Still can't get over...
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I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...Just started this job for the 5th month. After starting work...problems coming to me...
My grandma passed away during the 2nd week of my work... GF left for other guy and yet lied to me. God-mum hospitalised after that but discharged already...Working also a headache...Don't know why after since i joined this company, loads of problems come to me...
I still couldn't forget her...though i don't expect to be together again cos i don't want to. In family financial stress...i need money...
It's really hurt...and depress in this life...What Shit Luck I Have!!?? -
In our lives, there are bound to be ups and downs. Just that in your case, its is unfortunate that things happened at the same time. Try to tackle them one at a time. Think too much of it wont hepl u much either.Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...Just started this job for the 5th month. After starting work...problems coming to me...
My grandma passed away during the 2nd week of my work... GF left for other guy and yet lied to me. God-mum hospitalised after that but discharged already...Working also a headache...Don't know why after since i joined this company, loads of problems come to me...
I still couldn't forget her...though i don't expect to be together again cos i don't want to. In family financial stress...i need money...
It's really hurt...and depress in this life...What Shit Luck I Have!!??
Be brave to face ur problems and conquer them. I believe its the change of environment that caused u to be stressed up. =) -
I symphatise for you. Sorry to hear so many things have happened when you started your new job.. Well.. In life.. things are like that.. There are times when it is the highest point in your life.. There are times when it is the lowest.. Well.. Luck plays a part right? Don worry.. Things will be over pretty soon.. Focus on your carrer.. Don worry abt bgr things.. Things will come into place in the future.. Cheer up.. Things will be better in no time..Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...Just started this job for the 5th month. After starting work...problems coming to me...
My grandma passed away during the 2nd week of my work... GF left for other guy and yet lied to me. God-mum hospitalised after that but discharged already...Working also a headache...Don't know why after since i joined this company, loads of problems come to me...
I still couldn't forget her...though i don't expect to be together again cos i don't want to. In family financial stress...i need money...
It's really hurt...and depress in this life...What Shit Luck I Have!!??
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not bad leh...chef become engineer...Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...
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It's TIME like these which you can really find out what you're MADE OF....?Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...Just started this job for the 5th month. After starting work...problems coming to me...
My grandma passed away during the 2nd week of my work... GF left for other guy and yet lied to me. God-mum hospitalised after that but discharged already...Working also a headache...Don't know why after since i joined this company, loads of problems come to me...
I still couldn't forget her...though i don't expect to be together again cos i don't want to. In family financial stress...i need money...
It's really hurt...and depress in this life...What Shit Luck I Have!!??
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I always believe there is a sliver lining in every dark cloud. Tough times dun last. But u sure can learn hell alot from those experience.
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Money...whole world is talking about money...Regretted for spending too much on entertainment fun before, and borrowing friends too much money.
Wanna quit my smoking habit, once i have the urge to stop it, problems come again which make me light one more cigeratte...At least i've stop drinking alcohol from daily to occasionally...and even gambling.
I'm trying to forcus on my career, but don't know why...I don't seems to have the mood to carry on work with this company. Wanna set business, friends supporting me, but what can i do? Maybe back to cooking...??
When will this end?So stressed up... Brother going to University next year after ORD. Parents working to support this family, and also my job to help...that's why frustrated...I'm still can't afford to support the family...
Love...Saw my ex with that guy in her working place, playing XBOX games after working hour. It's hurt to see this view though everyone say she's not worth it and also i don't wanna have any contact with her. $2200 that she owed don't know can take back or not, Keep avoiding my call and sms,hmmm...think she's not going to return anyway...
Life...?...? Too many holes infront of me in this straight path... -
when u r at the pit of ur life... there is no way to go but up...
Life will be better... -
One issue by one issue.. you have to draw line between your personally life and your work.. Don't messed up everything together.. You definitely cannot breathe.. Is not be cos of you joining this compnay then got problems.. even if you dun join this co. problems will come also.. you cannot hide.. or predict anything..Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...Just started this job for the 5th month. After starting work...problems coming to me...
My grandma passed away during the 2nd week of my work... GF left for other guy and yet lied to me. God-mum hospitalised after that but discharged already...Working also a headache...Don't know why after since i joined this company, loads of problems come to me...
I still couldn't forget her...though i don't expect to be together again cos i don't want to. In family financial stress...i need money...
It's really hurt...and depress in this life...What Shit Luck I Have!!??
