A little paragraph i picked up from a blog
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i really neglected those who really love and care for mie .. now teenagers are really getting out of hand .. im always thinking, if parents dun want to teach their children, den what for give birth to them ? isnt that really so irresponsible ? and why are parents beatin their kids, scoldin vulgarities in front of their kids when they dun want their kids to learn or to follow up their steps ?
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And the full post...
of cos i noe its not easy to be a parent, but since they want to be one, den train themselves .. parents or rather adults also says to us ' which parents dun love their child ' is that the foolish excuse they're givin themselves to save trouble and time to nuture their own child ? lovin a child is not giving him/her whatever he/she wants .. but to let him/her grow up in a healthy family with a lovely childhood and to get forgivessness when they makes mistakes and not beatin them up just for that moments anger ..
well, u can say just bcos i've not been a parent, so i can say so much .. in a family, every one needs to play a part, i admit i've not been a good daughter and sister .. but i've done what i could .. it always takes two hands to clap .. whats the point if im committed ? it takes a man and a woman to b committed den they can get married .. whats e point if only e man or only e woman is committed ? see what im trying to drive at ?
no matter how badly a teenager makes a mistake, its always e parents' fault .. y ? when a child grows up, of cos he/she will use his/her parents to lead an example of what they should and should not do .. therefore, whenever a teenager is at fault, of cos the teenager is oso at fault, but i believe that his/her parents are mostly at fault ..
nowadays communication is lackin everywhere .. parents always believe that their kids are too immatured to understand what they're going through .. but have they ever tried sharin just abit, simple worries with their own kids ? if u dun try, how will you noe if they're really capable of understandin ?
i really duno what parents have in mind .. of cos every parents want their kids to grow up, matured, responsible, isnt their duty to teach them den ? why are they always only knowin how to scold and beat their kids when their kids made a mistake ?
i seriously believe that now parents must really take some effort to understand their own kids, be patient and lovin to them .. -
Eh, i'm just glad my little mei mei has grown up enough to write stuff like this.
dun ask me why i posted this..
But i kinda agree with her. -
Originally posted by _Aaron_:And the full post...
of cos i noe its not easy to be a parent, but since they want to be one, den train themselves .. parents or rather adults also says to us ' which parents dun love their child ' is that the foolish excuse they're givin themselves to save trouble and time to nuture their own child ? lovin a child is not giving him/her whatever he/she wants .. but to let him/her grow up in a healthy family with a lovely childhood and to get forgivessness when they makes mistakes and not beatin them up just for that moments anger ..
well, u can say just bcos i've not been a parent, so i can say so much .. in a family, every one needs to play a part, i admit i've not been a good daughter and sister .. but i've done what i could .. it always takes two hands to clap .. whats the point if im committed ? it takes a man and a woman to b committed den they can get married .. whats e point if only e man or only e woman is committed ? see what im trying to drive at ?
no matter how badly a teenager makes a mistake, its always e parents' fault .. y ? when a child grows up, of cos he/she will use his/her parents to lead an example of what they should and should not do .. therefore, whenever a teenager is at fault, of cos the teenager is oso at fault, but i believe that his/her parents are mostly at fault ..
nowadays communication is lackin everywhere .. parents always believe that their kids are too immatured to understand what they're going through .. but have they ever tried sharin just abit, simple worries with their own kids ? if u dun try, how will you noe if they're really capable of understandin ?
i really duno what parents have in mind .. of cos every parents want their kids to grow up, matured, responsible, isnt their duty to teach them den ? why are they always only knowin how to scold and beat their kids when their kids made a mistake ?
i seriously believe that now parents must really take some effort to understand their own kids, be patient and lovin to them ..
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Somehow, i knew it.~
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our world is getting priorities warped...
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Your parents don't only have to be 'parents' alone. They also have to EARN to make sure that their children get FEEDED. And in order to do that, they would probably have to tolerate quite a level of stress and work load at the current times. And of relationship problems... See how people post up BGR problems in here? Your parents which might not be showing much of such signs, don't necessarily means that they're not experiencing stress from such things...Originally posted by _Aaron_:Eh, i'm just glad my little mei mei has grown up enough to write stuff like this.
dun ask me why i posted this..
But i kinda agree with her. -
do u even know what's a nigga?Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON: -
Obviously he doesn't .