How many siblings you have? How old are you? How old are your siblings if any? What is your father doing about the whole thing?Originally posted by orange pen:Hi ALL,
My mom has a slight problem when dealing with people who shouts or taking a bigger tone with her. She gets emotional very easily, she cries and she gets slightly out of control sometimes. Being her kid has been a lesson of knowing what to say and doing the right things... because if i say anything which provokes her or makes her sad, she will threated to kill herself.
I'm seeking advices when dealing with a mom who is abit emotionally unstable sometimes.
Thanks.![]()
I have a dad who flares up very easily. Everytime he does something wrong, or doesn't understand anything, depending on who's at that certain place, its either me or my sister who gets blamed.Originally posted by orange pen:Well, I have a elder brother who is really one sweety pie. He is 2 years older than i do and has a better temper than me as well.
Of course he do not have the problem with her so much like i do with my mom.
I guess I have to be blamed whenever I make her go mad. I have to change my kind of tone whenever I speak to her and making sure that i wouldn't say stuff that she doesn't like to hear.
Therefore its kinda like in a pressure pot in the house, one wrong step and mama cries. Who's fault, Mine!
My father also felt that kind of pressure. But he doesn't say much about it, he just kept it inside.
But sometimes, its really hard to communicate.![]()
Guess it's just part of getting along with people around you...? just that in this case, your family members would be much 'closer' to you as you're living under the same roof...?Originally posted by orange pen:Well, I have a elder brother who is really one sweety pie. He is 2 years older than i do and has a better temper than me as well.
Of course he do not have the problem with her so much like i do with my mom.
I guess I have to be blamed whenever I make her go mad. I have to change my kind of tone whenever I speak to her and making sure that i wouldn't say stuff that she doesn't like to hear.
Therefore its kinda like in a pressure pot in the house, one wrong step and mama cries. Who's fault, Mine!
My father also felt that kind of pressure. But he doesn't say much about it, he just kept it inside.
But sometimes, its really hard to communicate.![]()