actually there no quarrel involved.. it just that i speak up and suddenly cold war started..Originally posted by the.raven:hopefully got no quarrels in the first place lor...if something wrong then must speak up, cannot wait until wanna quarrel.
No! Hold on to your pride...~ At least for a few more days lor. How long has it been?Originally posted by blowfish:actually there no quarrel involved.. it just that i speak up and suddenly cold war started..![]()
either you were talking in an accusing tone, or she is just unreasonable.Originally posted by blowfish:actually there no quarrel involved.. it just that i speak up and suddenly cold war started..![]()
sorry to put in something awefully....but perhaps the other part does n't like your voice.Originally posted by blowfish:but i don like the feeling of cold war.. it been nearly a week liao...
Aiya, communicate and compromise as much as possible from both side in future. In my opinion, don't always give in else spoil the gal, later she keep throwing tantrum. Guess, cool down for now, there will come in time she will realise she is being unreasonable.Originally posted by blowfish:when quarrel with gf.. even though it the girl fault?
yesOriginally posted by blowfish:when quarrel with gf.. even though it the girl fault?
What kinda problem? Can take an alternate approach? Kiss and make up 1st, then ponder and think over the issues and have them addressed even before they pop up again in the future...?Originally posted by blowfish:bear what u said is correct. But when u had done that many times but the problem kept popping out.. it take 2 hands to clap..
errr ..... don't undertsand this part ler ... care to be more explicit?Originally posted by pescar:.. girls are cute animals meant to de-stress us.. ...
Good point. But try not to overstress on whose fault it is.Originally posted by icyprincess:i dunno wat u mean by give in. as in who will talk to who first? it depends on how much u care. if you care enuff, you will make the first move to talk to the other person first. no need to apologize or anything, just say sth like we shud get together for a talk to clear things up or sth like dat. then only decide who is at fault.
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yea. but if it is clear dat party shud apologize. it does make a difference.Originally posted by pete98:Good point. But try not to overstress on whose fault it is.
True, unfortunately people sometimes have problem saying the word 'sorry'. Its easy for me cos I do it oftenOriginally posted by icyprincess:yea. but if it is clear dat party shud apologize. it does make a difference.
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