Originally posted by blowfish:
my gf suspect me cheating on her.. in the end , i ask the girl call my gf to explained every thing to her.. now everything is ok... but i do feel hurt for she not trusting on me..
Gal did u ever made wrong accuse to yr bf?
Guy, what will u do?
Things could have been much worse. I recall seeing girls who go hysterical when they suspect their bf cheats on them, refuse to talk to their bf, break up with them, start crying for several days, sinks into depression, and eventually suicide(okay, so i haven't actually SEEN this happen).
You're hurt, because she doesn't trust you. But maybe she has seen too many signs of 'something' not going right in the relationship.
If its me, i'm just glad that my gf accepts what the girl says... else i would be having much more toruble in this relationship. I will be glad this is over, and hope to push this relationship to a more understanding one on both sides, more communication, so that she'll ask me straight what happened if she's doubtful, instead of shelling herself.
Sometimes we forget, that
When we love someone, we give them the power to hurt us. So how are you using this power your girlfriend has given you?