regrets...
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went out with a group of frenz and my "jie". well we went out the whole day. started at fuji ice palace. den went for steamboat, when my jie mentioned about being giddy. then we went to esplanade where she lied on the floor and started sneezing like tat. i realised she was having fever and flu when we were going home. at tat time 2am+ le. bo bian i stay cck she stay sembawang. i was torn bwt going home and sending my jie home. thing is if i send her home, it might give her wrong idea and that i don have transport home until the mrt starts. was quite indecisive in my decision, she assured me she was ok but i noe she juz acting tough. when my bus came she pushed me towards it . after i boarded my bus...i sms her la to check on how she doing. den when i reached home i called her to check on her. she sounded real sick n told me she feels like vomitting. i regret sia...really regret no send her home...fact is i like her. after even 1 stop after i boarded i wanted to alight. but juz did not do it...when i now noe she feeling sick...i regret my decision very badly...y wasnt i decisive enough to send her home...or is it i don like her enough to send her home? my heart says send her home. my brain says go home...haix...
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Goodness. u shouldnt have.. n u know it.. furthermore u said u like her.. tsktsktsk... well at least the tot tt counts.. at least u r repentent.. tt's not so bad.. u r not tt bad a chap..
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i really didnt mind sending her home, n staying under the void deck until mrt starts operation. but i don wan her to noe tat i like her else i will lose her as a "jie". somemore i fell n injured my head arm elbow n thumb at the ice skating rink. n she kept psychoing me to go home. i really wanted to juz follow my heart...but my brain n its logic had to kick in...when i saw the bus stop don have NR3 right, which is NR to cck. u cant believe how happy i was. i instantly told her i no choice but to send her home since i no bus home.den she said she go check for me, n she found a M181 bus...which oso travels to cck...haix...tat instant i knew i was in deep $hit bcos i couldnt make up my mind where to go...
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.......if you so scared of everything then you might as well stay there as a "didi"
coz women dun wan timid ppl. and you will continue to be one until the day u confess to ur feelings. If that incident happened yesterday u still got chance. Go to her house, cook for her and take care of her. U mention about what giving her wrong idea blah bah and you like her???? Ur contradicting urself man..... be true to urself lah. No one can help u if u dun overcome ur "timidness"
No hard feelings ok??? Me no expert but this is my 2 cents
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oh well.. wat's done is done n cannot be undone.. juz take note ya.. well.. u can make up by subsequently showing more concern.. or maybe even get her a pipping hot porridge for breakfast..
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mayb stay as didi better. i don really wanna b in a relationship now...think i not prepared. i like her doesnt mean possession ma...we don even tok on phone. i don even noe her home number. address or anything like tat. i regret not sending her home is bcos i actually no send her home...when she sick. not bcos i wan to get into her good books. she doesnt noe i like her so i intend to keep it tat way...
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TMD!!!!! Dun say i neber teach u ar!!!! You stay like this u 4eva single. Yes, liking someone does not mean you need to be with her. But liking someone is also being true to urself. If you can't even be true to urself you can forget about being in love for the rest of your life liaoz la. Not sending her home when she sick does not mean end of world ok? Dunnoe phone number. so what? You need some confidence man. Have faith in yourself.Originally posted by bladez87:mayb stay as didi better. i don really wanna b in a relationship now...think i not prepared. i like her doesnt mean possession ma...we don even tok on phone. i don even noe her home number. address or anything like tat. i regret not sending her home is bcos i actually no send her home...when she sick. not bcos i wan to get into her good books. she doesnt noe i like her so i intend to keep it tat way... -
tat the prob. i don have confidence n faith. i think to her i m juz a didi. a fren. i injured myself so badly, she did not even asked how i m.well i mean after we left the skating rink she did not ask. perhaps she forgot about it ba. but nvm...she treat me oso not bad...
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you did the right thing. it would have been disastrous if she suspects you like her before everything's ready. never let a gal know you like her before she likes you. always let her like you 1st, by whatever means. or else she will be scared of you and avoid you for fear of further misunderstanding. at least now your sis/bro relationship is intactOriginally posted by bladez87:went out with a group of frenz and my "jie". well we went out the whole day. started at fuji ice palace. den went for steamboat, when my jie mentioned about being giddy. then we went to esplanade where she lied on the floor and started sneezing like tat. i realised she was having fever and flu when we were going home. at tat time 2am+ le. bo bian i stay cck she stay sembawang. i was torn bwt going home and sending my jie home. thing is if i send her home, it might give her wrong idea and that i don have transport home until the mrt starts. was quite indecisive in my decision, she assured me she was ok but i noe she juz acting tough. when my bus came she pushed me towards it . after i boarded my bus...i sms her la to check on how she doing. den when i reached home i called her to check on her. she sounded real sick n told me she feels like vomitting. i regret sia...really regret no send her home...fact is i like her. after even 1 stop after i boarded i wanted to alight. but juz did not do it...when i now noe she feeling sick...i regret my decision very badly...y wasnt i decisive enough to send her home...or is it i don like her enough to send her home? my heart says send her home. my brain says go home...haix...
