how to forget about her?
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i love her too deeply...but she hurts me deeply instead...i kept thinking of her...how to make myself forget abt her?
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It's impossible to forget. Perhaps the feelings will fade some day, but you will never forget.
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The best idea.... keep yourself busy. Join a club of some sort, or hang out more often with your friends and family. Heck, bury yourself in your schoolwork (if you're still studying). Then at least you can ace your exams.
The bottom line: STAY BUSY. Don't be so free that your thoughts wander for long periods of time.
I know how you feel man..... hang on in there!
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i know..my friends ask me to go out..i no mood to go out also..i just want to be alone..at home..
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brain damage? it worked for me.Originally posted by CuteBeat:i love her too deeply...but she hurts me deeply instead...i kept thinking of her...how to make myself forget abt her? -
thats what i'm trying to do, kept doing things keeping myself busy. have no life, rot at home, work work work sleep sleep sleep
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at 1st like tt 1 la..i quit tution cos i dun wan leave hm..try 2 play some online games or wad den hope tt u can be busy lo..den as time pass like 1 week or so..u will go out leOriginally posted by CuteBeat:i know..my friends ask me to go out..i no mood to go out also..i just want to be alone..at home.. -
Why forget if u cant forget?
Why love her if she hurts u so deeply? -
i guess time will heal your pain...
try to get yourself indulge in other meaningful and constructive things and activities to help it. -
u can sulk n cry all if u want... but she wont know. dun wallow in self pity...Originally posted by CuteBeat:i know..my friends ask me to go out..i no mood to go out also..i just want to be alone..at home..
no one cant forget that easily esp the one that gets hurts.
best to b around friends... have fun... coz she is. so dun deprive yrself... -
Originally posted by CuteBeat:i love her too deeply...but she hurts me deeply instead...i kept thinking of her...how to make myself forget abt her?
The more you try to forget consciously, the more consciously you remember.
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stop being an idiot please.... stop being a pig!
your brain is not created for rubbish!
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did u choose to be hurt or did she hurt you? there is a difference loh.
the harder you try to forget, the more u will remember. just let time heal all wounds -
y not YOU stop being an IDIOT and stop being a PIG!!!!!!Originally posted by sleepycat:stop being an idiot please.... stop being a pig!
your brain is not created for rubbish!
your brain is definately created for rubbish coz all u ever know about is going around CRITICIZING people!!!
Reflect on YOURSELF first before u post all these SELFISH and OFFENSIVE post pls!! -
why do u go around criticizing me? are you so bothered by me?Originally posted by carpe diem jur:y not YOU stop being an IDIOT and stop being a PIG!!!!!!
your brain is definately created for rubbish coz all u ever know about is going around CRITICIZING people!!!
Reflect on YOURSELF first before u post all these SELFISH and OFFENSIVE post pls!!
do i worth your breath & effort this much?
anyway, i'm not repentant so quit trying to make me feel bad.. i have no conscience but lotsa sympathy & compassion..
anyway, are u m or f? sexy?
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When we go thru our lives with an unconscious agreement to only grow 'Conditionally', we rob ourselves of so many wonderful blessings and opportunities that are awaiting for us at the other side of our fear.Originally posted by CuteBeat:i love her too deeply...but she hurts me deeply instead...i kept thinking of her...how to make myself forget abt her?
You have to succumb ur fear of getting lost in a r/s, fear of losing her, fear of being alone, etc.
Learn to let go of ur pains and moves towards more goodness, more truth and more freedom.
I mean in life, change is inevitable. if u choose to resist change, holds on too tightly and refuses to let go, u r only depriving urself all the new gifts life has waiting for u.
I know letting go is nv easy and naturally u feel tat u will end up with nothing. Basically, this seed of fear in u is groundless. Deep inside, you knew it, and u have no evidence in ur life tat this is the way things turn out, isn't it?
Think abt it;
"So many times when u thought u were losing someone/thing valuable, someone/thing much greater has come along."
"So many times when u r forced to let go of someone/thing u thought u cudn't live without, u ended up with someone/thing far better than u had ever imagined was possible."
We grow most from difficulties and not as much from the good times. Everything in ur life can wakes u up or put u to sleep and basically, it's up to u to let it wakes u up. Every exit is an entry to somewhere else. -
i dont owe u an explanation for what i've posted..Originally posted by sleepycat:why do u go around criticizing me? are you so bothered by me?
do i worth your breath & effort this much?
anyway, i'm not repentant so quit trying to make me feel bad.. i have no conscience but lotsa sympathy & compassion..
anyway, are u m or f? sexy?
whatever my sex, its NONE OF UR............BUSINESS!!! -
oOoh sooo fierce..Originally posted by carpe diem jur:i dont owe u an explanation for what i've posted..whatever my sex, its NONE OF UR............BUSINESS!!!
anyway gal, take it easy yah.. sleep tight later! -
yesterday nite,i can't sleep...thinking of the happy and sad moments we had gone thru..and now i am alone in my room...the past memories of her still appear vividly in my mind..i still can see her sleeping peacefully in my bed...now the bed is empty...watching tv and eating snacks together on the sofa in my room...now the tv is on..but the sofa is empty.....my room, our love nest which she and me build together..is so empty now...i think i need alot of time to get over her...can we still be friends?..i dont know..i really dont wish to see her...seeing her will make me sad as she won't be back to me again...
