My girlfriend caught me seeing porn, how do I convince her
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Ur nick explains it all.
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Porns are simply cheap trills which 'may' bares more harm than educational messages. So watch it with the right mindset as many porns are simply an act of some sick fantasies.. i.e. rape, mind control, etc...
Oh.. Porns can be as addictive as drugs.
Regardless, it is pretty normal for guys at your age to be curious about such things. Problem is, girls at your age may feel that this is a flirty behaviour and more or less, conservative. This is actually a good thing as girls who are less conservative and careless.. often gets into troubles.
As for what to tell her? Well, just be honest loh. Admit that you are watching it or otherwise you probably is not normal. However, should she disliked this behaviour of yours, well.. it's up to you to convince and gain her trust. Trust needs hard work and time to build. So.. good luck to you.
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Let me guess: You posted this in the HWZ forums as well.Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON:that it is alright/acceptable to do so? we're 15 btw
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"tell her that you love her and that she shouldn't feel threatened by the fact that you enjoy porn... porn is just porn - it's videos and pictures created for sexual gratification and it's just in your nature to appreciate such things... while you may enjoy the women in these videos as pieces of meat, you don't think of her in the same way and she shouldn't think that you do..."
is one of the response i got from some other forum... how?
Because I don't deal with young girls (below the age of 17), my suggestions may/may not work:
Apologise to her, and try to make up first. When she's in a better mood, try explaining to her. You should assure her that you won't do it again or harbour any ill intentions towards her. Don't let her catch you again!
(IMO, girls get freaked out by guys who watch porn because they think the guys will do something to them/the guys are disgusting.)
Btw, did she catch you watching porn only or did you catch you watching porn + pccing? If it's the second one, I think there's no hope. Unless she's far more matured than you think... -
let your gf know.. seeing porn is better then flirting and having sxx outside
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Whats there to convince her? She caught you red-handed. Any other reason is just an lousy excuse to cover up for your poor behavior. Save it pal.
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wad e big prob in there...?!!?? i watched wf my dear!Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON:that it is alright/acceptable to do so? we're 15 btw
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"tell her that you love her and that she shouldn't feel threatened by the fact that you enjoy porn... porn is just porn - it's videos and pictures created for sexual gratification and it's just in your nature to appreciate such things... while you may enjoy the women in these videos as pieces of meat, you don't think of her in the same way and she shouldn't think that you do..."
is one of the response i got from some other forum... how? -
Give her a tight slap and tell her to wake up her ideas!
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Tell her you want to act out that anal scene with her. If she flips, then just your luck.
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Err sorry but what is wrong with her not accepting porn??
Surely it cuts both ways. you accept porn why cant she not accept it?? why must she agree with you that porn is ok? why cant you agree with her that porn is not ok??
Like I said it cuts both ways! In any event, if you want a girl that accepts your way of thinking there are plenty out there. you dont have to make this particular girl accept your standards and views just as you cannot accept hers! -
haha! u r simply retarded...lk at ur nick and u will see u r retarded,hence,u let ur gf sees u surfing porn
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ask her 2 watch it wf u, and i'm sure she will slowly loves it and wanting 2 watch it wf u everytime..
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u make me puke. i wouldnt want a gf as horny as youOriginally posted by MiCh-:ask her 2 watch it wf u, and i'm sure she will slowly loves it and wanting 2 watch it wf u everytime.. -
Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON:u make me puke. i wouldnt want a gf as horny as you
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cos u r too young now, siao didi....Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON:u make me puke. i wouldnt want a gf as horny as you
personally i think is ok for guys to watch porn..... i wouldn't mind watchin wif bf too. -
i guess u are right... im too youngOriginally posted by CryoLind:cos u r too young now, siao didi....
personally i think is ok for guys to watch porn..... i wouldn't mind watchin wif bf too.
if girls my age would be horny (but loyal) den its a dream come true! -
actually gals ur age r horny.. veri interested to find out what sex is.....n easy to pian.... but of course not all lah...Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON:i guess u are right... im too young
if girls my age would be horny (but loyal) den its a dream come true!
think when i was ur age, was intrigued to know how's sex like.... but feel disgusted if my bf keep wanting to hv it... u will hv to wait 1 or 2 more yrs more..... -
Thank youOriginally posted by saab95:If you are a charbo, I salute u for ur open-mindeness.
and yes.. i'm a female... -
thats a relief to know that.. i wouldnt want to have sex with my gf though (not now)...Originally posted by CryoLind:actually gals ur age r horny.. veri interested to find out what sex is.....n easy to pian.... but of course not all lah...
think when i was ur age, was intrigued to know how's sex like.... but feel disgusted if my bf keep wanting to hv it... u will hv to wait 1 or 2 more yrs more.....
jailbait and pregnancy
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hahahOriginally posted by RETARDED_MORON:thats a relief to know that.. i wouldnt want to have sex with my gf though (not now)...
jailbait and pregnancy how about having sex with a dog?? auuu auuu.....
juz kidding bah, u scared she run away issit?
yes, she will run away, cuz she paisay mah... aiyoh... next time want to see, make sure no one is around esp ur mother, who noes she's standing right behind u! -
teach her to enjoy it together wif u...Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON:that it is alright/acceptable to do so? we're 15 btw
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"tell her that you love her and that she shouldn't feel threatened by the fact that you enjoy porn... porn is just porn - it's videos and pictures created for sexual gratification and it's just in your nature to appreciate such things... while you may enjoy the women in these videos as pieces of meat, you don't think of her in the same way and she shouldn't think that you do..."
is one of the response i got from some other forum... how?
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she's really too young to understand. everytime she looks at you she'll feel extreme disgust. bo bian lo.
personally, i think it's normal for boys to watch porn and jerk off. it's abnormal for them not to. but all my girlfriends always scrunch their faces at the thought of their bfs watching porn. and they like asking male friends if they watch porn. what's the point of asking when you know half of the guys will say, "last time only la...". -
This happened when I was 15. My ex read FHM aloud to me. And I was totally grossed out cause I'm sure he watches porn. And he has pics of beautiful women in his computer. (naked or not, I not sure. I only seen the ones dressed.)
Somehow, I didn't feel jealous, I simply felt that he was a sex-starved fella. Even now that we're good buddies, I still feel its gross.
Such things have an impact on girls, especially around the age of 14-16.
Funny thing is, I think most girls don't look at pics of naked beefy men. Porn maybe, but not as frequent as guys I'll bet.
Now I know why men are from mars and women from venus. -
hello all,
i`ve seen some the replies given to the thread starters
as i`ve been here sometime ago
this place had always been a place of mature discussions
little did i expect such childish advices to be given to ppl in need of help
or perhaps in a difficult situation
i was taken aback to see that this situation turned out to be a mockery of the thread starter..
please show some basic respect for this forum
i do urge all to keep this place away from sick jokes
and when helps call for us
at least we`ll be there for the needy -
Furthermore she's not a woman yet. Not just a girl, not yet a womanOriginally posted by FireIce:nudity not equal porn mah....... -
invite her to watch too and ask her if she wants to act out some of the scenes.