Settle down your feelings now.. you are upset over your grandma's death.. and then came your gf's matter and your god-ma at least she's discharged.. Your mind is so confused now.. Be strong pal.. Don't put your personal thing in your work.. YOu needed money now.. you needed this job also..
As for your gf.. she cheated on you.. The more you should move on.. and get on with your life.. Prove and showed.. make her realised her mistake for cheating on you.. and letting a good guy go.. You must present well.. and live well.. Not happy also must live on.. happy oso live on.. Why not be happy..
Life is liek that.. full of ups and downs.. who has never been thru this.. everyone does.. your closed ones left you.. but then arent those having this feeling b4.. get over it.. and be stronger and happier than last time.. You could be like them too.. but are you willing to do it??
Have a clearer mind and think about it.. Do yuo want to live in misery.. and die in misery??
Cheers.. -
$ your ex owed you? Let it go...Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:Money...whole world is talking about money...Regretted for spending too much on entertainment fun before, and borrowing friends too much money.
Wanna quit my smoking habit, once i have the urge to stop it, problems come again which make me light one more cigeratte...At least i've stop drinking alcohol from daily to occasionally...and even gambling.
I'm trying to forcus on my career, but don't know why...I don't seems to have the mood to carry on work with this company. Wanna set business, friends supporting me, but what can i do? Maybe back to cooking...??
When will this end?So stressed up... Brother going to University next year after ORD. Parents working to support this family, and also my job to help...that's why frustrated...I'm still can't afford to support the family...
Love...Saw my ex with that guy in her working place, playing XBOX games after working hour. It's hurt to see this view though everyone say she's not worth it and also i don't wanna have any contact with her. $2200 that she owed don't know can take back or not, Keep avoiding my call and sms,hmmm...think she's not going to return anyway...
Life...?...? Too many holes infront of me in this straight path...
Change habits..? Don't just say it...? DO IT... One day... 2 days... A month... A year...
Holes on the road...? Where...? The path of your FUTURE is the way you CONSTRUCTS it TO BE.... -
Problems are like work. When you clump everything together, it looks hopeless, and you get tired just thinking and looking at it, and end up doing nothing.Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...Just started this job for the 5th month. After starting work...problems coming to me...
My grandma passed away during the 2nd week of my work... GF left for other guy and yet lied to me. God-mum hospitalised after that but discharged already...Working also a headache...Don't know why after since i joined this company, loads of problems come to me...
I still couldn't forget her...though i don't expect to be together again cos i don't want to. In family financial stress...i need money...
It's really hurt...and depress in this life...What Shit Luck I Have!!??
How many times have we seen our table being so messy, and just say 'Sian, so many things to do. So many things to clear.. i'll never get it done.' (And hence one of the mysteries of procrastination is solved). But IF you tackle it one by one, instead of letting life unfairly clump everything together, you'll stand a chance.
1. Your grandma's death.
Death is a hard thing to accept. Even after living through 2 friends who committed suicide, i must say i really wouldn't want to go through another, but i'm side-tracking.
Only time can heal this wound. Getting yourself busy with stuff helps, but in time it will heal...
2. GF.
What can i say? Perhaps you could have seen it coming, then again, maybe not. What's done is done, just forget about her. If you can get the money back, then good. If not.. *shrugs* It depends on how much you need the money, and since it looks like you need it a lot. Keep calling her. Since its a loan from you right? All loans should be repaid.
3. Money.
If you really have no choice, maybe you could resort to lending from friends and relatives, but this is only temporary...
The main problem i see here is your job. These problems add up, and is affecting your job. Try to focus on your job when you're working, and think about your other things when you're not.
As i said, don't lump everything together. Life is strange and cruel, when you don't need something, it comes. When you need something alot, it never will.
Lastly, do you have a religion? Talking to fellow religion mates, or friends about this will help alot.
Hope i'm able to help in some way.. -
if you dun really like or enjoy the job you are in now.. then before you quit go source for another job first.. at least when you leave the company.. you won't be wasting tme looking for a new one..Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:Money...whole world is talking about money...Regretted for spending too much on entertainment fun before, and borrowing friends too much money.
Wanna quit my smoking habit, once i have the urge to stop it, problems come again which make me light one more cigeratte...At least i've stop drinking alcohol from daily to occasionally...and even gambling.
I'm trying to forcus on my career, but don't know why...I don't seems to have the mood to carry on work with this company. Wanna set business, friends supporting me, but what can i do? Maybe back to cooking...??
When will this end?So stressed up... Brother going to University next year after ORD. Parents working to support this family, and also my job to help...that's why frustrated...I'm still can't afford to support the family...
