It will be childish for one to get jealous over this.. if his gf is very confident of her own bf.. have trust and faith.. this kind of thing wont happen.. Lack of insecurity.. Of cos.. i know its rather hard for a girl not to get jealous.. this is what women best at! Well.. even i do have such feellings.. but on the other hand you think about it.. if you hold him too tight that he cant breathe soon.. he will burst out.. and cannot take it.. possessiveness take place..Originally posted by ahkico:My ex recently got a new gf.. We broke off almost a yr already.. But then.. Once in a while.. I mean b4 he got gf.. We went out tog, etc.. Nothin special.. But then is jus the both of us..
Then i told myself.. He now got gf le.. I won't meet him at all in person lor.. Jus contact thru msn will suffice..
Then in msn.. He says.. Free.. Can meet up lor.. I say don want.. He says.. Fine lor.. Don even want be friends..
I told him.. No lah.. Jus tat u now got gf le.. NOt convinent.. I very hmm.. Not say antisocial.. but i prefer small grp.. Don really mix around.. And he understands very well tat.. If we meet, it be only the both of us..
He says, nev mind de lah.. She won mind.. Haha.. I says, even she says don mind, her heart will mind..
Tat was yest.. 2dae i disturb him to see if he meant wat he said.. He meant it lor.. I tease him.. Ask him better go ask permission first.. But he kept quiet..
I am afraid lor.. I do wish to keep in contact wit him as gd friends.. But to meet him out and only the both of us? How will his gf feel?
I meant, if me.. I surely jealous to hell.. I hop he won go.. Unless.. Mayb if she is only a female friend.. but i doubt i can accept it so lor!
So.. Is it ok?
I mean to meet up with him to catch up.. Chat chat abit.. 1 part of mi wish to.. The other part of mi hop not to..
cAn give me advices.. Thanks!![]()
Contacts might be okay... If wanna go out, then better to go out in a GROUP?Originally posted by ahkico:My ex recently got a new gf.. We broke off almost a yr already.. But then.. Once in a while.. I mean b4 he got gf.. We went out tog, etc.. Nothin special.. But then is jus the both of us..
Then i told myself.. He now got gf le.. I won't meet him at all in person lor.. Jus contact thru msn will suffice..
Then in msn.. He says.. Free.. Can meet up lor.. I say don want.. He says.. Fine lor.. Don even want be friends..
I told him.. No lah.. Jus tat u now got gf le.. NOt convinent.. I very hmm.. Not say antisocial.. but i prefer small grp.. Don really mix around.. And he understands very well tat.. If we meet, it be only the both of us..
He says, nev mind de lah.. She won mind.. Haha.. I says, even she says don mind, her heart will mind..
Tat was yest.. 2dae i disturb him to see if he meant wat he said.. He meant it lor.. I tease him.. Ask him better go ask permission first.. But he kept quiet..
I am afraid lor.. I do wish to keep in contact wit him as gd friends.. But to meet him out and only the both of us? How will his gf feel?
I meant, if me.. I surely jealous to hell.. I hop he won go.. Unless.. Mayb if she is only a female friend.. but i doubt i can accept it so lor!
So.. Is it ok?
I mean to meet up with him to catch up.. Chat chat abit.. 1 part of mi wish to.. The other part of mi hop not to..
cAn give me advices.. Thanks!![]()
Hmm... Mayb i still do..Originally posted by nuchio:this is what i think :
he doesnt mind and so does she...
the only who mind is you....... BECAUSE YOU STILL CARE ABOUT HIM.
you dont want to be alone with him not because you are concerned about his gf being jealous....
but being with him alone reminds you that he is not yours.... and it hurts you.
do consider your intentions; dont be in denial.
Nicely said.Originally posted by nuchio:this is what i think :
he doesnt mind and so does she...
the only who mind is you....... BECAUSE YOU STILL CARE ABOUT HIM.
you dont want to be alone with him not because you are concerned about his gf being jealous....
but being with him alone reminds you that he is not yours.... and it hurts you.
do consider your intentions; dont be in denial.
Hmm.. For one.. I won't end up wantin to be his spare tyre coz.. Hmm.. CAn say his hurt towards mi is quite so deep tat i wouldn want to go back with him.. We quite exact opposites.. And i noe very well he isn the guy for mi.. Haha.. Hmm.. Mayb to mi he is lik tat.. But to others.. He much more considerate and carin.. So lucky her..Originally posted by aH_v:Nicely said.
Just except the facts bravely and move on. Otherwise, some things may just go wrong... i.e.
1. you ended up secretly want to be his spare tire.
2. he has a change in heart and started two timing.
3. you can't take the emotional stress and starts to break them up somehow.