I need some opinion here...pls help. Thanks
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okie..there has been a question dat has been bugging me. i had told myself i wud have absolutely nothing to do with him again, to show my hatred, when I saw him this morning, I looked away and refused to even say hi to him. Yes, it is sad the way things have to turn out...and to think I used to think that our friendship has so much potential to blossom into a beautiful relationship. but oh well, it is just simply not meant to be. i think he implied dat i m not smart enuff for him, so now i m more concerned abt my studies than ever, i want to show it to him dat i can do it.
I remember last time...i promised him dat i wud take him out on his bday. i told him dat i wud make it a very big celebration for him, and i even planned what to buy for him. but with the things dat are happening now, i dun feel like celebrating his bday wif him anymore. i can't even look at his face without getting all angry and disappointed, how can i even have dinner with him? but i am sumone who really hate to break my promise. so i m not sure what i shud do. i wanted to bring him out last time because i felt like i owed him for the amount of money that he has spent on me thruout our 'dates' but now...
i really dun wan to hate him. but sumtimes i cant help it. i m immersing myself wif my work right now and it feels good, but i m still hurting inside. i do not think i can face him even as a fren again. so ppl, tell me what i shud do when his bday comes by next year?
i.c.y -
would u celebrate birthday for someone who you don't even consider as your friend?
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good question. dat really helps. i dunno how things will change in a year time but if it remains the way it is now...i dun tink i will see him anymore. dat means i shud add another broken promise to my listOriginally posted by Haze|:would u celebrate birthday for someone who you don't even consider as your friend?
i.c.y -
Circumstances change. Don't blame yourself because of that.
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i guess. i m trying to live with it now. i have learned yet another valuable lesson and dat is all dat matters...Originally posted by littlebeaker:Circumstances change. Don't blame yourself because of that.
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how many promises have we made in our lives. and how many are we able to keep. no one can predict what the future holds.. i've heard lotsa plp saying that they are gonna be together forever when they are lovey dovey but how many of them actually hold on to what they say. if both of you no longer have feelings for each other, or even come to the extend of hating each other, i think even he wouldn't want to celebrate his bd with you.Originally posted by icyprincess:okie..there has been a question dat has been bugging me. i had told myself i wud have absolutely nothing to do with him again, to show my hatred, when I saw him this morning, I looked away and refused to even say hi to him. Yes, it is sad the way things have to turn out...and to think I used to think that our friendship has so much potential to blossom into a beautiful relationship. but oh well, it is just simply not meant to be. i think he implied dat i m not smart enuff for him, so now i m more concerned abt my studies than ever, i want to show it to him dat i can do it.
I remember last time...i promised him dat i wud take him out on his bday. i told him dat i wud make it a very big celebration for him, and i even planned what to buy for him. but with the things dat are happening now, i dun feel like celebrating his bday wif him anymore. i can't even look at his face without getting all angry and disappointed, how can i even have dinner with him? but i am sumone who really hate to break my promise. so i m not sure what i shud do. i wanted to bring him out last time because i felt like i owed him for the amount of money that he has spent on me thruout our 'dates' but now...
i really dun wan to hate him. but sumtimes i cant help it. i m immersing myself wif my work right now and it feels good, but i m still hurting inside. i do not think i can face him even as a fren again. so ppl, tell me what i shud do when his bday comes by next year?
i.c.y
sia ding jue xing.. wang le ta bah -
Originally posted by dibilo:
i like this. I will learn how to forget. I dunno how long this hatred will last. i will let time to heal my heart.
how many promises have we made in our lives. and how many are we able to keep. no one can predict what the future holds.. i've heard lotsa plp saying that they are gonna be together forever when they are lovey dovey but how many of them actually hold on to what they say. if both of you no longer have feelings for each other, or even come to the extend of hating each other, i think even he wouldn't want to celebrate his bd with you.
[b]sia ding jue xing.. wang le ta bah[/b]
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Just send him a card..?Originally posted by icyprincess:okie..there has been a question dat has been bugging me. i had told myself i wud have absolutely nothing to do with him again, to show my hatred, when I saw him this morning, I looked away and refused to even say hi to him. Yes, it is sad the way things have to turn out...and to think I used to think that our friendship has so much potential to blossom into a beautiful relationship. but oh well, it is just simply not meant to be. i think he implied dat i m not smart enuff for him, so now i m more concerned abt my studies than ever, i want to show it to him dat i can do it.
I remember last time...i promised him dat i wud take him out on his bday. i told him dat i wud make it a very big celebration for him, and i even planned what to buy for him. but with the things dat are happening now, i dun feel like celebrating his bday wif him anymore. i can't even look at his face without getting all angry and disappointed, how can i even have dinner with him? but i am sumone who really hate to break my promise. so i m not sure what i shud do. i wanted to bring him out last time because i felt like i owed him for the amount of money that he has spent on me thruout our 'dates' but now...
i really dun wan to hate him. but sumtimes i cant help it. i m immersing myself wif my work right now and it feels good, but i m still hurting inside. i do not think i can face him even as a fren again. so ppl, tell me what i shud do when his bday comes by next year?
i.c.y -
dats the thing. if i show dat i remember he will feel like i shud make it a bigger celebration since last time he spent so much on what is supposed to be "my advanced birthday celebration"Originally posted by Devil1976:Just send him a card..?
i.c.y -
Nay.. You are both no longer kids yeah...? He can just take it or leave it...?Originally posted by icyprincess:dats the thing. if i show dat i remember he will feel like i shud make it a bigger celebration since last time he spent so much on what is supposed to be "my advanced birthday celebration"
i.c.y -
I think I love U !!!
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take a digicam picture of ur cheebai...send it to him with the message..."horny or not? see what you missed out on you dickhead...unhappy birthday wankboy"
i guarantee you he'll be ringing your phone non-stop the next day...stupid bugger... -
that is so FUCKING disgusting u FREAK!!Originally posted by mahai102:take a digicam picture of ur cheebai...send it to him with the message..."horny or not? see what you missed out on you dickhead...unhappy birthday wankboy"
i guarantee you he'll be ringing your phone non-stop the next day...stupid bugger... -
yeah... normally i "really hate to break my promise" too, but promises are made under certain situations... and sometimes those situations changes... so how? i guess we have to evaluate the new situation and decide if the particular promise still holds... love can change, why not promises that come with love...
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i guess that you are right. i just feel sad at how fast things can change, dats all.Originally posted by MeoW_MeoW:yeah... normally i "really hate to break my promise" too, but promises are made under certain situations... and sometimes those situations changes... so how? i guess we have to evaluate the new situation and decide if the particular promise still holds... love can change, why not promises that come with love...
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i.c.y -
U don't owe him anything since he gave willingly.
If u are no longer friends, then don't need to celebrate.
U only be nice to people who deserves it -
STILL agonising about the same guy?
Getting over someone means NOT letting him influence how you feel & what you do.
If you're over him, why should you care about his birthday? Who gives a damn how much he spent on you, or what promises you made? I bet he doesn't. And even if he does, so what?
You're totally missing the point here.