Love...Saw my ex with that guy in her working place, playing XBOX games after working hour. It's hurt to see this view though everyone say she's not worth it and also i don't wanna have any contact with her. $2200 that she owed don't know can take back or not, Keep avoiding my call and sms,hmmm...think she's not going to return anyway...
Life...?...? Too many holes infront of me in this straight path...
If you have the determination to set up a business.. try something small first.. since you are a cook.. do something that you are good at.. COOKING! sert up a small food business.. can be selling small little snacks.. but of cos you must do some research first on the food business.. If you wan to start.. make it different.. but you must be prepared that for the first 6 months if can break even is very good liao..
As for your ex.. forget about the money.. dun think she will return it to you.. You have to move on.. holes.. can be repair.. if you allow to..
Cheers.. -
Thanks all for your precious advices...
Really appreciate it...I was trying and still trying...Thought i have too much miserable in my head, all mixed together...hope everything goes smoothly soon. -
Oh felt sooo sorry for ya... but to cheer u up alittle bit tell u one true story happening in sg. I sometimes felt so miserable like u b4, but after i came about his story, i felt im not miserable at all. Hope his story can help u in many ways.
Few months ago... he had an terrible accident. terrible brain concussion, skull even cracked leaving him to think, talk n walk 'slowly'(now gettin better). Actually i know him long b4 thru my frens n he is really a tough guy. Toally different frm wat he is now. N one day i got to meet him again (give my fren a ride to find him). He got no place to stay, step mother chase him outta house, siblings all not united, no money ( left bout 20 bucks), no work (or rather cant work cos of his injuries n his bank acc got voided n no money to open new acc cos work he found pay salary to his acc), uses an old free mobile with Mcard ( cos no money to subscribe n pay).
So u miserable or he huh?
Not trying to 'suan' u... but trying to help u don keep thinking u miserable.
Everthing's gonan be alrite -
*pat Pat*
u have to overcome these, if u dun, u r dragging everything along & being an unhappy dude.
nothing in this word comes free. . . when u want something u have to sacrifices for it.
hurts + depress + bad luck... what u're dragging on gives u what kind of life. you, yrself designated yr own life. . . if u try yr best to forgo everything. . . i'm sure u'll feel better
cheer up 
Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...Just started this job for the 5th month. After starting work...problems coming to me...
My grandma passed away during the 2nd week of my work... GF left for other guy and yet lied to me. God-mum hospitalised after that but discharged already...Working also a headache...Don't know why after since i joined this company, loads of problems come to me...
I still couldn't forget her...though i don't expect to be together again cos i don't want to. In family financial stress...i need money...
It's really hurt...and depress in this life...What Shit Luck I Have!!?? -
Hi Sankwa,Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:I used to be a chef before, now and Engineer...Just started this job for the 5th month. After starting work...problems coming to me...
My grandma passed away during the 2nd week of my work... GF left for other guy and yet lied to me. God-mum hospitalised after that but discharged already...Working also a headache...Don't know why after since i joined this company, loads of problems come to me...
I still couldn't forget her...though i don't expect to be together again cos i don't want to. In family financial stress...i need money...
It's really hurt...and depress in this life...What Shit Luck I Have!!??
I sympathise on ur tragic happenings that happen one by one. Normally when you start work at ur new work place, you have to get use to the environment and that takes time. I know you are depressed over what has happened to you lately but you have to seperate from personal and work. When you are in the office working, try to focus on your work and dun let your personal problems affect ur work performance in your new company. It's very crucial as you just joined and your performance is being monitored by your superior.
In life, it's like a cycle. Humans come into this world and leave eventually when they grew old. It's part and parcel of life which you can't change it. Girls? They are important but they aren't everything to a man! Right now you have to focus on your work, work hard but work smart too. Prove to your employer that you are an employee worth keeping! When a girl left you, there's bound to have dozens of reasons which sometimes you can never find out. But dun let this affect you in looking for another relationship! Concentrate on your career and build it up slowly. When your career is stablise, you have no worries in looking for a new gf.
Everyone has financial difficulties including me. But life has to move on. You can't let this affect you from living in this world and to survive. There are ups and downs in life which sometimes we have to make an effort to make it right. Although it's a bit hard but we have to persevere. Nothing is impossible in this world! You have to do your own thinking in what you want in life and what you want for your future. Dun let ppl make decisions for you. You make it yourself! -
u still have supporting friends around u.. cheer!!
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Thank you, everyone of you...
Warmest Regards -