Past love renewed.
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I had a relationship with my friend's friend last year, it lasted less than a month. End probably cause the feeling just wasn't there.
Next relationship is with the friend who intro-ed my ex. Didn't last long too, was too close as friends and didn't feel right being steadys. -I totally don't agree best friends can be together as couples, things just go awkward-
Now, we're all still good friends. Or even closer than before as friends. But I feel in love with my first ex. No, I don't know if its love, but sparks ignited. We were a little intimate at a party when we were drunk, you see. Probably infatuation.
Awww, I have such a dumb mindset, don't even know why I'm giving it thought.
Just wondering if any of you ever felt something like that, share it or any advice.
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Perhaps you like the first one but the feeling isn't deep enough for you to want to be with her?
Good frens can be couples, i agree..coz I have frens around me..one example being from sec sch till now..7 years and going strong..
another example of a fren..also from sec sch were very gd frens..after that 2 yrs plus ago finally together. Before that , the girl had several bfs..but the guy waited..going strong..have plans for the future liao... -
I'm a girl actually.Originally posted by LilO gIrL:Perhaps you like the first one but the feeling isn't deep enough for you to want to be with her?
Good frens can be couples, i agree..coz I have frens around me..one example being from sec sch till now..7 years and going strong..
another example of a fren..also from sec sch were very gd frens..after that 2 yrs plus ago finally together. Before that , the girl had several bfs..but the guy waited..going strong..have plans for the future liao...
Well, perhaps it depends on individual's thinking. For me, I can't help but feel weird cuddling my -used to be best friend- boyfriend. -
well i do agree that it is on individual basis.
I always tell my frens that..you may be accept this person's bad habits/weaknesses as a fren, but might not be able to accept as his/her partner.
For me..If I'm too fren with somebody..for a long time..i would feel that we can only be frens...coz if there's chemistry, sparks would have ignited long ago. -
Yeah, exactly. BINGO!Originally posted by LilO gIrL:well i do agree that it is on individual basis.
I always tell my frens that..you may be accept this person's bad habits/weaknesses as a fren, but might not be able to accept as his/her partner.
For me..If I'm too fren with somebody..for a long time..i would feel that we can only be frens...coz if there's chemistry, sparks would have ignited long ago.
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Originally posted by glossy_matte:Yeah, exactly. BINGO! but if u are meant for each other, u will be..