thought it might be the last time..or meet as a friend..and so i agree...and then he ask me to forgive him for what happen..being soft hearted i sort of agree..
sometime later...i went to his house..and found a piece of paper lying around..with a name and a hp number written in it..the name was same as my friend...i purposely ask him what it was..and he said..oh it was my mum's friend...i became quiet..and he say...u dun believe u take ur hp out n check..at that time i was angry and didnt do anytihng..i sort of memorise the 1st 4 numbers..and b4 i could do anytihng..he say i dun believe him again and burn the paper away...fine..no more evidence..den i took my hp out and check..the 1st 4 numbers are the same...so it trouble me more..but there is no more evidence..and because he dun haf a hp..and it was his mum's hp..i cant check...
although we are still together now...but should i believe him? or should i just leave him once and for all.. -
just leave lah.. kao.. this type of guyz.. not say believe or not lah.. he skips lessons shows how "responsible" and "mature" he is.. and always say want to die want to die.. is he a man or not?
since he is debar frm exam, wah lao... this type of nan ren.. no qian tu one.. stay longer only make urself tong ku.. u dun owe him anything.. u dun deserve this kinda treatment..
juz leave. -
Sure got dent in ur relationship liaoz rite?
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"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"
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The Eagle
He clasps the crag with hooked hands:
Close to the sun in lonely lands,
Ringed with the azure world, he stands.
The wrinkled sea beneath him crawls;
He watches from his mountain walls,
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Leave him. You deserves better.
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hm... leave him la... it will hurt u more if u drag on...
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Don't Flame Me. -
erm...skipping lessons doesnt realli make a person irresponsible or inmature lor...sometimes its realli bo bian one lor...poly life can be quite stressed up at times,when u have projects due and still got to attend lectures,its realli very diff to manage the time lor..so,dun condemn these skippers k?Originally posted by NinGNinG:just leave lah.. kao.. this type of guyz.. not say believe or not lah.. he skips lessons shows how "responsible" and "mature" he is.. and always say want to die want to die.. is he a man or not?
since he is debar frm exam, wah lao... this type of nan ren.. no qian tu one.. stay longer only make urself tong ku.. u dun owe him anything.. u dun deserve this kinda treatment..
juz leave.
As for Puffyfish,are u happy being with him?u have to think realli carefully,coz onli u have the ans to dis qn...if u r unhappy,then finish it once and for all,dun drag!its the worse thing to do!
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I'LL HoLd U dEaR
AnD I wILL rEMiNiScE
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skip lesson .. usually i been force to... actualy can manage time well then it is ok already .. but some smart people skips all the lesson but still got good grade and understand what they are learn..
as for him ..hmm give up lah .believe also got limit.... but the most important is such person useful anot..
but still how come girls like bad guys huh?
how come i am consider myself good yet i deserves no one to love me.. haiz.. life contrast so greatly.!!!!!!!!!!
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Pride, Envy, Gluttony, Lust, Anger, Greed, Sloth
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U never heard of the chinese saying b4 meh?Hao nan ren mei ren ai!Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:skip lesson .. usually i been force to... actualy can manage time well then it is ok already .. but some smart people skips all the lesson but still got good grade and understand what they are learn..
as for him ..hmm give up lah .believe also got limit.... but the most important is such person useful anot..
but still how come girls like bad guys huh?
how come i am consider myself good yet i deserves no one to love me.. haiz.. life contrast so greatly.!!!!!!!!!!
So muz learn to be a huai nan ren,then got pple love!keke!!
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As LoNg As I SHaLL LiVe
I'LL HoLd U dEaR
AnD I wILL rEMiNiScE
Of OuR LoVe ALL ThRoUgH
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nan ren bu huai nui ren bu ai!!!
wu liao .. dont believe it i should still be good nan ren...
anyway i always like huai nui ren too ... HAHAHAHAH
hey this is not my posting!
good luck to the girl if u still choose to be with him
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Pride, Envy, Gluttony, Lust, Anger, Greed, Sloth
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erm... this might sound weird...
but... instead of asking urself, whether u should leave him or not... why not... think up of an idea... for example, going out with another guy (who is ur friend but he doesn't know that) and purposely let him see it... see what sort of reaction he has... and then decide what happen next? -
repay debt with kindness.. the best.. although not many can do it..Originally posted by TingTing:erm... this might sound weird...
but... instead of asking urself, whether u should leave him or not... why not... think up of an idea... for example, going out with another guy (who is ur friend but he doesn't know that) and purposely let him see it... see what sort of reaction he has... and then decide what happen next?
but doing what you said will only make others feel she is a "......" - anything you can think of.. me vocab not good..