help!!! need advice!!
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I was rejected by this girl and things went sour between me and her. However I helped her whenever she needed any help from me. But soon after we had an argument of not contacting eachother anymore!
However, recently we started conacting eachother again. But now I am beginning to feel very confused. Should I still go after her or should I not bother with her anymore? I do not know what to do?? Is she contacting me again cos I still stand a chance with her or what??
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"Had an argument for not contacting each other"
who initiated this argument ?
if its you who started it.....hmmm
u need to face the wall and think over it again (mian bi si guo)
who never face rejection? lolz...
if she rejected u, then dont be too nice to her loh...
it makes one seem so desperate
just be normal, not need to do everything to her bidding
if she initiated the argument... heehee...
u might still stand a chance...
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Ask urself whether she's really the one 4 u. If the answer is yes, then u shldn't b disheartened by one rejection and jus try again. However if she dosn't really means that much 2 u or u r not really her type, then jus let it go n maintain the frenship.
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What do u mean that if she initiated it, I still stand a chance?? Me now feeling very confused sia... haha.
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No. I would better advise you to just shove off your hopes to be on the safer side. Though I cannot deny the possibility that she might still be interested in you totally... But CHANCES are... It doesn't have to mean anything...Originally posted by Superdude2004:I was rejected by this girl and things went sour between me and her. However I helped her whenever she needed any help from me. But soon after we had an argument of not contacting eachother anymore!
However, recently we started conacting eachother again. But now I am beginning to feel very confused. Should I still go after her or should I not bother with her anymore? I do not know what to do?? Is she contacting me again cos I still stand a chance with her or what??
Need some suggestions??
Believing that she's still interested in you and that you should go after her JUST BECAUSE she contacted you again would only cause further confusions and agony... Take my words... She've probably just gotten over the arguement... If she's REALLY INTERESTED, REST ASSURED that there's a high chance that she'll be dropping you MORE OBVIOUS HINTS even if you don't react to her.... -
Looks like she only remembers ya when she needs someone to help her.
Don't go there girlfriend. -
An argument of not contacting each other anymore..?Originally posted by Superdude2004:I was rejected by this girl and things went sour between me and her. However I helped her whenever she needed any help from me. But soon after we had an argument of not contacting eachother anymore!
However, recently we started conacting eachother again. But now I am beginning to feel very confused. Should I still go after her or should I not bother with her anymore? I do not know what to do?? Is she contacting me again cos I still stand a chance with her or what??
Need some suggestions??
The way you said it, she brought up the argument..?
Perhaps she has problems and needed help, but had no one to rely on.
Started to contact each other again. That seems just about right for her. She needs the security. However... Security can be given in the form of good friends, or just a normal friend, not necessary a boyfriend.
I wouldn't think too much about it. Chances are she's just 'using' you. A bit crude, but that seems like what she's doing.
Be careful of girls like this.. -
I think we need more detailed information about your relationship with her.Originally posted by Superdude2004:I was rejected by this girl and things went sour between me and her. However I helped her whenever she needed any help from me. But soon after we had an argument of not contacting eachother anymore!
However, recently we started conacting eachother again. But now I am beginning to feel very confused. Should I still go after her or should I not bother with her anymore? I do not know what to do?? Is she contacting me again cos I still stand a chance with her or what??
Need some suggestions?? -
The problem is that she is blowing hot and cold towards me which makes me more confused. I thought of just asking her whether i stood a chance but i am afraid i will screw things up. haha. not sure what to do. some of my friends told me to stop bothering about her since she rejected me and even started the arguement of not contacting her anymore. should i really do that???
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I guess it is because u ignored her, that's why she is showing interest.
Treat her as a friend. Check for signs that she wants to develop further -
......Originally posted by Lingos:Looks like she only remembers ya when she needs someone to help her.
Don't go there girlfriend. -
FORGET the WHOLE THING.Originally posted by Superdude2004:The problem is that she is blowing hot and cold towards me which makes me more confused. I thought of just asking her whether i stood a chance but i am afraid i will screw things up. haha. not sure what to do. some of my friends told me to stop bothering about her since she rejected me and even started the arguement of not contacting her anymore. should i really do that???
It's really NOT WORTH IT.
I've seen my FAIR SHARE of such kinda people too...
One of them told me she was treating me QUITE NICE because she have been telling me about her happenings (her problems and such...) I ALMOST LAUGHED MY HEADS OFF....
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how many heads do u have devilish?? ....Originally posted by Devil1976:FORGET the WHOLE THING.
It's really NOT WORTH IT.
I've seen my FAIR SHARE of such kinda people too...
One of them told me she was treating me QUITE NICE because she have been telling me about her happenings (her problems and such...) I ALMOST LAUGHED MY HEADS OFF.... 
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2. How many you have?Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:how many heads do u have devilish?? .... 
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Originally posted by Devil1976:2. How many you have?
I don't know both can laugh