To be or not to be? To have or not to have?
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Its been sometime since I am posting here again.
Sometimes I feel lonely and think of having a companion or someone to be with me to share the pain and the joy of my everyday life.
But again, when I think of having of it I have some amount of fear in me.
I do not want to be lonely but yet I am afraid of the friction between 2 person when being together. Its like some sort of torture in some ways.
Right now, I do not even know what do I really want?
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Relationship is very gratifying but i always believe we have to be happy with ourself first before getting into one. And R/S is not a temporary thing, it requires a lot of work and effort to make it successful. But the joy it brings can be immeasurable. Good luck wiv finding what u really want.Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Its been sometime since I am posting here again.
Sometimes I feel lonely and think of having a companion or someone to be with me to share the pain and the joy of my everyday life.
But again, when I think of having of it I have some amount of fear in me.
I do not want to be lonely but yet I am afraid of the friction between 2 person when being together. Its like some sort of torture in some ways.
Right now, I do not even know what do I really want? -
If you're not sure of what you want, I'll advise you personally... DON'T go into a relationship... It might not be fair to your potential gf...?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Its been sometime since I am posting here again.
Sometimes I feel lonely and think of having a companion or someone to be with me to share the pain and the joy of my everyday life.
But again, when I think of having of it I have some amount of fear in me.
I do not want to be lonely but yet I am afraid of the friction between 2 person when being together. Its like some sort of torture in some ways.
Right now, I do not even know what do I really want?
If you're lonely, go out with friends.... -
Shui Yuan... (Follow Where Fate Brings You...)
Good luck... At least you thought about the matter which I think is already very good...
Some people just rushed in... like me last time
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Hmm....so far, I do not have anyone in mind and at the same time scared of committment and many other issues involved.Originally posted by Devil1976:If you're not sure of what you want, I'll advise you personally... DON'T go into a relationship... It might not be fair to your potential gf...?
If you're lonely, go out with friends.... -
Sometimes I am thinking, am i suitable for a relationship???Originally posted by EricDraven:Shui Yuan... (Follow Where Fate Brings You...)
Good luck... At least you thought about the matter which I think is already very good...
Some people just rushed in... like me last time -
Don't start a relationship for the sake of having one.
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I understand how u feel... Feelin exactly the same nowOriginally posted by Seventh_Son:Its been sometime since I am posting here again.
Sometimes I feel lonely and think of having a companion or someone to be with me to share the pain and the joy of my everyday life.
But again, when I think of having of it I have some amount of fear in me.
I do not want to be lonely but yet I am afraid of the friction between 2 person when being together. Its like some sort of torture in some ways.
Right now, I do not even know what do I really want? -
I would not start one for the sake of having one.Originally posted by Crysania:Don't start a relationship for the sake of having one.
I would only start one if one can really touch my heart... -
For me,I have that feeling of loneliness and it really bugs me when I see other people who can chat up to girls well for I have a low self-esteem,I sometimes too feel lonely and I dunno if that feeling is me being childishOriginally posted by Seventh_Son:Its been sometime since I am posting here again.
Sometimes I feel lonely and think of having a companion or someone to be with me to share the pain and the joy of my everyday life.
But again, when I think of having of it I have some amount of fear in me.
I do not want to be lonely but yet I am afraid of the friction between 2 person when being together. Its like some sort of torture in some ways.
Right now, I do not even know what do I really want? -
CLEAR your mind 1st... No point rushing into things, not knowing what you'll be getting yourself into..?Originally posted by Seventh_Son:Hmm....so far, I do not have anyone in mind and at the same time scared of committment and many other issues involved. -
I have no problem talking to girls.Originally posted by StarPuppy:For me,I have that feeling of loneliness and it really bugs me when I see other people who can chat up to girls well for I have a low self-esteem,I sometimes too feel lonely and I dunno if that feeling is me being childish
For me is like to have or not to have situation. -
Hmm..... I was wondering wat do u mean by clearing ur mind? Coz i think i am in the same situation where i would like someone to share my joy and pain but still scared of commitment. Kinda need some enlightment.Originally posted by Devil1976:CLEAR your mind 1st... No point rushing into things, not knowing what you'll be getting yourself into..?
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I am not rushing into anything right now.Originally posted by Devil1976:CLEAR your mind 1st... No point rushing into things, not knowing what you'll be getting yourself into..?
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Meaning you enjoy life as it is... It can be nice to have a relationship and a company / partner to be with... But it's also equally important for you to realise not to be overly dependent on the relationship alone...Originally posted by Haix:Hmm..... I was wondering wat do u mean by clearing ur mind? Coz i think i am in the same situation where i would like someone to share my joy and pain but still scared of commitment. Kinda need some enlightment.
Think about what you want in life... Think about what are the crucial things you look out for in a relationship... When there's a suitable potential partner, see if you can really provide for each other...?