is ur partner violent?
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Then y do dey do dat??Originally posted by boy in blues:a guy can't prove anything by beating a girl. it's just too pointless
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maybe that's all they can do.Originally posted by ~HiToMi~:Then y do dey do dat??
guys should control their own temper,
not let temper control their thoughts and actions -
to show that he has the power or smthgOriginally posted by ~HiToMi~:Then y do dey do dat??
or to scared the gf
all i can say that those guys who hit, swear dirty words, forbid his gf to go with his friends, n all those bad habits (geeezzz...my ex got all these shits n i still sticked w/ him for 3 years
) are actually guys with low (i mean really LOW) self esteem. bcos of their low self esteem, they do those things just to show that they got power. i read this things on woman mag. n yes, i can say that my ex couldn't do anything w/o me. everything must also me who settle. even money, he also asked fm me. he's really like parasite !
abt. a few months ago, he rang me to tell me abt. his love life n said that he couldn't live w/o his current gf (i think he did smthg terrible to her, so they broke up). i told him to get a life. at least be a man lah. how come so dependent like that ?!!! useless guy !
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girls, drop the S.O.B.s!
never allow any guy to hit u.. no matter if he apologises later.. nah huh! no way! NEXT! -
Do u know tt he is a violent guy b4 going out wif him
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no. go out public places 1st and get to know him moreOriginally posted by ~HiToMi~:Do u know tt he is a violent guy b4 going out wif him -
Originally posted by BufPuf:
enough said....
We beat each other for fun
scratch HIM
beat HIM
strangle HIM
pinch HIM
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Despite what is said in magazines, not all abusive guys hit their partner because of domination or something. There are guys out there who have communication problems, they can't seem to express how they feel to their partners & so their fist end up doing the talking. And then there are other reasons not published either.Originally posted by Maya061:to show that he has the power or smthg
or to scared the gf
i read this things on woman mag. n yes, i can say that my ex couldn't do anything w/o me. everything must also me who settle. even money, he also asked fm me. he's really like parasite !
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But no matter what the reason might be, use of violent against a partner of either sexes is not an answer to any problem. Talk about the problems first, if can't settle, call for time-out from each other.
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she beat me in front of others..
she scold me in front of others..
she make fun of me in front of others.
she ignore me in front of others..
but tat life. hahahaa..
oh yes.. i arent sure of our r/s too. hahahaaa. -
hmmm..it's good if u can talk to ur partner.Originally posted by John Ching:Despite what is said in magazines, not all abusive guys hit their partner because of domination or something. There are guys out there who have communication problems, they can't seem to express how they feel to their partners & so their fist end up doing the talking. And then there are other reasons not published either.
But no matter what the reason might be, use of violent against a partner of either sexes is not an answer to any problem. Talk about the problems first, if can't settle, call for time-out from each other.
fm my experience, there's some guys/gals that u cannot talk to.
whom always think that no matter what, he/she's always the rite one.
wrong also still blame others
in this case, how ?
better leave him/her, rite ? -
None at allOriginally posted by kiekie:do u have a violent partner? mayb u can share ur exp wif us here. I suppose all of us in aunt agony wud be happy to read. -
Expriencing the same for myself... sigh...Originally posted by edLow:she beat me in front of others..
she scold me in front of others..
she make fun of me in front of others.
she ignore me in front of others..
but tat life. hahahaa..
oh yes.. i arent sure of our r/s too. hahahaaa. -
if she did that to u..u still stick with her until now ?Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Expriencing the same for myself... sigh... -
yah....... i will not hesitate too. Provided he did not hit u back. but try dat 2 some guys who will really hit u back real hard... see whether u still can retaliate anot? U wan oso got no strength liao.Originally posted by fymk:If any guy hits me , I will not hesitate to retaliate in defence.
When I was a kid , one boy kept pulling my hair and punch me on my shoulder everyday until I cry. My father told me to hit him back and I did - was quite bad - I bruised him all over- all hell broke loose. His parents dare not complain because my father told his parents off for teaching a boy to "pick " on a girl.
Cos we are still weaker than them physically. Unless when you are smaller you tend to be able to beat them, but not now....... -
hahaz im da 1 being violent 2 him ... pinch,slap...n ya esp boxing his big stomachOriginally posted by kiekie:do u have a violent partner? mayb u can share ur exp wif us here. I suppose all of us in aunt agony wud be happy to read. ..though i playplay onli .. he sumtimes ended up wif small briuses 
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hahaha. it depend on how u see thing. for me i see myself in a brighter way.. less saddness for myself.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Expriencing the same for myself... sigh... -
hmm... for me.Originally posted by Maya061:if she did that to u..u still stick with her until now ?
i arent with her or wat.
but we do show our care n cocern to each other like a best frd or even more. as i'm a simple minded guy.. i assume her she isnt ready yet.. same goes to me.. i dont think i'm ready yet too. so why dont we just keep our gd r/s now. and if things do meant to happen... den happen lor. -
Aiyah u all gals/woman, make full use of the Woman Charter.Originally posted by CryoLind:yah....... i will not hesitate too. Provided he did not hit u back. but try dat 2 some guys who will really hit u back real hard... see whether u still can retaliate anot? U wan oso got no strength liao.
Cos we are still weaker than them physically. Unless when you are smaller you tend to be able to beat them, but not now.......
HE hit U, go to EA, see a doctor, then straight to police station and report he try to rape U can oledi. Sure kena 3 years + 6 stroke. No argument needed...
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I had a fren who threw a chopper at her bf when they quarrel...in her hse. She told me tat her younger bro witnessed the commotion and was scared to death... cuz her bf was lucky to escape from the chopper.. it hit on a chair which he grabbed to defend himself..
When she told me, i was like huh...... sure anot** i tot in my heart, she so violent meh?
then there was this incident tat happened at BJ8, when she quarrelled wif her bf again and this was the time i believed wat she had said..
I saw her chasing after her bf, and in the end, her bf surrendered...
Immediately, She threw the packet of lemon tea she was holding in her palms onto his face..... Splashed**** wow... scary -
sometime inside BGR gf always will say stuff when quarell make till u wanna explode de.... really bua tahan....i slap my gf once and i promise myself and her that i will nv do it again le... if i angry now will punch other things like wall or watever...hurt her physically hurt me emotionally,, regretted alot alot.. haiz.
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-_- r u the one..... ehhh no me and her dun beat each other for fun.. she beat me for fun niaaa... i cannot beat her..Originally posted by BufPuf:We beat each other for fun
scratch him
beat him
strangle him
pinch him -
do you find girls who are violent (like the girl in "my sassy girlfriend") sexy?
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no, feel like punching herOriginally posted by happygoluckyy:do you find girls who are violent (like the girl in "my sassy girlfriend") sexy?
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once i saw an ex getting really pissed with me and he started clenching his fists. i got a shock and got out of the bus immediately
another time i got so upset with an ex that i threw plates, cups, CDs, etc at him. of cos none of these hit him but i ended up with bleeding hands.
the first someone hit me i didn't retaliate. i guess the pain from the bruise offsets the pain inside. i guess it is also becos it was an accident (he said he didn't mean it) so it's alright bah.
humm.. that's it for now .... no other violent episodes to report -
If your partner is violent, hire a professional killer and finish him/her off.