Advised needed!
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Dear All, I hope u guys can give me some advises. I just broke off with my gf about 2 month ago. During that period, I happen to saw my sch classmate. We are working in the same company but different dept. During my sch time, I did try to court her but was rejected. After so many year, I still have feeling for her even when I am with my ex gf. Now, i dont know whether it is such a coincidence that i met her again. I did manage to get her msn & hp no. I wanted to go after her again but afraid of history repeating. Pls advise. Thank you.
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Why not just get to know each other better 1st?
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I think you are subsitutute her as your ex...so no commit yet till you very sure...
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be frends 1st....and do some 'screening' to ensure she got no bf...else wait malu..
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GET CLEAR UR FEELINGS 1ST! Are u trying to take her as a substitute as ur ex gf or all along ur ex gf was just a substitute for her???Originally posted by Mabo:Dear All, I hope u guys can give me some advises. I just broke off with my gf about 2 month ago. During that period, I happen to saw my sch classmate. We are working in the same company but different dept. During my sch time, I did try to court her but was rejected. After so many year, I still have feeling for her even when I am with my ex gf. Now, i dont know whether it is such a coincidence that i met her again. I did manage to get her msn & hp no. I wanted to go after her again but afraid of history repeating. Pls advise. Thank you.
I can roughly see why ur ex gf wanted to break with u. Mayb she felt that ur heart was not with her at all. I think it was really very unfair of u to have feelings for other girls while u are stil attached to ur gf.
My point of view, if u got rejected by her once, its most likely u will get rejected again no matter how many times u try. If she had some feelings for u, she would have accepted u long ago. Stay as frens with her.
I think if u cross the line this time, u might even lose her as a fren. Think carefully. -
wait for another 2 months...see another ex-female classmate and post the same thing here all over again.Originally posted by Mabo:Dear All, I hope u guys can give me some advises. I just broke off with my gf about 2 month ago. During that period, I happen to saw my sch classmate. We are working in the same company but different dept. During my sch time, I did try to court her but was rejected. After so many year, I still have feeling for her even when I am with my ex gf. Now, i dont know whether it is such a coincidence that i met her again. I did manage to get her msn & hp no. I wanted to go after her again but afraid of history repeating. Pls advise. Thank you. -
then another 2 mths... see another ex girl he use to like and post the 3rd time the same things all over again.Originally posted by Xcert:wait for another 2 months...see another ex-female classmate and post the same thing here all over again.