True Story (Please give comment of this)
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Just telling u a story from my friend. (Give so comment abt the story)
He love a girl at the first sight when he was sec 1 then they begin to be friend slowly ... they start go stead. but after a month they broke off. This girl is very flirt but this guy wait patiently for this girl. when the girl broke off with her bf. she will go back to this guy . when she find any new bf she will leave this guy. The funny relationship last for 4 yrs. They finally leave their secondary school. but this guy never stop waiting for this girl whenever this girl need help he will always be there for her. But this girl rejected all his patch back request. I think for 9yrs ba.. this poor guy being reject by this girl for 9 yrs and waiting for her for 9 yrs. He finally give up and now this guy got a very good gf not only that the girl and guy became very good friend..
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Your friend is very patient to have waited for 9 years. Especially when no future between them can be seen.
Well, some conclusions that i can draw are:
1) He really likes the girl(from sec 1? I don't think any of us knew what love was at that age)
2) He's stubborn and doesn't like to give up.
3) Its the first girl that he's fallen for, and he doesn't want to let go.
I'm just glad that he has given up. It would be really sad to see a 50 year old saying ... 'i've waited for this girl for 37 years.. and i'm still waiting.'
To me, there's no point giving so many years of my life to someone that does'nt appreciate me.
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I'm just glad that he has given up. It would be really sad to see a 50 year old saying ... 'i've waited for this girl for 37 years.. and i'm still waiting.'
Wah... you must have love that girl alot alot...
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Originally posted by DarlingAngel:Wah... you must love that girl alot alot...
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Hmmm, maybe the guy has other gal friendsOriginally posted by _Aaron_:I'm just glad that he has given up. It would be really sad to see a 50 year old saying ... 'i've waited for this girl for 37 years.. and i'm still waiting.'
To me, there's no point giving so many years of my life to someone that does'nt appreciate me.
That's my view.
but just that he find them not suitable until this ONE gal came along.
You must have very strong determination to really wait for a person...
I can say: I'm waiting for this so and so to come back.
But who knows when THE ONE came along, you realise it's time to let go
and be with this person whom you are predestined to be. -
I think i get what you're trying to say...Originally posted by alien_04:Hmmm, maybe the guy has other gal friends
but just that he find them not suitable until this ONE gal came along.
You must have very strong determination to really wait for a person...
I can say: I'm waiting for this so and so to come back.
But who knows when THE ONE came along, you realise it's time to let go
and be with this person whom you are predestined to be.
Is it, "Since there are no other girls in my life now, i just wait for her lor, til someone comes in?"
I'm like that, just that no girl for me to wait for right now. Waiting for the one~~ -
godh the guy is 22 now?....9 years ago he was 13....Thats long
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it is hard to move on. but i moved on too. hurray!!
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At least there is a happy ending.
He learnt to let go & move on & found someone better. -
the lastest news is the guy have already broke off with his new gf..
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Originally posted by DarlingAngel:Just telling u a story from my friend. (Give so comment abt the story)
He love a girl at the first sight when he was sec 1 then they begin to be friend slowly ... they start go stead. but after a month they broke off. This girl is very flirt but this guy wait patiently for this girl. when the girl broke off with her bf. she will go back to this guy . when she find any new bf she will leave this guy. The funny relationship last for 4 yrs. They finally leave their secondary school. but this guy never stop waiting for this girl whenever this girl need help he will always be there for her. But this girl rejected all his patch back request. I think for 9yrs ba.. this poor guy being reject by this girl for 9 yrs and waiting for her for 9 yrs. He finally give up and now this guy got a very good gf not only that the girl and guy became very good friend..
(Sorry my english not very good)
Likely karmic relationship with heavy affliction on his side towards her.
P.S: Is he is Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius or Taurus?
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wat has being a Leo, Scopio, Aquarius or Taurus got to do with this ?
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since i sec 1(1993) i fall in love with a classmate, she knew i like her so much until today even during sec 4 she have a bf i also never give up. but today we are still friend.
