my sex life
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hi aunty agony
i have been in a relationship with my bf for so long and going to get married soon in a few years time...........
my bf would always want to take teh first step to have sex with me..........however i feel reluctant cos i feels that i am like a prostitute,,,,,,,why do i feel this way....maybe it's that i always never ask for it....and he is always the one to raise the qn.............am i normal??? -
I think that's perfectly fine not to have pre-martial sex. Just tell him that you want to save it for the day you are married to him! =POriginally posted by Puremilk28:hi aunty agony
i have been in a relationship with my bf for so long and going to get married soon in a few years time...........
my bf would always want to take teh first step to have sex with me..........however i feel reluctant cos i feels that i am like a prostitute,,,,,,,why do i feel this way....maybe it's that i always never ask for it....and he is always the one to raise the qn.............am i normal??? -
Just tell him that you are not comfortable with that, I think he will understand that.Originally posted by Puremilk28:hi aunty agony
i have been in a relationship with my bf for so long and going to get married soon in a few years time...........
my bf would always want to take teh first step to have sex with me..........however i feel reluctant cos i feels that i am like a prostitute,,,,,,,why do i feel this way....maybe it's that i always never ask for it....and he is always the one to raise the qn.............am i normal??? -
Is he your 1st bf?Originally posted by Puremilk28:hi aunty agony
i have been in a relationship with my bf for so long and going to get married soon in a few years time...........
my bf would always want to take teh first step to have sex with me..........however i feel reluctant cos i feels that i am like a prostitute,,,,,,,why do i feel this way....maybe it's that i always never ask for it....and he is always the one to raise the qn.............am i normal??? -
Well, if you're not ready for sex, then don't do it. Having sex and making love is 2 different things. Girls tend to be more subtle is asking for sex, but more of them are getting bold these days.Originally posted by Puremilk28:hi aunty agony
i have been in a relationship with my bf for so long and going to get married soon in a few years time...........
my bf would always want to take teh first step to have sex with me..........however i feel reluctant cos i feels that i am like a prostitute,,,,,,,why do i feel this way....maybe it's that i always never ask for it....and he is always the one to raise the qn.............am i normal???
Just don't do it for the sake of pleasing him. If you don't want it, tell him. -
The Devil is always so noisy...Originally posted by Devil1976:Is he your 1st bf?
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no he is not the 1st
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no it's not normal to feel like you're a prostitute for your boyfriend. not that i'm trying to make u feel worse (or better, depends on how u look at it) but a prostitute gets paid.Originally posted by Puremilk28:hi aunty agony
i have been in a relationship with my bf for so long and going to get married soon in a few years time...........
my bf would always want to take teh first step to have sex with me..........however i feel reluctant cos i feels that i am like a prostitute,,,,,,,why do i feel this way....maybe it's that i always never ask for it....and he is always the one to raise the qn.............am i normal???
ok anywayz, best to talk to him about it. i think it's just your insecurities and erm... frigidity. time to open up and talk about it.
of course if in the first place u NEVER wanted to make love/have sex with him well... then it's a bit too late now, yeah sure u can tell him no more from now till we're married, but that's a different story liow, go open a new thread.
good luck! -
Tell him you prefer the guarantee of being married first . If he cannot wait , then he is not the right person. If he uses the " if you love me , you will do it " , you must use the "if You LOVE me , you will wait" excuse.Originally posted by Puremilk28:hi aunty agony
i have been in a relationship with my bf for so long and going to get married soon in a few years time...........
my bf would always want to take teh first step to have sex with me..........however i feel reluctant cos i feels that i am like a prostitute,,,,,,,why do i feel this way....maybe it's that i always never ask for it....and he is always the one to raise the qn.............am i normal???
I had a friend who did it with her fiance and guess what? He dumped her soon after. So make sure you don't make the same mistake as she did -
Dun do anything ur not comfortable with to pls anyone.
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So he want the milk NOW but only buy the cow in a few years time?Originally posted by Puremilk28:hi aunty agony
i have been in a relationship with my bf for so long and going to get married soon in a few years time...........
my bf would always want to take teh first step to have sex with me..........however i feel reluctant cos i feels that i am like a prostitute,,,,,,,why do i feel this way....maybe it's that i always never ask for it....and he is always the one to raise the qn.............am i normal???
Tell him how u feel. Imagine the future wiv him. If u're not comfortable now, get out of the r/s before u have the issue of kids to deal wiv too. -
So many relationships have you had in the past? Anything intimate for the past relationships?Originally posted by Puremilk28:no he is not the 1st -
If u dun feel like doing it.. den dun do it.. simple..