Its either you try new ways of having sex or you lay it off for a while.Originally posted by Bubbly123:Hi, i really need help in this area... especially wish to hear advices from gals.. I used to be very sexually active with my bf.. around 4 times a week at least.
and we have been together for almost 1 year.
But for the past 3 months, i found myself dreading having sex with him at all times... i just kinda find it irritating, and i began to doubt my feeling for him..
The problem here is, i do miss him a lot when he is not around, i like spending time with him, but the problem is "I dread having sex with him".. is this normal between loved one????
And it's not like i have low sex drive or what, i'm still very interested in engaging in sex, however i don''t feel like doing it with my bf.. I'm not suggesting tt i'm fooling around outside or what, just tt i wish to find out whether there's anyone feeling the same way as me...
i really need help in this issue, cos my bf is beginning to qn me y im no longer interested in having sex with him....
well.. i been rejecting him for the past 2 months, keep delayin sayin i not feelin well, or i need time to "pei yang" passion...Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Its either you try new ways of having sex or you lay it off for a while.
There are only 2 choices from the way i see it.![]()
Oh... perhaps deep down you feel like he likes you for your body, and not yourself?Originally posted by Bubbly123:well.. i been rejecting him for the past 2 months, keep delayin sayin i not feelin well, or i need time to "pei yang" passion...
and there's nothin wrong with his techniques, and we are a quite adventurous couple, always trying diff things..
But now, i just lost interests in having sex with him entirely... i still like him, and i enjoy spending time cuddling with him... but it's this sex issue that i'm afraid will make him drift further.(he got very high sex drive)
and i dun wish to force myself to engage in sex just be'cos of his needs... I feel that one should enjoy it before you do it...![]()
You should have a good talk with him and let him know why you feel like that.Originally posted by Bubbly123:well.. i been rejecting him for the past 2 months, keep delayin sayin i not feelin well, or i need time to "pei yang" passion...
and there's nothin wrong with his techniques, and we are a quite adventurous couple, always trying diff things..
But now, i just lost interests in having sex with him entirely... i still like him, and i enjoy spending time cuddling with him... but it's this sex issue that i'm afraid will make him drift further.(he got very high sex drive)
and i dun wish to force myself to engage in sex just be'cos of his needs... I feel that one should enjoy it before you do it...![]()