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The guy is LEO
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Dont give up dude, cos life's unpredictable..Some things which u shoved away into that old closet may resurface again...Originally posted by yonghao:since i sec 1(1993) i fall in love with a classmate, she knew i like her so much until today even during sec 4 she have a bf i also never give up. but today we are still friend. -
at least he finally found his happiness.. the guy so chi1 qing2.. reminds me of nightyoung.. mr nice guys.. duno why always get explioted..
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wat's tt got to do with being a LEo???Originally posted by DarlingAngel:The guy is LEO -
He is LeoOriginally posted by Yunhaier: Likely karmic relationship with heavy affliction on his side towards her.
P.S: Is he is Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius or Taurus?
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waiting for someone for 9yrs... can imagine the pain... but love can't be forced. If he were to accept the fact that they were meant to be friends, he might have found his love earlier and wasted less time.
I have this guy waiting for me for 7yrs... now still waiting. I always tell him to find other love but he dun want. wat can i do? i already told him that we are impossible- no chemistry.
sometimes we think that by "waiting" for a person is one way to prove our love and at the end of the day, he/ she will be touched.. not true lor... i once only waited for his ex for 1 yr.... he didn't return by then, i'm gone. Not as to get attached with some other guy but to put this relationship behind and move on. Now this guy still calls me now and then. I lost a relationship but salvage a friendship. Better than nothing... -
why bother to wait? unrequitted love is the worst kind of love...
if i can't find the one i love... i will just marry the one who loves me. -
All I can conclude is that guy is willing to sacrifice.Originally posted by DarlingAngel:Just telling u a story from my friend. (Give so comment abt the story)
He love a girl at the first sight when he was sec 1 then they begin to be friend slowly ... they start go stead. but after a month they broke off. This girl is very flirt but this guy wait patiently for this girl. when the girl broke off with her bf. she will go back to this guy . when she find any new bf she will leave this guy. The funny relationship last for 4 yrs. They finally leave their secondary school. but this guy never stop waiting for this girl whenever this girl need help he will always be there for her. But this girl rejected all his patch back request. I think for 9yrs ba.. this poor guy being reject by this girl for 9 yrs and waiting for her for 9 yrs. He finally give up and now this guy got a very good gf not only that the girl and guy became very good friend..
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Talking about your own story ah?
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Originally posted by starExcaliblur:wat has being a Leo, Scopio, Aquarius or Taurus got to do with this ?
Doing my usual routine questioning; nothing is wrong.Originally posted by Gackt247:wat's tt got to do with being a LEo???
The above four signs I mention is only a personal deduction and it doesn't represent the mass. But since I got it correct....>Originally posted by DarlingAngel:He is a Leo
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there is a term call escalation of commitment
ie like gamblers. they gamble lose but still continue to gamble cause they think the next round they will win big and everything is alright ... but the thing is they will never win and the commitment just grows out of hand.
I've know guy (ex-colleague) like this too. The girl was living with her BF and doing what couple do and yet this guy didn't give up. Rumour has it that this guy and the girl are always together and they would go to empty rooms in the office and have s*x. The girl knowing how the guy felt about her continued to flirt and led him on. The guy after numerous advice refused to move on. Its a sad case of a lot of wasted time and a lot of wrongs... and will have bad future consequences. Its also been more than 6 years this has continued.... and still working in the same department...
But then, its their lives and their choice. They are really blinded so no matter what other people advice or say about them, they continue their actions.
People make a lot of bad choices, me included -
Before you get too carried away again Yun...Originally posted by Yunhaier:The above four signs I mention is only a personal deduction and it doesn't represent the mass. But since I got it correct....>
Cheers
4 out of 12 star signs gives you a 1/3 of a chance of guessing correctly... People can even get 'lucky' from guessing a 1/6 dice... Yours only 1/3...
And... Out of how many times ya asked this kinda 'routine question' did you got them 'right'....? Not even a very lucky guy now... Are you...?