Is there true love in this world
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Actually i dun realy noe wats ur problem. pardon m for being kpo, mayb u can tell us wat happened exactly?Originally posted by pysche:I dun think so she seems quite carefree & happy...... -
All those things tat u had mention is wat i had done.......Originally posted by kiekie:Maybe the right one hasn't knock on ur door yet.
For guys:
nobody is perfect unless u feel she is; at least to u.
if u can find a partner like this u should be contented, one who
1)cares for u
2)worry about u
3)call u to ask whether u have had ur meal
4)shares not only her happiness but doubts with u
5)treasure u
6)loves u for who u r
7)is willing to change herself to accomodate u(its hard to change a person unless the person is willing to do so)
respect ur family, esp ur parents
9)understand u
10)can read ur mind
Then u r in luck!!
Girls won't be content 1 lar.... -
was there any misunderstanding with you that caused her to jump ship? is she a victim of third party's deceptive manipulation?Originally posted by pysche:I dun think so she seems quite carefree & happy......
if both don't apply, she not worth trouble -
Ok actually i had been wif her from Sec 2 everything seems fine till lately...Originally posted by kiekie:Actually i dun realy noe wats ur problem. pardon m for being kpo, mayb u can tell us wat happened exactly?
1) She tend to find things to quarrel wif me...
2) She tend to shout at me no matter where we are...
3) She tend to scold me for looking at her sms but ( she always check on my sms too)
4) Lastly she bring up the word Let's juz be friend when i ask why she would give thousands or millions of excuse..... -
your handle: pysche...
is that.. supposed to be: psyche?
if so, where is Cupid to Psyche?
was her love not real? -
Thats why i say girls are very very hard to understand de....Originally posted by the Bear:your handle: pysche...
is that.. supposed to be: psyche?
if so, where is Cupid to Psyche?
was her love not real? -
alomak, i mean if u can find a girl lidat, not u lidat to the girl u like wo.Originally posted by pysche:All those things tat u had mention is wat i had done.......
Girls won't be content 1 lar....
Dun be depressed, theres lots of good roses out there, if u always stick to one and left the rest to wilt, how cud u be able to find out which is better and more suitable for u? Right?
U have to source for ur own happiness. If she dun give a damn, hack care her lor, one day she will regret and crawl back to u. Even she dun have feelings for u now but she will definitely remember there's a guy who pampers her so much. Dun waste ur youth away. Time is precious. who noes when she comes back to u crying, u alrady find one that noes how to appreciate u and the things u had done for her. -
Thx for your advice.Originally posted by kiekie:alomak, i mean if u can find a girl lidat, not u lidat to the girl u like wo.
Dun be depressed, theres lots of good roses out there, if u always stick to one and left the rest to wilt, how cud u be able to find out which is better and more suitable for u? Right?
U have to source for ur own happiness. If she dun give a damn, hack care her lor, one day she will regret and crawl back to u. Even she dun have feelings for u now but she will definitely remember there's a guy who pampers her so much. Dun waste ur youth away. Time is precious. who noes when she comes back to u crying, u alrady find one that noes how to appreciate u and the things u had done for her.
I won't in another r/s for the time being at least not now...
To forget something is easy but to forget someone is very hard.....
Career should be the first!!!! -
tell us more about the 3rd partyOriginally posted by pysche:Ok actually i had been wif her from Sec 2 everything seems fine till lately...
1) She tend to find things to quarrel wif me...
2) She tend to shout at me no matter where we are...
3) She tend to scold me for looking at her sms but ( she always check on my sms too)
4) Lastly she bring up the word Let's juz be friend when i ask why she would give thousands or millions of excuse..... -
i will tell more tomorrow but currently i need to go sleep working tomorrow....Originally posted by boy in blues:tell us more about the 3rd party
nitez & thx for all the advice... -
that might have been 1 of her reasonsOriginally posted by pysche:Thx for your advice.
I won't in another r/s for the time being at least not now...
To forget something is easy but to forget someone is very hard.....
