out of point has got nothing to do with me le...Originally posted by gkokm21:to windjammer: you are out of point.....
please make constructive comments.....
well said.. but that isn't the case in reality... tell me who dun bother abt what others said abt them ?? i think everyone will bother abt what ppl said .. more or less ....Originally posted by gkokm21:especially those who do not dare to express themliking for someone because of being afraid os being called desparate or nobody -wants-you labelling.
forget about what the rest of the world will call you, critise you, laugh at you,
those people will 99% not dare to do it themselves given your postion.
remeber if you cannot overcome this mentality , you miss the chance, and so you wait.. and wait... and wait.......
IT IS your own loss not other people.
in general, caring about what others might say and making decision just to save your face is a BAD BAD thing that applies to everytinhg in life.
remeber, it is your own loss if you miss the chance.
so go out girls and achieve equlaity of gender. i know its hard to be the leading such a notion. but you will get to enjoy the benefits first.
i am a guy. but i am not saying this so that i will get attached loh.......
jus expresing my thots. and i dun believe in love loh..........
me currently in nus engineering EEE year 2 . anyine also in same place or near me....?
like i said in my earlier post...Originally posted by justin_12345:well said.. but that isn't the case in reality... tell me when dun bother abt what others said abt them ?? i think everyone will bother abt what ppl said .. more or less ....
in this world that we live in , guys are always the hunter... we r supposed to take the initiatives ... no choice ...
it is not easy to call a gal to take the initiative... it takes a real brave one to take the first step.. be it a guy or a gal...
Originally posted by gkokm21:No no.. u are wanting to get attached, i must say this is a cool attempt to be sensitive and new age! Hope it works! But i prefer to go with the traditional male YUARGGH!! *ROAR! attempt meself =)
especially those who do not dare to express themliking for someone because of being afraid os being called desparate or nobody -wants-you labelling.
forget about what the rest of the world will call you, critise you, laugh at you,
those people will 99% not dare to do it themselves given your postion.
remeber if you cannot overcome this mentality , you miss the chance, and so you wait.. and wait... and wait.......
IT IS your own loss not other people.
in general, caring about what others might say and making decision just to save your face is a BAD BAD thing that applies to everytinhg in life.
remeber, it is your own loss if you miss the chance.
so go out girls and achieve equlaity of gender. i know its hard to be the leading such a notion. but you will get to enjoy the benefits first.
[b]i am a guy. but i am not saying this so that i will get attached loh.......
jus expresing my thots. and i dun believe in love loh..........
me currently in nus engineering EEE year 2 . anyine also in same place or near me....?[/b]
yup i agree with you. i believe in SEIZING THE DAY!! CARPE DIEM... but i sometimes wait for some time.... unless the feelings are damn strong, i jus let it go... if the feelings are too strong, u cant afford to let the chance slip past.Originally posted by gkokm21:especially those who do not dare to express themliking for someone because of being afraid os being called desparate or nobody -wants-you labelling.
forget about what the rest of the world will call you, critise you, laugh at you,
those people will 99% not dare to do it themselves given your postion.
remeber if you cannot overcome this mentality , you miss the chance, and so you wait.. and wait... and wait.......
IT IS your own loss not other people.
in general, caring about what others might say and making decision just to save your face is a BAD BAD thing that applies to everytinhg in life.
remeber, it is your own loss if you miss the chance.
so go out girls and achieve equlaity of gender. i know its hard to be the leading such a notion. but you will get to enjoy the benefits first.
i am a guy. but i am not saying this so that i will get attached loh.......
jus expresing my thots. and i dun believe in love loh..........
me currently in nus engineering EEE year 2 . anyine also in same place or near me....?
Only to you people who are stuck in confucianist CHING CHONG mentality. But hmmm i was chased by girls, but wad put me off was that none of the girls made me feel good.. i.e. they were not very nice people. That was why i got put off.Originally posted by gerrykoh:I guess it is ok to indicate to the guys u are interested in them but don't think it is a good idea to actively chase a guy. It puts him off!
sounds like the kind of advise which some pple give without sparing a thought for the person(s) he's meant to be advising.Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... Not sure what kinda of 'advice' is this... But I guess it's 'to each their own'...?![]()
Mmm... Yup... A rather 'personal' kinda feeling... Perhaps it's more like expressing how he was feeling then...? Could be due to some things he've encountered in his own personal life...? That's why it's posted in AA in the 1st place...?Originally posted by jOhO:sounds like the kind of advise which some pple give without sparing a thought for the person(s) he's meant to be advising.
more like preaching if you ask me. then again, at least prechers have supporting evidence based on books, documents and history which they believe is true. this fella? based on his keyboard, internet connection and monitor?