what would you do..
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what would u do if u haf a dad who is unfaithful to ur mum who is really a very kind person who always give in to him and trust him. this dad fools ard outside having external relationship which is obviously unacceptable(perhaps even f*** ard outside) ?
for myself, i would lost all the respect for him. but dunno wad i could do.. -
First, see hw's ur mum feeling.Originally posted by Itachi:what would u do if u haf a dad who is unfaithful to ur mum who is really a very kind person who always give in to him and trust him. this dad fools ard outside having external relationship which is obviously unacceptable(perhaps even f*** ard outside) ?
for myself, i would lost all the respect for him. but dunno wad i could do..
2nd, hv a heart to heart chat with ur dad.
What u may see is an one sided pt of view. Not saying anything bad, just dat ur mum might be a very kind person but might nt understand wat ur dad wants.
On another pt of view, there r some untold problems in between. Or it's just a common problem of a male.
What u can do nw.... talk to ur mum more often.
Is there a necessary to solve the prob or end it? -
mum doesn't noe aniting. they hardly communicate.Originally posted by stormax:First, see hw's ur mum feeling.
2nd, hv a heart to heart chat with ur dad.
What u may see is an one sided pt of view. Not saying anything bad, just dat ur mum might be a very kind person but might nt understand wat ur dad wants.
On another pt of view, there r some untold problems in between. Or it's just a common problem of a male.
What u can do nw.... talk to ur mum more often.
Is there a necessary to solve the prob or end it? -
well u can steal his mistress... b nice to ur mum lor....Originally posted by Itachi:what would u do if u haf a dad who is unfaithful to ur mum who is really a very kind person who always give in to him and trust him. this dad fools ard outside having external relationship which is obviously unacceptable(perhaps even f*** ard outside) ?
for myself, i would lost all the respect for him. but dunno wad i could do.. -
Well.. same here too.. I'll lost my respect for him unless he brings me along.Originally posted by Itachi:what would u do if u haf a dad who is unfaithful to ur mum who is really a very kind person who always give in to him and trust him. this dad fools ard outside having external relationship which is obviously unacceptable(perhaps even f*** ard outside) ?
for myself, i would lost all the respect for him. but dunno wad i could do..
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Just joking.
Should such things happened, well, be prepared to give full support to your mum. If your mum can't take such events, better keep it low key and confront him in due respect. Asking him why he cheats and so on.
Remember, this is not about being the sole breadwinner and being man and so on. This is also not able you lecturing your dad. This is about your rights as a son and a member of the family to ask.
Ultimately, what do you want to achieve for the future of your family???
1. Pretend nothing has happened if he stops fooling around? And everyone seems happy.
2. See your parents divovce and wait for all hell to break loose?
3. Mum cried, then make a huge fuss follow by hang herself?
4. Son and dad fight to death?
Think about it before you make your next few moves. -
I wouldn't let her know.
Then i would talk to him, man to man, and ask him why.
If its not too late to turn back, i would advise him to.
If there's really no hope, then i'll start praying, and hope it'll work.
Otherwise... just keep the truth for as long as i can i guess.