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my gf suspect me cheating on her.. in the end , i ask the girl call my gf to explained every thing to her.. now everything is ok... but i do feel hurt for she not trusting on me..
Gal did u ever made wrong accuse to yr bf?
Guy, what will u do? -
on the brighter side, it is good that your gf confronts u rather than to keep it to herself. For your part, u need to be more sensitive to her feelings.
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she reject my call and sms until i found out what she thinking..
not sure whether she know she had hurt me...
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Good thing was at least i know this issue had been clear.
Bad thing was she suspect me.. -
You could have avoided any misunderstandings in the first place... Gals are sensitive creatures. If you have put in more effort to analyse the situation, she would have no chance to hurt you...
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A relationship is a give-n-take thing. It is also one that requires lots of gou1 tong1. U can bring the matter up to her nicely, so as to build up trust n mutal agreement. Also many things takes time to build up and cannot be demanded on the spot.Originally posted by blowfish:she reject my call and sms until i found out what she thinking..
not sure whether she know she had hurt me...
An advise: Avoid putting her into a situation where you are indicating that you are right n she is wrong
Cos a relationship is a give-n-take thing. -
haiz..
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why u sigh?Originally posted by blowfish:haiz..
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tis kinda ting cannot be avoided la..
be glad tt she didnt leave u becos of tt..
well thr muz be smth tt u haf done to mislead her in the 1st place to tink tt u and that girl had smth on rite..
so dun blame her or anyting.. instead tink in her shoes why she did tt...
well u cant be blamed too because its partly her fault not to tell u wads she angry abt..
well.. she being angry shows that she cares so dun tink too much on the negative side because u're a lucky soul in disguise... -
Misunderstandings happen. Be glad that it didn't carry any further than it might be.Originally posted by blowfish:my gf suspect me cheating on her.. in the end , i ask the girl call my gf to explained every thing to her.. now everything is ok... but i do feel hurt for she not trusting on me..
Gal did u ever made wrong accuse to yr bf?
Guy, what will u do?
Meanwhile, try to build up the foundation for your relationship... -
well, sometimes cant blame gals lah, ask urself wat hav u done to make feel suspicous of u?? if not really sort of thg, then she must be too sensitive lor, if she is a gal tat need more attention, u shld do somethg abt it.
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Things could have been much worse. I recall seeing girls who go hysterical when they suspect their bf cheats on them, refuse to talk to their bf, break up with them, start crying for several days, sinks into depression, and eventually suicide(okay, so i haven't actually SEEN this happen).Originally posted by blowfish:my gf suspect me cheating on her.. in the end , i ask the girl call my gf to explained every thing to her.. now everything is ok... but i do feel hurt for she not trusting on me..
Gal did u ever made wrong accuse to yr bf?
Guy, what will u do?
You're hurt, because she doesn't trust you. But maybe she has seen too many signs of 'something' not going right in the relationship.
If its me, i'm just glad that my gf accepts what the girl says... else i would be having much more toruble in this relationship. I will be glad this is over, and hope to push this relationship to a more understanding one on both sides, more communication, so that she'll ask me straight what happened if she's doubtful, instead of shelling herself.
Sometimes we forget, that When we love someone, we give them the power to hurt us. So how are you using this power your girlfriend has given you? -
it is good that she is concern, it would be worse if she simply ignore them.
If you have done nothing wrong, dare to admit you are innocent.
i believe you wont want a sms to create a break-up or ruin your happiness. -
tell her loh ....Originally posted by blowfish:my gf suspect me cheating on her.. in the end , i ask the girl call my gf to explained every thing to her.. now everything is ok... but i do feel hurt for she not trusting on me..
Gal did u ever made wrong accuse to yr bf?
Guy, what will u do?
no man can tehan having a non-trusting girl
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Yep.. i was hurt last time.. but now not as bad.. i understand tt my gf is the sort who is petty( not in a obnoxious way) n easily jealous.. well.. live wif it.. tt's juz her.. i juz take an extra effort to explain things calmly to her n not take her comments to heart..