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See!!!! Even you know that you've got a problem.
So when you face a problem there are 2 options that u can take:
1) Face it and be a man
2) Ignore and runaway like a wimp
If you dun have confidence, what are gonna do about it? confidence and faith won't come running to u man. Btw how long have you met this "jie" 1st??? and do you know whether she got an interest in u a not ar??? -
aiyo, reveal that u live in cck liao.
what's done cannot be undone. no point dwelling on it.
it's prefectly normal to send a girl home if it's very late. moreover, she was sick. You think too much..what if she fainted on the way home?
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wa buay song ! cos i dun even have a 'jie' to begin with....
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Originally posted by chunyong:why do fools fall in love ? why do birds sing...
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me noe her for about 2months like that? met her thru a camp. only after the camp den she became my jie. since i said she my jie she is older den me la. i 17 at 2004, she 20 at 2004. she had a ex tat was oso from camp. he is 18. well he got her pretty sad when he broke off with her. she said a few times, tat i m too young for her. 3 years is alot to her. oo well...she treats me like didi nia...Originally posted by IceTea:See!!!! Even you know that you've got a problem.
So when you face a problem there are 2 options that u can take:
1) Face it and be a man
2) Ignore and runaway like a wimp
If you dun have confidence, what are gonna do about it? confidence and faith won't come running to u man. Btw how long have you met this "jie" 1st??? and do you know whether she got an interest in u a not ar??? -
love is a strange but beautiful thing ain't it
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You Are a bit young. Probably new to this dating business.
The thing you should have done, is to stick to what your heart wants to do. If your heart is pulling you to do this, but she tells you to do that... always go with your heart.
Be confident & decisive! Girls don't like guys who can't make up their minds, and guys who have no guts. That could the reasons why you're too young for her.
I wouldn't worry too much if i were you. There will be better girls out there, and the next time, when you're a bit older, you'll know what to do.
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yup i noe tat but for now i juz wan to b with her. not in relationship wise. but u noe close to her. someone who she can rely on. i donno leh. bcos i noe got 2 other guys like her. 1 she treats as a fren only. the other ...i oso not sure how she treats him. haha. i don wan later i follow heart n lose her as a fren u noe. as a jie i mean. i noe i cant give her happiness. tats y i don really think of being with her. i only wan to see her happy tats all. in my mind, i noe i cant have a gf rite now...i m juz not bf material at the moment.
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Yeah. Just send her home next time if she's really sick. Since this time round it's already OVER. Don't think too much..Originally posted by bladez87:yup i noe tat but for now i juz wan to b with her. not in relationship wise. but u noe close to her. someone who she can rely on. i donno leh. bcos i noe got 2 other guys like her. 1 she treats as a fren only. the other ...i oso not sure how she treats him. haha. i don wan later i follow heart n lose her as a fren u noe. as a jie i mean. i noe i cant give her happiness. tats y i don really think of being with her. i only wan to see her happy tats all. in my mind, i noe i cant have a gf rite now...i m juz not bf material at the moment. -
Why did you let her shove you into a bus?Originally posted by bladez87:went out with a group of frenz and my "jie". well we went out the whole day. started at fuji ice palace. den went for steamboat, when my jie mentioned about being giddy. then we went to esplanade where she lied on the floor and started sneezing like tat. i realised she was having fever and flu when we were going home. at tat time 2am+ le. bo bian i stay cck she stay sembawang. i was torn bwt going home and sending my jie home. thing is if i send her home, it might give her wrong idea and that i don have transport home until the mrt starts. was quite indecisive in my decision, she assured me she was ok but i noe she juz acting tough. when my bus came she pushed me towards it . after i boarded my bus...i sms her la to check on how she doing. den when i reached home i called her to check on her. she sounded real sick n told me she feels like vomitting. i regret sia...really regret no send her home...fact is i like her. after even 1 stop after i boarded i wanted to alight. but juz did not do it...when i now noe she feeling sick...i regret my decision very badly...y wasnt i decisive enough to send her home...or is it i don like her enough to send her home? my heart says send her home. my brain says go home...haix...
It was obviously your fault.
Now stop whining.