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how about pregnant?Originally posted by sleepycat:why do u go around criticizing me? are you so bothered by me?
do i worth your breath & effort this much?
anyway, i'm not repentant so quit trying to make me feel bad.. i have no conscience but lotsa sympathy & compassion..
anyway, are u m or f? sexy? -
leave the sad moments behind, happy moments are meant to be kept. As what the rest have said, time *can* help sooth the pain. Don't think about what could/should have been, instead treasure what you *had*Originally posted by CuteBeat:yesterday nite,i can't sleep...thinking of the happy and sad moments we had gone thru..and now i am alone in my room...the past memories of her still appear vividly in my mind..i still can see her sleeping peacefully in my bed...now the bed is empty...watching tv and eating snacks together on the sofa in my room...now the tv is on..but the sofa is empty.....my room, our love nest which she and me build together..is so empty now...i think i need alot of time to get over her...can we still be friends?..i dont know..i really dont wish to see her...seeing her will make me sad as she won't be back to me again... -
Heard this lotsa of times... but why must growing up be marked by so much agony? Does maturity comes with the price of becoming fearful & cynical?Originally posted by kiekie:When we go thru our lives with an unconscious agreement to only grow 'Conditionally', we rob ourselves of so many wonderful blessings and opportunities that are awaiting for us at the other side of our fear.
You have to succumb ur fear of getting lost in a r/s, fear of losing her, fear of being alone, etc.
Learn to let go of ur pains and moves towards more goodness, more truth and more freedom.
I mean in life, change is inevitable. if u choose to resist change, holds on too tightly and refuses to let go, u r only depriving urself all the new gifts life has waiting for u.
I know letting go is nv easy and naturally u feel tat u will end up with nothing. Basically, this seed of fear in u is groundless. Deep inside, you knew it, and u have no evidence in ur life tat this is the way things turn out, isn't it?
Think abt it;
"So many times when u thought u were losing someone/thing valuable, someone/thing much greater has come along."
"So many times when u r forced to let go of someone/thing u thought u cudn't live without, u ended up with someone/thing far better than u had ever imagined was possible."
We grow most from difficulties and not as much from the good times. Everything in ur life can wakes u up or put u to sleep and basically, it's up to u to let it wakes u up. Every exit is an entry to somewhere else. -
Mark My Words, You will never forget her. Since its over or She has forsaken you, Its time to learn to give up. Focus on your life, and occasionally just think of her as something that is the past.Originally posted by CuteBeat:i love her too deeply...but she hurts me deeply instead...i kept thinking of her...how to make myself forget abt her?
Love always leaves a scar that hurts, After time has healed the pain, There will be a lingering ghost of pain there. NEver to forget, becauseit is there to remind you of your own life and existence. -
Well.. things that happened in our lives are memories. Be it good or bad.Originally posted by CuteBeat:i love her too deeply...but she hurts me deeply instead...i kept thinking of her...how to make myself forget abt her?
Trying to forget? The harder you try the better you remembers. The trick is to so called forget is rather simple.
1. Accepting the facts.
The breakup is real and it's all over. Learn about why it happened and accept it, be it your fault or hers or both of you. Just get over it. Not asking you to pretend you are alright, but be brave to face the situation and the facts and stop drooling over it before you enters into depression and stuck in it.
2. Be positive.
You will meet someone better and someone better will come along. Why? Because this bad experience will ultimately teach you how to handle a relationship better and how you should love yourself better to let others love you.
3. Feeling sad is okay but don't negrate those who cares.
Don't lose your focus. Your friends are there for you. Losing your favorite plant doesn't necessary means you should lose your forest.
4. Facts of the term 'forever'
People tends to declare, "I'll love you forever..", "I only wants her in my life forever and no one can replace her." and so on..
Fair enough, no one can replace another person. But, you never know if you don't let go. After all, adults have proven that feelings can change.
As in the term forver.. what is 'forever' when you are only at the begining? -
Nice way of putting it dude....Originally posted by aH_v:Well.. things that happened in our lives are memories. Be it good or bad.
Trying to forget? The harder you try the better you remembers. The trick is to so called forget is rather simple.
1. Accepting the facts.
The breakup is real and it's all over. Learn about why it happened and accept it, be it your fault or hers or both of you. Just get over it. Not asking you to pretend you are alright, but be brave to face the situation and the facts and stop drooling over it before you enters into depression and stuck in it.
2. Be positive.
You will meet someone better and someone better will come along. Why? Because this bad experience will ultimately teach you how to handle a relationship better and how you should love yourself better to let others love you.
3. Feeling sad is okay but don't negrate those who cares.
Don't lose your focus. Your friends are there for you. Losing your favorite plant doesn't necessary means you should lose your forest.
4. Facts of the term 'forever'
People tends to declare, "I'll love you forever..", "I only wants her in my life forever and no one can replace her." and so on..
Fair enough, no one can replace another person. But, you never know if you don't let go. After all, adults have proven that feelings can change.
As in the term forver.. what is 'forever' when you are only at the begining?