Originally posted by the_don:grrr..... my mind is again filled with questions that i want to ask my ex-s and watevers. i just don't get it why they treated me so and i just want to know the truth even if it is my worse fears. should i ask them? it seems so stupid to be call them up and asking questions like "were you just playing with my feelings?". i don't even know if they would answer my questions truthfully. i know everyone tells me to not think about the past, i got a wonderful partner now (i agree he is awesome), but ever so often, the past pops it's ugly head and i slip into this depressed mood. it is really bad for me. just recently i read about being a manic depressive and i realise i qualify
. should i call them up and ask? i am hoping it would bring forth some closure in my life. i just want to stop hurting and be truely happy.
Originally posted by HENG@:argh i hear the wind escaping thru gaps in the teeth.![]()
you.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Who's the feline
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Yes. Would ask you not to dig back into the past and be contented.Originally posted by the_don:grrr..... my mind is again filled with questions that i want to ask my ex-s and watevers. i just don't get it why they treated me so and i just want to know the truth even if it is my worse fears. should i ask them? it seems so stupid to be call them up and asking questions like "were you just playing with my feelings?". i don't even know if they would answer my questions truthfully. i know everyone tells me to not think about the past, i got a wonderful partner now (i agree he is awesome), but ever so often, the past pops it's ugly head and i slip into this depressed mood. it is really bad for me. just recently i read about being a manic depressive and i realise i qualify
. should i call them up and ask? i am hoping it would bring forth some closure in my life. i just want to stop hurting and be truely happy.
Originally posted by HENG@:you.
I speaka da engrish. You are very beautiflu. Ver is da toilet?
Ja. So I speaka da engrish. You are very beautiflu. Ver is da toilet?Originally posted by FeowFeow:My gdness, u go over-da-seas to study, & come back wif Euro-da-pean accent-ah?
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Sometimes it's just emotional waves... They might come and go... It might not really be the matters themselves... Learn to take it easy as if it's a mood swing yeah...?Originally posted by the_don:Thanks RP jie (aka FeowFeow), Devil, Choco and gerrykoh for all your advice. I'm not so frustrated about it now and am trying to let sleeping dogs lie. maybe with time i would be able to leave behind these baggages.
and thanks Heng for dropping by. and da toilet is at da back :mgreen:
vhy is da toilet alvays at da back? Vhen can someone build a toilet at da front?!Originally posted by the_don:Thanks RP jie (aka FeowFeow), Devil, Choco and gerrykoh for all your advice. I'm not so frustrated about it now and am trying to let sleeping dogs lie. maybe with time i would be able to leave behind these baggages.
and thanks Heng for dropping by. and da toilet is at da back :mgreen:
cos if it's at the front.... u shd have passed by and seen it by now isn't it??Originally posted by HENG@:vhy is da toilet alvays at da back? Vhen can someone build a toilet at da front?!
but I do not know how to read da engrish signs...Originally posted by Estee:cos if it's at the front.... u shd have passed by and seen it by now isn't it??![]()
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Originally posted by the_don:Thanks RP jie (aka FeowFeow), Devil, Choco and gerrykoh for all your advice. I'm not so frustrated about it now and am trying to let sleeping dogs lie. maybe with time i would be able to leave behind these baggages.
and thanks Heng for dropping by. and da toilet is at da back :mgreen:
Don't quite agree... Going through a break up don't necessarily mean that you need to 'change' or even 'learn something' from it... Perhaps it's just human's instinct... That's why often people who suffer break ups without knowing the actual reason(s) behind might suffer a 'withdrawal' after that...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Remember there was once my fren suffered a break up and was really weak...cried, din eat..no strength to even walk..
Then in sch, we talked in out with her..adults say when a guy wana break up with u, he must let u noe the reason. I duno..they say it's a must..if not how do u noe wat needs to be changed?
I will ask....but be prepared to hear what u dun want to hear...and get hurt again..
Originally posted by Devil1976:Don't quite agree... Going through a break up don't necessarily mean that you need to 'change' or even 'learn something' from it... Perhaps it's just human's instinct... That's why often people who suffer break ups without knowing the actual reason(s) behind might suffer a 'withdrawal' after that...