Your BF conscious of his appearance when chio bus are around
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Scenerio:
You and your BF were waiting in a queue. You left for a while to visit the ladies and when you returned, your BF kept asking your (albeit quietly) whether his hair is in a mess. You are quite surprised by his hush hush tone and his sudden anxiety since he is the bo chiap type. Then you realized that there is a very chio bu queuing right in front of you. You suspect that he is rather conscious of his appearance of her and also caught him stealing side glances at her when she left the queue.
How would you gals react?
Would you guys be so dumb/disrepectful to ask that? -
Originally posted by gur:Scenerio:
You and your BF were waiting in a queue. You left for a while to visit the ladies and when you returned, your BF kept asking your (albeit quietly) whether his hair is in a mess. You are quite surprised by his hush hush tone and his sudden anxiety since he is the bo chiap type. Then you realized that there is a very chio bu queuing right in front of you. You suspect that he is rather conscious of his appearance of her and also caught him stealing side glances at her when she left the queue.
How would you gals react?
Would you guys be so dumb/disrepectful to ask that?
...very insensitive of him. Much better if he just tells u...that girl very chio. Haha that's what my ex used to do and I'm cool with it.
As for my hubby he will go what chio girl...dunno he pretending or what but he does point out the cute guys for me to see
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I don't anything much disrespect about that? It can only be natural to react that way... It's not like it's going out all the way to cheat on you? Don't be too sensitive over such issues.. If you do, you'll probably suffocate your bf in no time at all...Originally posted by gur:Scenerio:
You and your BF were waiting in a queue. You left for a while to visit the ladies and when you returned, your BF kept asking your (albeit quietly) whether his hair is in a mess. You are quite surprised by his hush hush tone and his sudden anxiety since he is the bo chiap type. Then you realized that there is a very chio bu queuing right in front of you. You suspect that he is rather conscious of his appearance of her and also caught him stealing side glances at her when she left the queue.
How would you gals react?
Would you guys be so dumb/disrepectful to ask that? -
Haha... My gf and me always SHARE chiobus and cute guys.. I'm usually the 1st one to spot them... But I think my taste is much higher than my gf's lah...Originally posted by elindra: ...very insensitive of him. Much better if he just tells u...that girl very chio. Haha that's what my ex used to do and I'm cool with it.
As for my hubby he will go what chio girl...dunno he pretending or what but he does point out the cute guys for me to see
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To be very fairÂ…this scenario can be enacted in another mannerÂ…
You and your GF were waiting in a queue. You left for a while to visit the men and when you returned, your GF kept asking your (albeit quietly) “Darling…is my cleavage revealing very nicely? *attempts to push up her already revealing boobs* Is my makeup in place?”. You are quite surprised by her hush hush tone and her sudden anxiety since she is the bo chiap type. Then you realized that there is a real Hunk queuing right in front of you. You suspect that she is rather conscious of her appearance of him and also caught her stealing side glances at him when she left the queue.
How would you guys react?
Would you gals be so dumb/disrepectful to ask that? -
I think its really ok to look. People are naturally attracted to eye candies. However, if your partner is the type who will suddenly stop in a middle of the conversation, look away...and stared at the other gals/guys for an extended period of time...totally ignoring your existance and your attempts to find out what happened. And subsequently, forgetting the entire conversation and still keep on turning away and keep looking at whatever eye candy...Originally posted by Devil1976:I don't anything much disrespect about that? It can only be natural to react that way... It's not like it's going out all the way to cheat on you? Don't be too sensitive over such issues.. If you do, you'll probably suffocate your bf in no time at all...
I doubt you will tolerate his "is my hair in a mess", "my cleavage nice" qn. coz it clearly shows that he is more concerned about and absorbed in himself rather than his partner infront of him.
Its really different if you share about what you are thinking with your partner rather than pretending or forgeting he/she doesn't exsist. -
dump him...tell him his lanjiao is too short for u...that ought to teach him a lesson he won't forget...
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Yeap, i think its rather dumb/disrespectful of him to do that.Originally posted by gur:Scenerio:
You and your BF were waiting in a queue. You left for a while to visit the ladies and when you returned, your BF kept asking your (albeit quietly) whether his hair is in a mess. You are quite surprised by his hush hush tone and his sudden anxiety since he is the bo chiap type. Then you realized that there is a very chio bu queuing right in front of you. You suspect that he is rather conscious of his appearance of her and also caught him stealing side glances at her when she left the queue.
How would you gals react?
Would you guys be so dumb/disrepectful to ask that?
I mean, its normal to ask these questions if you're out with friends, its normal to be nervous as well. But asking a gf that is quite insensitive.
Girl, you're not in the wrong. Its him who's being an insensitive jerk. Maybe you could dress up nicer so that he won't look at chio bu's anymore, just at you.
Best thing is to talk it out with him, and say you don't feel good about what he did lor, and hope he understands.