need help to decipher ex's actions
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recently my ex started to initiate contact after disappearing from my life since feb. it all started with an e-card then email then 2 smses. click HERE and HERE for the full story. (decided not to paste the stroy here cos it would be X-posting? but pls leave your thoughts here
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anybody got an idea what he is up to? is he trying to 'be friends' or wat? i still hurt from the way he treated me and the whole ending-the-relationship bit and definately am still looking forward to see him suffer for treating me like dirt. grrrrrr.....
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Honestly...I think you need to ask yourself how you feel about him. If you have already decided, you wouldn't be asking this question
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Since he is your ex, u should forgive & forget.
Don't waste time thinking abt what he has done to u. -
he treated u like dirtOriginally posted by the_don:recently my ex started to initiate contact after disappearing from my life since feb. it all started with an e-card then email then 2 smses. click HERE and HERE for the full story. (decided not to paste the stroy here cos it would be X-posting? but pls leave your thoughts here )
anybody got an idea what he is up to? is he trying to 'be friends' or wat? i still hurt from the way he treated me and the whole ending-the-relationship bit and definately am still looking forward to see him suffer for treating me like dirt. grrrrrr.....
so u shudn't even bother now and to try to find out what he up to
ignore him and move on oredi -
Well, i think he just wants to be friends again, and hopefully to convert you into a christian. Nothing wrong with that, but if you think he's bothering you, just tell him to stop, then he won't be in your life anymore.
If you think its funny, then just play along. It doesn't matter what he thinks, the more important thing is what do You think. -
well..
this happened to one of my fren as well...
treated her shittily and end up wanting her bad..
i guess as wat they say.. its all in ur mind.. if u think he is a past.. tat will be in the history text...
if u r bothered.. r u being irritated or r u still feeling some butterflies?
ask urself tat.. if its irritated.. the thing u could do is totally ignore him.. n i really mean TOTALLY~
no need to anticipate or watsoever... cos u dun even need to bother..
but if u still feel something for him... tats is when y u r thinking so much..
but advice here..
if he treated u like dirt b4.. n dumped u..
if he wants u back now... dun bother.. no point being manipulated by him...
make ur own stand.. show him tat u r not his puppet and not dying for him...
some guys just need his ass to be KICK hard// if not he tot he is the ultimate.. calling his own shots...
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Dear Don,
An appropriate response cld be:
Him: Happy New Yr!
U: Yeah, I sure am happy now tt I'm without u!
Him: How've u been lately?
U: Cldn't be better now tt I'm without u!
Him: Wat's the matter wif u?
U: Oh Nothg much, juz tt my New Yr's resolution is to give jerks the treatment they deserve. Haf a GREAT 2005!
*grinz*
FeowFeowOriginally posted by the_don:recently my ex started to initiate contact after disappearing from my life since feb. it all started with an e-card then email then 2 smses. click HERE and HERE for the full story. (decided not to paste the stroy here cos it would be X-posting? but pls leave your thoughts here )
anybody got an idea what he is up to? is he trying to 'be friends' or wat? i still hurt from the way he treated me and the whole ending-the-relationship bit and definately am still looking forward to see him suffer for treating me like dirt. grrrrrr..... -
WHY EVEN THINKOriginally posted by the_don:recently my ex started to initiate contact after disappearing from my life since feb. it all started with an e-card then email then 2 smses. click HERE and HERE for the full story. (decided not to paste the stroy here cos it would be X-posting? but pls leave your thoughts here )
anybody got an idea what he is up to? is he trying to 'be friends' or wat? i still hurt from the way he treated me and the whole ending-the-relationship bit and definately am still looking forward to see him suffer for treating me like dirt. grrrrrr.....
You've got YOUR OWN LIFE now..?
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I LIKE!!!!!! Originally posted by FeowFeow:Dear Don,
An appropriate response cld be:
Him: Happy New Yr!
U: Yeah, I sure am happy now tt I'm without u!
Him: How've u been lately?
U: Cldn't be better now tt I'm without u!
Him: Wat's the matter wif u?
U: Oh Nothg much, juz tt my New Yr's resolution is to give jerks the treatment they deserve. Haf a GREAT 2005!
*grinz*
FeowFeow -
thanks everyone who responded. i gonna just let him roll in in his own dirt and live my life happily with my dar dar
xie xie everyone !! -
Great choice. Simply put it.. he is still learning about relationship and is probably driven by the fact of seeking a champanionship. Once he got it, he will take it for granted. This cycle will repeat itself till he is ready to really love not by using the brain but by passion.Originally posted by the_don:thanks everyone who responded. i gonna just let him roll in in his own dirt and live my life happily with my dar dar
xie xie everyone !! -
Originally posted by Devil1976:WHY EVEN THINK
You've got YOUR OWN LIFE now..? 
X2
This shouldn't even bother you at all; you got so much other thingy to worry about.
P.S: Remember, you are not oblige to reply him in any ways.
Cheers -
muack muack...u r back dearOriginally posted by Yunhaier: X2
This shouldn't even bother you at all; you got so much other thingy to worry about.
P.S: Remember, you are not oblige to reply him in any ways.
Cheers -
He's simply bored. Sometimes, guys make mistakes but dunno how to admit their guilt or offer apologies. Instead, they 'try their luck' again.
In this case, it reads like a pathetic attempt.
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