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Will gals out there still fall in love with a guy who has a child?
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Why not?
If so there would be this word called step-mother -
My aunt. Juz got married.. now a step-mom with 2 nottie boys..Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:Will gals out there still fall in love with a guy who has a child?
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But does this acceptance only applicable to women in the 60s-80s? Cos nowadays gals are more sophisticated and with new modern thinking, they will find it hard to accept this as there are loads of obstacles?Originally posted by elindra:Why not?
If so there would be this word called step-mother -
If my lahling had a child, I still wld've fallen in love wif him : )
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:Will gals out there still fall in love with a guy who has a child? -
Not true reallyOriginally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:But does this acceptance only applicable to women in the 60s-80s? Cos nowadays gals are more sophisticated and with new modern thinking, they will find it hard to accept this as there are loads of obstacles?
In any era there will be lots of obsacles -
You may say this because you love him now. But what if say, in the first place, you and him are not an item and he tries to court you. He tells you that he has a child. When you hear this, won't you immediately remove the idea of giving him a chance to let him court you and discover his fine characteristics?Originally posted by FeowFeow:If my lahling had a child, I still wld've fallen in love wif him : )
FeowFeow -
Maybe..? I guess it's all rather subjective..? As in his approaches and the girl's character..?Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:You may say this because you love him now. But what if say, in the first place, you and him are not an item and he tries to court you. He tells you that he has a child. When you hear this, won't you immediately remove the idea of giving him a chance to let him court you and discover his fine characteristics? -
It all depends on several factors:
1. Understanding n open-minded girl. Girl who loves children. Can communicate well with kids.
2. How notti are the kids. Whether they accept their new step mum
3. Her own family acceptance
4. Whether husband is dependable or go around impregnating more women
5. How much girl loves guy -
sure! why not?
maybe its more appealing? hahaha
my aunt married somebody with a kid too hmmm yep
happily married too! -
How i noe?
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If there are women who fall in love with men who already have families, i don't see why not.Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:Will gals out there still fall in love with a guy who has a child?
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Regardless of how sophisicated their thinking may be, all women want a man who is reliable and has a sense of security. A man who can handle his career and family well fits that description well.
So why wouldn't the females fall for him?
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Isn't it abit pompous to sez this kinda thg when u dunno the extent of my r'ship wif my guy? We were best frens rite before we started, & I'd seen him thru a whole lotta heartbreak & vice versa.
If he had a child before he courted me, I still wld've accepted him.
Moral of the story: Think before u speak, it may offend.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:You may say this because you love him now. But what if say, in the first place, you and him are not an item and he tries to court you. He tells you that he has a child. When you hear this, won't you immediately remove the idea of giving him a chance to let him court you and discover his fine characteristics? -
I apologise if I have offended you in any ways. Actually was just quoting an example. Didn't know you will be offended by that. Peace..Originally posted by FeowFeow:Isn't it abit pompous to sez this kinda thg when u dunno the extent of my r'ship wif my guy? We were best frens rite before we started, & I'd seen him thru a whole lotta heartbreak & vice versa.
If he had a child before he courted me, I still wld've accepted him.
Moral of the story: Think before u speak, it may offend.
FeowFeow -
X 2. Yeah.. Don't think he meant to be offensive lah.... Relax okie...? vOriginally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:I apologise if I have offended you in any ways. Actually was just quoting an example. Didn't know you will be offended by that. Peace..
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Nothing in this world is an easy task, including love.Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:But does this acceptance only applicable to women in the 60s-80s? Cos nowadays gals are more sophisticated and with new modern thinking, they will find it hard to accept this as there are loads of obstacles?
If the gal truly loves a guy, she will accept him for who he is. -
I won't look after another woman's kid . Not related by blood therefore not my problem. If the guy wants to keep his kid , it is fine - just don't expect me to look after his child. He can look after the kid himself.