i'm so sad....
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its been 2yrs9mths with my girlfriend, and now we jus broke up, we had a quarrel which was started becoz......
1) my birthday is coming (mid November), and i always had a unfulfilled wish, and that was to book a chalet in sentosa and enjoy with my girl for a day. we can will have the most romantic day together without anyone bothering us...but she dun want to, she insist we jus go for a simple dinner and a present will do...(is my wish too demending??)
2)i'm a 3rd year poly student, and my girl jus started working, and after she started working there were a few changes in her:-
1.more attitude
2. more moody
3. last time during school days, when i ask her out she sure go out with me, but now,she nv ask me out, and when i ask her out, she have to see whether she want anot...
4.now that she has started working, when i hug her or put my hand on her waist, she pull away my hand...and when i wanna kiss her she turn away...giving lame reasons like ITS PUBLIC!!
can anyone give me comment on this??i'm really heart broken, frankly speaking, i do love her still, and i cant bear to see this relation end like this..eveytime when she is moody, i try to cheer her up, but usually get scolded in the end....BUt when i gets moody, she get angry with me*funny right?? BUT i dun blame her...i those who believe in give and take...but i've noticed that she is oonly taking wat i give and not giving wat i need
Haiz....at first i tot what people say about student and a working partner is not true...but now it has happen to me...haiz...help me!!!! -
Get over it if she has a change of heart.Its obvious.
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the transition from a student to a working adult has yet claimed another victim.
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work changes mindsetsOriginally posted by s|nNeD:the transition from a student to a working adult has yet claimed another victim. -
perhaps she need time to adjust.... she just started workiing?
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Firstly.. its definitely not becos of your bday thing you both quarrel and broke up.. it's jus an excuse and a good reason for her to end this relationship... She had long time in her to end it.. But then she doesn't know how and where to start from.. So now that you both are arguing over this small little matter.. mine as well call it off..Originally posted by NaZtAzi0:its been 2yrs9mths with my girlfriend, and now we jus broke up, we had a quarrel which was started becoz......
1) my birthday is coming (mid November), and i always had a unfulfilled wish, and that was to book a chalet in sentosa and enjoy with my girl for a day. we can will have the most romantic day together without anyone bothering us...but she dun want to, she insist we jus go for a simple dinner and a present will do...(is my wish too demending??)
2)i'm a 3rd year poly student, and my girl jus started working, and after she started working there were a few changes in her:-
1.more attitude
2. more moody
3. last time during school days, when i ask her out she sure go out with me, but now,she nv ask me out, and when i ask her out, she have to see whether she want anot...
4.now that she has started working, when i hug her or put my hand on her waist, she pull away my hand...and when i wanna kiss her she turn away...giving lame reasons like ITS PUBLIC!!
can anyone give me comment on this??i'm really heart broken, frankly speaking, i do love her still, and i cant bear to see this relation end like this..eveytime when she is moody, i try to cheer her up, but usually get scolded in the end....BUt when i gets moody, she get angry with me*funny right?? BUT i dun blame her...i those who believe in give and take...but i've noticed that she is oonly taking wat i give and not giving wat i need
Haiz....at first i tot what people say about student and a working partner is not true...but now it has happen to me...haiz...help me!!!!
Well.. when one started to work.. environment change.. and then you also get to meet more people in the society.. intereact more also.. she also need to adapt to the changes.. But then.. her drastic change in her and towards you and this relationship changes alot.. the topics that you used to talk to seems so different.. it seems tat you both are drifted apart.. she begin to take things for granted..
If you really feel that you need an explanation on this.. then call her one day and jus talked about as a friend... since both aren't together anymore.. Ask her what really happen to her.. She might have reason reacting in such a way.. But remember when you talked don't ever raise your voice.. talk in a lower tone.. and stay calm.. Slowly talk and let her open up..
But if she really insisted not to get back together don't force her.. though you really do love her alot.. get the reason and be happy with it.. happiness does not depend on outward things... but on the way we see them.. Move on.. and start afresh..
Cheers..
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how old are you two?Originally posted by NaZtAzi0:its been 2yrs9mths with my girlfriend, and now we jus broke up, we had a quarrel which was started becoz......
1) my birthday is coming (mid November), and i always had a unfulfilled wish, and that was to book a chalet in sentosa and enjoy with my girl for a day. we can will have the most romantic day together without anyone bothering us...but she dun want to, she insist we jus go for a simple dinner and a present will do...(is my wish too demending??)
2)i'm a 3rd year poly student, and my girl jus started working, and after she started working there were a few changes in her:-
1.more attitude
2. more moody
3. last time during school days, when i ask her out she sure go out with me, but now,she nv ask me out, and when i ask her out, she have to see whether she want anot...
