Do u all haf frens who...
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do not care abt the feelings of other pple??
well let me share my experience tt juz happened..
My exams is over and now its fun time.. as usual, our class haf class outings and stuff, all so enthusiastic abt it since its our outing which can be enjoyed fully without the guilt of having to study..
however, some pple in my class who asked for an outing, did not turn up for the outings tt we organised.. thr's tis one who asked for it, but after which got a job and ended up on the same day as the outing... she cld haf postponed the job to next day (which is possible becos my gf did the same thing and she came to our outing).
i cant see why she totalyl forgot abt our outing and juz went on without any guilt when she pangseh the pple who organised the outing... its so unfair to haf pple working for you but u treat it like nothing.. is that smth tt we shld do??
and the worst is.. she asked for another one tis sunday.. guessed what happens aft tt? she sms-ed my gf (they are good frens) and asked her to go out on sunday to shop for prom stuff.. ring a bell? sunday is meant to be our outing day... my gf reprimanded her for being so irresponsible and forgot abt our cls outing.. after tt... told her tt the outing was organsied becos she asked for one... guess her reply?? "oh really? i feel so honored"
i was like WTF... come on la.. if my gf whose not in my cls can feel the irresponsibility she portrayed, wad least can i feel when i'm in the situation...
and after tt my gf scolded her, she turned pissed and said its not her fault...
its like Fucking asshole not ur fault????? we did all tis for you and u juz pangseh us like tis... not ur fault... why dun u reflect upon ur actions?
worse is she's a girl... so irresponsible..
how wld u all feel if u're in tis situation? -
yeah, i got frds who oso nv tink of other's feeling too..well i guess next time jus ignore her if she request another class outings..
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well it takes difficult people to make up this world. just forget it and no need to get so worked up. The most impt thing is u all enjoy yrselves at the outing.
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well.. the problem is she has much more influence in the class than me..
and she doesnt realise the importance of keeping her words..
although some pple dun mind... but what abt those who mind?
alrite.. guess i juz haf to live with it..
bobian ma.. who ask me not to be able to lead the cls betta... -
Seem plenty of such people around... Just ignore her lah.. If people like to stick with this kinda person, just let them be...Originally posted by pescar:well.. the problem is she has much more influence in the class than me..
and she doesnt realise the importance of keeping her words..
although some pple dun mind... but what abt those who mind?
alrite.. guess i juz haf to live with it..
bobian ma.. who ask me not to be able to lead the cls betta...
Basically you've got 2 options... Just play along or totally ignore her...?
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They're always around. I just ignore people like them, and go about doing my own stuff.
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rofl your friends suxorz, luckily my friends all very zai.
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haha. she can jolly well get no more outings invitation from me if she's my fren.
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forgive, but ignore n forget
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i'll just ignore...
i won't org outings specially for ppl like tat.
if there's outing, she wanna come, come. dun wanna come, sua... i'll still have fun w the others who're going for the outing. no matter... -
is she pretty or not?
maybe that's the reason why she has got some much influence in the cls ... 
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Don't get so upset over this type of irresponsible people.
I know can be very frustrating cos of all yr hard work.
Next time u organize an outing, just exclude her. -
Try using cliffnotes (i.e. summary of what you have just said) and you might just get more replies.Originally posted by pescar:do not care abt the feelings of other pple??
well let me share my experience tt juz happened..
My exams is over and now its fun time.. as usual, our class haf class outings and stuff, all so enthusiastic abt it since its our outing which can be enjoyed fully without the guilt of having to study..
however, some pple in my class who asked for an outing, did not turn up for the outings tt we organised.. thr's tis one who asked for it, but after which got a job and ended up on the same day as the outing... she cld haf postponed the job to next day (which is possible becos my gf did the same thing and she came to our outing).
i cant see why she totalyl forgot abt our outing and juz went on without any guilt when she pangseh the pple who organised the outing... its so unfair to haf pple working for you but u treat it like nothing.. is that smth tt we shld do??
and the worst is.. she asked for another one tis sunday.. guessed what happens aft tt? she sms-ed my gf (they are good frens) and asked her to go out on sunday to shop for prom stuff.. ring a bell? sunday is meant to be our outing day... my gf reprimanded her for being so irresponsible and forgot abt our cls outing.. after tt... told her tt the outing was organsied becos she asked for one... guess her reply?? "oh really? i feel so honored"
i was like WTF... come on la.. if my gf whose not in my cls can feel the irresponsibility she portrayed, wad least can i feel when i'm in the situation...
and after tt my gf scolded her, she turned pissed and said its not her fault...
its like Fucking asshole not ur fault????? we did all tis for you and u juz pangseh us like tis... not ur fault... why dun u reflect upon ur actions?
worse is she's a girl... so irresponsible..
how wld u all feel if u're in tis situation?
Just a tip.