Career should be the first!!!! -
Let me tell u y she does tat.(Mayb i m right mayb not, its up to u to tink)Originally posted by pysche:Ok actually i had been wif her from Sec 2 everything seems fine till lately...
1) She tend to find things to quarrel wif me...
2) She tend to shout at me no matter where we are...
3) She tend to scold me for looking at her sms but ( she always check on my sms too)
4) Lastly she bring up the word Let's juz be friend when i ask why she would give thousands or millions of excuse.....
1stly is she studying or workng currently?
Either she got to noe a new guy tat makes her feel wanted all over again.
I mean who dun like to be wooed after?esp girls?? **i like to , but i dun want**cuz i have a good one
1)she feels great abt herself when he's ard her. tat's y she trying to find fault wif u for every single little things. May the guy cud do it and yet when u can't she felt annoyed or watever its hard to say.
2)Mayb she sensed ur insecurities and tried to hide her *secrets by raising her voice at u as and when she likes.
3)of cuz she's scared tat u will see dos msg the guy sms her(mayb she 4got to delete as she tot she wun be so suay to get caught)
when a person changes his/her feelings for u, esp girls, everything u do seems to get into her way. everyting she will try to pick out the flaws.
Let her go.. she's only taking u for granted and taking advantage of ur weaknes. Do u tink she's realy ur type? I mean this is life, learn to accept changes. Find ways to comfort urself, go out with frens, play online games when free, keep urself busy. Time heals..all wounds, but sometimes it will leave scars tat can't be erased.
Tat is u can forgive but will not forget.(this is me) -
you're good! Aunt Agony could use your talentOriginally posted by kiekie:Let me tell u y she does tat.(Mayb i m right mayb not, its up to u to tink)
1stly is she studying or workng currently?
Either she got to noe a new guy tat makes her feel wanted all over again.
I mean who dun like to be wooed after?esp girls?? **i like to , but i dun want**
1)she feels great abt herself when he's ard her. tat's y she trying to find fault wif u for every single little things. May the guy cud do it and yet when u can't she felt annoyed or watever its hard to say.
2)Mayb she sensed ur insecurities and tried to hide her *secrets by raising her voice at u as and when she likes.
3)of cuz she's scared tat u will see dos msg the guy sms her(mayb she 4got to delete as she tot she wun be so suay to get caught)
when a person changes his/her feelings for u, esp girls, everything u do seems to get into her way. everyting she will try to pick out the flaws.
Let her go.. she's only taking u for granted and taking advantage of ur weaknes. Do u tink she's realy ur type? I mean this is life, learn to accept changes. Find ways to comfort urself, go out with frens, play online games when free, keep urself busy. Time heals..all wounds, but sometimes it will leave scars tat can't be erased. -
I used to think there is true love in this world... used to believe in fairy tales, in the movies, in the books that i've read. Used to think that there is a perfect person for each of us, if only we know how to look.
Years of exposure to the world has tainted my innocence. I no longer think that way. Instead, i wake up to the horrible reality that the dating scene is just a game. A Big game. Those who eventually succeed are those who understand how the game is played.
I recently 'discovered' the 'rules' of the game, and i'm slowly changing my mindset. Yea, good guys finish last being one of them.
But well, i haven't really been in love before, so i can't say i've been hurt to the point of wanting to suicide, but oh well... i guess my time will come someday. -
Originally posted by pysche:Is there true love in this word.....
If there is issit forever or juz for a period of time????
You want true love? Are you prepared for:
'...vulnerablility. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They don't ask for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you, or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like 'maybe we should just be friends' or 'how very perceptive' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, and a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain....'
What's TRUE In True love?
Astrologically speaking or emotionally speaking?
The process or result?
P.S: We will never find the perfect person; we can only shape the perfect love from our inperfect partners.
Cheers -
To me, I believe there is.
In this new modern era, true love is rather difficult to maintain , it requires alot of effort from not both parties. -
Never expect your love one to be perfect, love freely. -
Yes it EXIST..Originally posted by pysche:Is there true love in this word.....