4.now that she has started working, when i hug her or put my hand on her waist, she pull away my hand...and when i wanna kiss her she turn away...giving lame reasons like ITS PUBLIC!!
can anyone give me comment on this??i'm really heart broken, frankly speaking, i do love her still, and i cant bear to see this relation end like this..eveytime when she is moody, i try to cheer her up, but usually get scolded in the end....BUt when i gets moody, she get angry with me*funny right?? BUT i dun blame her...i those who believe in give and take...but i've noticed that she is oonly taking wat i give and not giving wat i need
Haiz....at first i tot what people say about student and a working partner is not true...but now it has happen to me...haiz...help me!!!! -
it's usually very sad to see this kinda things happen.. together so long, den in the end break up because u met someone nicer.. heard of the student and the flower story a not?
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IT'S OVER.. Why brood over it...? Think about how to go along with your own life...? Since you've already mentioned that you've been giving and she's only taking... And that both of ya are not happy together... Then how you know this would not be a better turn out...?Originally posted by NaZtAzi0:its been 2yrs9mths with my girlfriend, and now we jus broke up, we had a quarrel which was started becoz......
1) my birthday is coming (mid November), and i always had a unfulfilled wish, and that was to book a chalet in sentosa and enjoy with my girl for a day. we can will have the most romantic day together without anyone bothering us...but she dun want to, she insist we jus go for a simple dinner and a present will do...(is my wish too demending??)
2)i'm a 3rd year poly student, and my girl jus started working, and after she started working there were a few changes in her:-
1.more attitude
2. more moody
3. last time during school days, when i ask her out she sure go out with me, but now,she nv ask me out, and when i ask her out, she have to see whether she want anot...
4.now that she has started working, when i hug her or put my hand on her waist, she pull away my hand...and when i wanna kiss her she turn away...giving lame reasons like ITS PUBLIC!!
can anyone give me comment on this??i'm really heart broken, frankly speaking, i do love her still, and i cant bear to see this relation end like this..eveytime when she is moody, i try to cheer her up, but usually get scolded in the end....BUt when i gets moody, she get angry with me*funny right?? BUT i dun blame her...i those who believe in give and take...but i've noticed that she is oonly taking wat i give and not giving wat i need
Haiz....at first i tot what people say about student and a working partner is not true...but now it has happen to me...haiz...help me!!!! -
wads that?Originally posted by beagle:it's usually very sad to see this kinda things happen.. together so long, den in the end break up because u met someone nicer.. heard of the student and the flower story a not? -
wat story is tat??? care to share???Originally posted by beagle:it's usually very sad to see this kinda things happen.. together so long, den in the end break up because u met someone nicer.. heard of the student and the flower story a not?
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me oso wanna knowOriginally posted by Haix:wat story is tat??? care to share??? -
tt story lo... but for those who dunno...
One day, a teacher brought a student to a big field, filled with beautiful flowers and green grass. The teacher asked the student to walk straight through the field, and pick one flower which he thinks is the most beautiful, ".. but ur only able to choose ONE flower, just one, and bring the flower back to me" the teacher said. So the boy started walking across... a few minutes later, the student returned empty handed, and the teacher asked him, "why didn't you pick a flower?" The boy said, "I was walking across the field when i saw this really beautiful flower, but when i thought about the flowers up ahead in the field, i thought maybe there would be a better looking one, but i didn't see anyone more beautiful than the one i saw before." To which the teacher said, "Life is just like this field, full of beautiful flowers, some better looking than the other ones, but if you decide to let go of the ONE flower u think is really beautiful, in search of a better one, sometimes you may never ever find the one u really want."
Guys, please treasure your current gf/bf, don't leave them just because u think that someone else better may be out there, true, there are some instances where there ARE better ones, but usually, u'll just lose the one u have, and never get someone as good as him or her -
quite nice...Originally posted by beagle:tt story lo... but for those who dunno...
One day, a teacher brought a student to a big field, filled with beautiful flowers and green grass. The teacher asked the student to walk straight through the field, and pick one flower which he thinks is the most beautiful, ".. but ur only able to choose ONE flower, just one, and bring the flower back to me" the teacher said. So the boy started walking across... a few minutes later, the student returned empty handed, and the teacher asked him, "why didn't you pick a flower?" The boy said, "I was walking across the field when i saw this really beautiful flower, but when i thought about the flowers up ahead in the field, i thought maybe there would be a better looking one, but i didn't see anyone more beautiful than the one i saw before." To which the teacher said, "Life is just like this field, full of beautiful flowers, some better looking than the other ones, but if you decide to let go of the ONE flower u think is really beautiful, in search of a better one, sometimes you may never ever find the one u really want."
Guys, please treasure your current gf/bf, don't leave them just because u think that someone else better may be out there, true, there are some instances where there ARE better ones, but usually, u'll just lose the one u have, and never get someone as good as him or her