WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?
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Some cheat even though they know it's wrong and they won't tolerate it in their partner. Can people think of reasons as to why some people cheat but others can get by without ever cheating?
is it:
1) too horny?
2) dun really love the person?
but there must be some out there with very high libidos who don't cheat right? -
my friend cheats, his reason 'we're GUYS'
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so do u think it's right? would you do the same? what if his gf cheats on him? (for pple like him, i hope she does.)Originally posted by kopiosatu:my friend cheats, his reason 'we're GUYS' -
I think it boils down to 2 issues.
Morality and Temptation.
IF you hold on to your morals strongly enough, there will not be a problem. Never.
Except when temptation comes knocking, some people falter, and eventually end up cheating. (Like someone said, who can resist two chio bu's who knock on your door?)
Yet even with high morals, we are put into the test when we're sorely tempted.
What we need is for those husband-grubbers to keep their hands to themselves, and cheating will take a dramatically low downturn.
Hmm, perhaps there's a 3rd issue of being too promisculus(how do i spell this?). Especially true when you're working in a foreign country, and you cannot meet your wife often. For people who are weak in morals, and are easily tempted... *bang* Cheating begins.
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me? i don't cheat.Originally posted by foxwalk:so do u think it's right? would you do the same? what if his gf cheats on him? (for pple like him, i hope she does.)
well he can give all the excuses he wants la...
whether his gf cheats on him... his gf is pretty sticky, so i don't think she'll do that.
but if she does, its retribution -
i had a discussion with my friend a few days back (not the cheater)
let's say you're only given two choices.
would u prefer your man to cheat on you...
or go to prostitutes.
my friend said, he rather go to prostitutes... coz its just doing and getting over it. He still feels cheating will bring about retribution
And his logic for retribution is, when a girl starts thinking about what her guy is doing... the wheel starts turning. -
Sometimes if its only for a while, using your Hand would be a better idea. Pros in Geylang could come with a special surprise!Originally posted by kopiosatu:i had a discussion with my friend a few days back (not the cheater)
let's say you're only given two choices.
would u prefer your man to cheat on you...
or go to prostitutes.
my friend said, he rather go to prostitutes... coz its just doing and getting over it. He still feels cheating will bring about retribution
And his logic for retribution is, when a girl starts thinking about what her guy is doing... the wheel starts turning. -
well anyway, i'm a cheater... at work only
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I don't know why ppl cheat but i dun
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In this world,who never cheats? its just like who never tell lies?People do cheat out of different things,test to get passin mark etc...but if its too horny then want to cheat girls,its very dangerous...overall its all about temptation and self-control...lets say if a guy invites a girls to his hse when his parents are not around,some,yes,may felt aroused but they have self-control and moral,they know they should not do anything more and they won't,if one does not have self-control,even when the guy's parents is at home he will still do things disadvantage to the girls
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YUP, there are...Originally posted by foxwalk:Some cheat even though they know it's wrong and they won't tolerate it in their partner. Can people think of reasons as to why some people cheat but others can get by without ever cheating?
is it:
1) too horny?
2) dun really love the person?
but there must be some out there with very high libidos who don't cheat right?
Reasons too many.. Just to list a few...
1. Too horny
2. Don't love that person.
3. Too bored
4. Too lonely
5. Don't feel sense of belonging or attachment
6. Too love another person
7. Too horny for another person
8. Bochapness
9. Think of it as 'the natural thing to do' (example. Kopi's friend)
10. For $ or materialistic likes
11. For fame
12. For recognition
13. For 'happiness'
14. Flirtious nature
15. Moments of anger or impulse
16. Depressed
17. Drunk
18. etc... (sorry, my hands getting tired...) -
nowadays people treat lying like a hobby, so normal, not only to gf/bf but to everybody like their parents, siblings, friends & even to themselves. sometimes to hide something they don't wish people to know & sometimes jus for the sake of lying.....
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somebody cheated uOriginally posted by foxwalk:Some cheat even though they know it's wrong and they won't tolerate it in their partner. Can people think of reasons as to why some people cheat but others can get by without ever cheating?
is it:
1) too horny?