If there is issit forever or juz for a period of time????
True love doesn't have to be forever... That would be eternal love... -
I don't think it really exits. Like some of you said earlier I used to think it did also when I was in the army. After that, the working world "woke" me up.
True love will probably be unconditional love. And to find someone who can accept you for what you are here!!?? Difficult I think to say the least.
Plus if you don't have money and a stabled or even a high flying career, your chances are even definetely worse off. -
Amen!!!Originally posted by kiekie:alomak, i mean if u can find a girl lidat, not u lidat to the girl u like wo.
Dun be depressed, theres lots of good roses out there, if u always stick to one and left the rest to wilt, how cud u be able to find out which is better and more suitable for u? Right?
U have to source for ur own happiness. If she dun give a damn, hack care her lor, one day she will regret and crawl back to u. Even she dun have feelings for u now but she will definitely remember there's a guy who pampers her so much. Dun waste ur youth away. Time is precious. who noes when she comes back to u crying, u alrady find one that noes how to appreciate u and the things u had done for her.
That's blardy true.. SOrry for my crudeness.
But really.. girls like challenging guys yet when they are in need for emotional support, they always go for the one whom they knew would be there.
Quite sucky right?
Well.. I was in that position and wasted practically my youth on a special girl whom I dun even knw if I wld stand a chance.
Whatever... just take ur time and achieve something while we guys are still young.
I am sure everyone has dreas.. just that we kinda stopped dreaming for a loong time back. Perhps its time to rekindle back those ambitious dreams.
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Yes there is true love, at least on my side. When I love someone I love her truthfully, whether she does the same is another matter.
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getting hurt from love might not be a bad thing,you grow from it.
dare to love and u will find it someday. -
from this...
dare to love..
risk getting your heart broken..
dare to love with all that you are...
if you do not do so, would that love be worth it?Originally posted by chaykwaytiao:getting hurt from love might not be a bad thing,you grow from it.
dare to love and u will find it someday. -
Maybe u r rite abt this but.... Haiz......Originally posted by kiekie:Let me tell u y she does tat.(Mayb i m right mayb not, its up to u to tink)
1stly is she studying or workng currently?
Either she got to noe a new guy tat makes her feel wanted all over again.
I mean who dun like to be wooed after?esp girls?? **i like to , but i dun want**cuz i have a good one
1)she feels great abt herself when he's ard her. tat's y she trying to find fault wif u for every single little things. May the guy cud do it and yet when u can't she felt annoyed or watever its hard to say.
2)Mayb she sensed ur insecurities and tried to hide her *secrets by raising her voice at u as and when she likes.
3)of cuz she's scared tat u will see dos msg the guy sms her(mayb she 4got to delete as she tot she wun be so suay to get caught)
when a person changes his/her feelings for u, esp girls, everything u do seems to get into her way. everyting she will try to pick out the flaws.
Let her go.. she's only taking u for granted and taking advantage of ur weaknes. Do u tink she's realy ur type? I mean this is life, learn to accept changes. Find ways to comfort urself, go out with frens, play online games when free, keep urself busy. Time heals..all wounds, but sometimes it will leave scars tat can't be erased.
Tat is u can forgive but will not forget.(this is me)
I think my career is going to end soon too.....
Bcos of this r/s problem i stay at home for 1 whole week without going to work.....
This morning juz recived a call from my superior asking why i MIA for 1 whole week....
I oso dunno how to answer liao haiz maybe got to hunt for a new job soon... -
Stand up, stretch ur limbs...and take a deep breath. Its time to wake up to face ur own problems.
u muz be gong si fen ming, i noe it is easier said than done, but u have to!
For most guys, careers ought to be one of their main priority....isn't it?
U should be glad tat at least u still have ur job. If u continue to slack at home thinking tat u can forget her or wat, then u will lose ur rice bowl for sure! In the end, u r still the one who suffer. Pull ur sleeves up and get back to work. Unless u think ur present job sux.
now its time to think for urself.