they like each other but cannot be together
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what to do if a couple still like each other alot after they broke up...but they cannot be together due to their constant quarrelling
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then just meet for making love lor
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without communication there cannot be a relationship. this is what I have painfully understood.
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then u need to seriously discuss ways to solve this problemOriginally posted by spacesurf:what to do if a couple still like each other alot after they broke up...but they cannot be together due to their constant quarrelling -
as what i always said... sit down and have a talk.... if both reali each other, they sure able to find a way to solve the problem. I bet you dont wan to start quarrellling whenever you see each other, if this problem dont solve...i dont think is advisable to be together
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Originally posted by spacesurf:what to do if a couple still like each other alot after they broke up...but they cannot be together due to their constant quarrelling
Too much self component in place and the lack of mutual practices; Individualism creates barrier in relationship, often shown through series of quarrelling that makes relationship difficult.
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Why break up if u stil love each other?
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Sometimes relationships fail because the two are simply incompatible.
Sometimes, it's because they aren't serious abt the relationship from the start.
Other times, they are simply confused.... -
some people say quarrels will help to strengthen the r/s.
perhaps falling in love with the same person again and again then you will find true love? there's a saying which explains this. There's a live example around me.
Personally I feel that all the hurting words will only cause unpleasant feelings which time you quarrel. As time goes by and those feelings accumulate, it might even be hard to be just friends. -
If cannot be together why force. Will create more problem onli
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Love knows no boundaries! Compromise is key.
If they REALLY love each other but can't stand each other as well. it could just be a case of the right partner at the wrong time. Let both of them "grow" in a different environment, and when the time comes again they will love each other more. -
thanks for the advise..they tried to solve the problems but to no avail..but its damn painful to let go of a relationship when both are still so much in love with each other
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I think more on infatuation rather than love.Originally posted by spacesurf:thanks for the advise..they tried to solve the problems but to no avail..but its damn painful to let go of a relationship when both are still so much in love with each other -
wat are the quarrels that affect them? care to elaborate?Originally posted by spacesurf:thanks for the advise..they tried to solve the problems but to no avail..but its damn painful to let go of a relationship when both are still so much in love with each other -
what is infatuation?
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maybe the guy is selfish..but he wants the girl to change..but the girl not willing.....she say he should love her for who she is
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If the changes make a person better, then why not. If the changes goes to those small little thing then I would say, the guy have to tolerate it lorOriginally posted by spacesurf:maybe the guy is selfish..but he wants the girl to change..but the girl not willing.....she say he should love her for who she is -
This is a constant problem i see..
Guys wanting girls to change, girls wanting guys to change.
So they argue about it, over and over again, but they're still so much in love with each other.
However, its because they love each other, that they want to change the other party. And that's exactly causing all the pain.
Sometimes we forget that when we love a person, we give them the power to hurt us...
I think if both sides step back a bit, the girl agreeing to try to change, and the guy not expecting too much of a change, the relationship might succeed.
Arguements in a relationship bonds a couple closer together, but i quote this.
"Sand-paper may make something smooth, though it hurts it, but too much of it causes bleeding and too much hurt."
If they truly love each other, taking a step back shouldn't be too much of a problem right? -
infatuation is having strong feeling of attraction or likeness for someone but doesn't usually last long.Originally posted by spacesurf:what is infatuation? -
what kind of change? change in character? bad habits?Originally posted by spacesurf:maybe the guy is selfish..but he wants the girl to change..but the girl not willing.....she say he should love her for who she is
Real love is about loving the person for who he/she is but not the person who you want your partner to be. -
Find out the reasons why u are quarrelling. Is it over unimportant things?
Is it cos u must always be right?
Learn to compromise, practice give & take.
Don't sweat over little things if u really like each other.
Communicate & talk things over calmly. Don't raise yr voice & start accusing each other. -
the guy wants the girl to change her dressing because she always 'run light'
like dont wear short skirt and spags
the guy also dont want the girl to be so sociable with other guys as she is very friendly and make friends with guys easily...
the guy also told the girl he can change whatever the girl wants him to change but the girl is just not willing to change for him -
What if...
Boy likes girl.
Girl likes boy.
Boy in denial.
Girl is shy.
Boy walks girl home.
Girl likes boy to walk her home.
Both enjoy each other's presence.
Boy is currently attached...
-Lots of times are rough and painful when u are together, but its much much tougher to be not together at all. -
interesting..but wat it meansOriginally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:What if...
Boy likes girl.
Girl likes boy.
Boy in denial.
Girl is shy.
Boy walks girl home.
Girl likes boy to walk her home.
Both enjoy each other's presence.
Boy is currently attached...
-Lots of times are rough and painful when u are together, but its much much tougher to be not together at all.
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Simply can't be together...