I AM MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM, BUT I MIGHT NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN

• jenni_886

  2 Jan 05, 04:16

  lkjisdjfis

• I-like-flings(m)

  2 Jan 05, 04:21

  sorri but i lost ur no. can give mi again.. that was why i havent call u yet... i am madly in love with u too...
• jenni_886

  2 Jan 05, 04:23

  hilariousÂ…Â…Â…Â…Â…Â…
• I-like-flings(m)

  2 Jan 05, 04:29

  really... that is why i cant sleep now... keep thinking of u... sighz... pls pm mi ur no. again can??
• jenni_886

  2 Jan 05, 04:35

  lol ur such a twatÂ…Â…Â…Â…Â…Â…Â…Â…do u honestly think im thut stupid to bleive u!
• jOhO

  2 Jan 05, 05:06

  i guess u can only wait for him to call... or else, just keep telling urself it's not love.. becos truly, i dun think it is....
• icyprincess

  2 Jan 05, 05:33

  hmm...is it love? one thing is u have to be sure he really loves you too. another thing is u need to really get to know him. do not rush into a r/s before really getting to know the other person, cos u mite regret it. i think for your case, it is just strong attraction towards each other. get to know each other better, and it might develop into something stronger called love
  
  i.c.y
• aH_v

  2 Jan 05, 06:19

  Originally posted by jenni_886:

  i met a boy at a new years party and got on with him staright away, he was my mums friends, friends son.And i have fallen for him big time and even though he had a girlfriend there was a bit of touchy feeley goin on and he told me that he liked me. i gave him my home pgone number and i am desperate for him to call!
  i have seriously fell in love with him and cant stop thinking about him, but i may NEVER see him again, what do i do!?!

  Infractuation comes in all sizes and shapes, at all kind of places with all kinds of people. How do you know if it's infractuation or this thing call 'love'??
• icyprincess

  2 Jan 05, 06:21

  Originally posted by aH_v:

  Infractuation comes in all sizes and shapes, at all kind of places with all kinds of people. How do you know if it's infractuation or this thing call 'love'??

  in fatuation is when you are strongly attracted to the image of the person you have in your head. He/she will be perfect in all ways. It is like a fantasy created to cover the fact that you dun even know much abt that person. But love is that you continue to love a person even when you realize he/she has their own flaws...
  
  i.c.y
• A Beautiful Mind

  2 Jan 05, 14:51

  hmm... u may have manic obsession... see a doc
• huiz

  2 Jan 05, 14:58

  err...pardon me but if he has a gf already, & he tells u he likes u as well, arent u afraid u might be in his current gf's shoes if u two become an item? wat if he sees another gal & tells her he likes her again? sry for saying this...
• lwflee

  2 Jan 05, 15:01

  Originally posted by jenni_886:
  there was a bit of touchy feeley goin on + he told me that he liked me.

  = O1d3st tr1ck in da book!
  
  
  
  
• foxwalk

  2 Jan 05, 15:14

  you think you are romeo and juliet?
• No_Problemo

  2 Jan 05, 15:27

  Originally posted by foxwalk:

  you think you are romeo and juliet?

  This is more like Ah Beng luv Ah lian, but Ah lian bery free ask for trouble and when Ah BEng free he will ask for trouble too. Bery lomantic leh
• Devil1976

  2 Jan 05, 16:47

  Originally posted by jenni_886:

  i met a boy at a new years party and got on with him staright away, he was my mums friends, friends son.And i have fallen for him big time and even though he had a girlfriend there was a bit of touchy feeley goin on and he told me that he liked me. i gave him my home pgone number and i am desperate for him to call!
  i have seriously fell in love with him and cant stop thinking about him, but i may NEVER see him again, what do i do!?!

  Such things happen... All you can do is probably just to wait or see if you might get to bump into him one day...? Afterall, Singapore's kinda small....
  
  But then again... How would you know this might not be for the better of things.....?
• kaobeikaobu

  2 Jan 05, 17:43

  Originally posted by jenni_886:

  i met a boy at a new years party and got on with him staright away, he was my mums friends, friends son.And i have fallen for him big time and even though he had a girlfriend there was a bit of touchy feeley goin on and he told me that he liked me. i gave him my home pgone number and i am desperate for him to call!
  i have seriously fell in love with him and cant stop thinking about him, but i may NEVER see him again, what do i do!?!

  if he wants to call, he will call. If nt, life still continues. Has such thing happened to you before?
• BeYoNd82

  2 Jan 05, 18:03

  its jus a crush man... u will forget it soon... if u really cant, u can ask ur relatives or whosoever for his contact...
• _Aaron_

  2 Jan 05, 19:34

  Well, it seems like you're deeply attracted to him.
  
  I won't use the word love, because i don't believe in love at first sights. Yes, with a s at the back.
  
  Take some time off, do something else, and see if you can forget him after a few months.
  
  Since he already has a gf, it would be very wrong to go out with him wouldn't it? And since he hasn't called you yet, he's actually creating more attraction for you. He knows how the game is played... be careful!
• SibeiSuayKia

  3 Jan 05, 01:49

  Are u that girl?...were u wearing pink at the day?
• jenni_886

  3 Jan 05, 02:02

  no.......
• aH_v

  3 Jan 05, 04:03

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  in fatuation is when you are strongly attracted to the image of the person you have in your head. He/she will be perfect in all ways. It is like a fantasy created to cover the fact that you dun even know much abt that person. But love is that you continue to love a person even when you realize he/she has their own flaws...
  
  i.c.y

  Good answer, however, which state is she in now? Love or infatuation?
• Li Ka Shing

  3 Jan 05, 04:39

  Jenni, next time if u like a guy, must ask for his number too. Dont just give the guy ur number only, because that makes u a passive person who is without control, u cant do anything except to wait for him to call. If he doesnt call u, then the opportunity pass away. So next time, take initiative to ask for the guy's number too ok?
  
  For now, if u want to take initiative, I agree that u can try asking ur mom or other relatives etc, try to get his number.
  
  Another thing, after u can get in touch with him, slowly get to know him better etc, then at the right time, u must ask him whether he want to breakup with his gf and make u his gf or not. If not, dont be sad, just forget the whole thing and move on. There are many other cute guys in this world. If yes, then u happy with him loh. U must make the issue clear so that he doesnt keep 2 gfs. But dont ask him so soon. Must get close with him first and the timing must be good.
  
  Somebody said, if he breakup with his gf then next time he can breakup with u and go for another girl too. Yes, of course, so what? Dating is not like marriage. Dating is still a process of finding and exploring a partner. Any of the two parties still have a right to breakup and find someone else more suitable. After marriage, then they are supposed to settle down. So, dont let his current status as a dater with a gf stop u. U should only stop if he is a married man.
  
  So, all the best to u ok.....
• gerrykoh

  3 Jan 05, 09:35

  I'll be very suspicious of any guy (with gf) who gets touchy feelly on first meeting. Hope he is not out to have a fling!
• ditzy

  3 Jan 05, 09:42

  Sorry, but the terms "have a girlfriend" and "touchy feely" don't go hand in hand with me. I don't know about you though, but you don't seem to mind. If he can't keep his hands to himself when it comes to someone else other than his current darling, who are you? And if you do become his darling in the coming future? What about "her"?
• MeoW_MeoW

  3 Jan 05, 09:49

  hey! i am his gf... dun anyhow ask my bf to call you!