My boyfriend broke off with me ...
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/me hug greenie.
Be strong. U dun lose anything if he's the wrong guy. -
Why why why? x 100.
Do we all have the preception that the gender who initiates the breakup is at fault when we don't know the truth? (Unless people here knows the truth)
Are we being irrational about whose at fault by merely someone who initiated the seperation? -
I'm sorry to hear that Greenie.
Please take care and take heart. -
Originally posted by temptation:wah ... sounds expensive ...
no wonder no one wants to ge heart broken ... beers ..wines.... bar ...and now KTV .... wow ... sounds more expensive than dating .
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At least someone's thinking...?Originally posted by M©+square:Why why why? x 100.
Do we all have the preception that the gender who initiates the breakup is at fault when we don't know the truth? (Unless people here knows the truth)
Are we being irrational about whose at fault by merely someone who initiated the seperation?
Anyway, we're only consoling her..??> -
if a male = jerk, then female = ?
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whatever the word is, i think you ppl can use that word to describe me. cos i think i caused the break off.
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no matter what you did, he shouldn't have broken off if he loved you enough. but he couldn't make it. so you don't need him. next better playerOriginally posted by greenie:whatever the word is, i think you ppl can use that word to describe me. cos i think i caused the break off. -
I beg to differ. I think you're not in a position to comment on that since you also do not know what had happened. All comments are made out of assumptions.Originally posted by boy in blues:no matter what you did, he shouldn't have broken off if he loved you enough. but he couldn't make it. so you don't need him. next better player -
Not always the breaker's at fault... but maybe he shld have be considerate.. at least let her have a pleasant bdae..Originally posted by M©+square:Why why why? x 100.
Do we all have the preception that the gender who initiates the breakup is at fault when we don't know the truth? (Unless people here knows the truth)
Are we being irrational about whose at fault by merely someone who initiated the seperation?
Anway all the stories abt jerks doin such things to gals... rely gives all guys a bad name. ARgghh!!
Then, like my ex who always claim she was hurt badly by her ex & hence put in less effort for our relationship, it makes life difficult for all guys!!
I'm nt taking side with any genders... jus that all the jerks/Bitch out there consequently makes relationship harder to trust for everyone..
& ironically they are always the one who gets hitched again & move on easily..
The broken heart jus gets worse..
That whys i make my mind.... to nv be hurt again -
Join the club... I just broke up not long ago 28 Aug . The reason? The highlighted.Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:Not always the breaker's at fault... but maybe he shld have be considerate.. at least let her have a pleasant bdae..
Anway all the stories abt jerks doin such things to gals... rely gives all guys a bad name. ARgghh!!
Then, like my ex who always claim she was hurt badly by her ex & hence put in less effort for our relationship, it makes life difficult for all guys!!
I'm nt taking side with any genders... jus that all the jerks/Bitch out there consequently makes relationship harder to trust for everyone..
& ironically they are always the one who gets hitched again & move on easily..
The broken heart jus gets worse..
That whys i make my mind.... to nv be hurt again
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thou hard, try to move on.
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Hey Greenie, embrace yourself... just forget about him and move on. No point let him hurt you so deep.Originally posted by greenie:on my birthday.
The girl I love, got married on my 21st birthday, but that's a totally different story.
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i still need to maintain that guy is 1 'cannot make it' guy. the fact this girl created this thread to show her remorse is evidence that she loves him. but that guy failed to detect or he refused to hear her out because he believes himself more than her. that's why whatever wrong she commited is immaterialOriginally posted by M©+square:I beg to differ. I think you're not in a position to comment on that since you also do not know what had happened. All comments are made out of assumptions. -
hahahahahaha~ tell that to my exOriginally posted by boy in blues:i still need to maintain that guy is 1 'cannot make it' guy. the fact this girl created this thread to show her remorse is evidence that she loves him. but that guy failed to detect or he refused to hear her out because he believes himself more than her. that's why whatever wrong she commited is immaterial
but who gives a damn anymore
who's wrong or right, why bother... the world seems so much better now when you don't think about it anymore. -
but there's a big difference. your ex is a gal, her ex is a guy. but her ex is behaving as petty as a galOriginally posted by kopiosatu:hahahahahaha~ tell that to my ex
but who gives a damn anymore
who's wrong or right, why bother... the world seems so much better now when you don't think about it anymore. -
ahh,can apply to my ex too.....the split was very clean,but he does not want to remain frensOriginally posted by boy in blues:but there's a big difference. your ex is a gal, her ex is a guy. but her ex is behaving as petty as a gal
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your ex is lagi even more petty. be rid of himOriginally posted by amuletgurl:ahh,can apply to my ex too.....the split was very clean,but he does not want to remain frens -
yeah,i realised he's just not for me...not man enuffOriginally posted by boy in blues:your ex is lagi even more petty. be rid of him -
you did the right thing. it's his lossOriginally posted by amuletgurl:yeah,i realised he's just not for me...not man enuff -
what if i said something that hurt his ego?
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Is he trying to save on the birthday present?
anyway, with or without a bf, life goes on and it can be better... -
invalid reason. he should control his ego not let his ego control him. he still loves his ego more than youOriginally posted by greenie:what if i said something that hurt his ego? -
/me pat pat greenie.
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In 2 extreme cases he might have done something like that... You've either REALLY HURT him SO BADLY that it doesn't matter to him whether it's your birthday or not that he initiated the break off OR he just be a JERK...
Of course, there can be other smaller possibilities but too many to break down..