2) dun really love the person?
but there must be some out there with very high libidos who don't cheat right?
oh my poor poor little cub ... come to papa *put arm ard foxwalk* .. there .. there ..
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It is not cheat. It is doing what best for himself/herself.Originally posted by foxwalk:Some cheat even though they know it's wrong and they won't tolerate it in their partner. Can people think of reasons as to why some people cheat but others can get by without ever cheating?
is it:
1) too horny?
2) dun really love the person?
but there must be some out there with very high libidos who don't cheat right?
Life is short, why bother what other people think. JUST DO IT.
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Originally posted by Devil1976:
18.... LAck of intimacy of the current r/ship..
YUP, there are...
Reasons too many.. Just to list a few...
1. Too horny
2. Don't love that person.
3. Too bored
4. Too lonely
5. Don't feel sense of belonging or attachment
6. Too love another person
7. Too horny for another person
8. Bochapness
9. Think of it as 'the natural thing to do' (example. Kopi's friend)
10. For $ or materialistic likes
11. For fame
12. For recognition
13. For 'happiness'
14. Flirtious nature
15. Moments of anger or impulse
16. Depressed
17. Drunk
18. etc... (sorry, my hands getting tired...)
19....the zha bor not chio enuf for his taste anymore/guy getting fat or eyesore..
etc =) -
Originally posted by Devil1976:
18.... LAck of intimacy of the current r/ship..
YUP, there are...
Reasons too many.. Just to list a few...
1. Too horny
2. Don't love that person.
3. Too bored
4. Too lonely
5. Don't feel sense of belonging or attachment
6. Too love another person
7. Too horny for another person
8. Bochapness
9. Think of it as 'the natural thing to do' (example. Kopi's friend)
10. For $ or materialistic likes
11. For fame
12. For recognition
13. For 'happiness'
14. Flirtious nature
15. Moments of anger or impulse
16. Depressed
17. Drunk
18. etc... (sorry, my hands getting tired...)
19....the zha bor not chio enuf for his taste anymore/guy getting fat or eyesore..
etc =) -
20. juZ for the kick of it... ThrillingOriginally posted by Devil1976:YUP, there are...
Reasons too many.. Just to list a few...
1. Too horny
2. Don't love that person.
3. Too bored
4. Too lonely
5. Don't feel sense of belonging or attachment
6. Too love another person
7. Too horny for another person
8. Bochapness
9. Think of it as 'the natural thing to do' (example. Kopi's friend)
10. For $ or materialistic likes
11. For fame
12. For recognition
13. For 'happiness'
14. Flirtious nature
15. Moments of anger or impulse
16. Depressed
17. Drunk
18. etc... (sorry, my hands getting tired...) -
I think for those who want to cheat, it's only fair that they be in relationships where both parties are allowed to date others, so that they have common interests and no one is hurt. But, of course, these men are too selfish for that. B@stards!
by the way, some of you listed EXCUSES and not REASONS. -
fucking exciting!!!! shoik!!!!
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Its like stealing.
people just want to see if they can get out without being spotted, it thrilling. -
Its like stealing.
people just want to see if they can get out without being spotted, its thrilling. -
Ppl (man AND woman) cheat on their partner becuz they don't respect them. Ppl like this don't have enuff backbone to finish current relationship first.Originally posted by foxwalk:Some cheat even though they know it's wrong and they won't tolerate it in their partner. Can people think of reasons as to why some people cheat but others can get by without ever cheating?
is it:
1) too horny?
2) dun really love the person?
but there must be some out there with very high libidos who don't cheat right? -
If you can accept it, they'll be reasons... What you can't accept would only remains as excuses in your eyes...Originally posted by foxwalk:I think for those who want to cheat, it's only fair that they be in relationships where both parties are allowed to date others, so that they have common interests and no one is hurt. But, of course, these men are too selfish for that. B@stards!
by the way, some of you listed EXCUSES and not REASONS.