Maintaining a relationship
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I just got into another relationship and I would like to know how you people manage to maintain till the day both party get married. Cos I hope to maintain the relationship that will enable me to see and hear the weddings bells. anyway I am 26 already. I do not want to have gone through another phase of finding again. Hope this round will be the last one for me.
What to avoid during the course of relationship?
Is following the concern of gals today
Understanding
Concern
Communication
Caring
and how do we maintain all this? -
Use your HEART...? If even your heart can't win the battle, the relationship's no point in maintaining....Originally posted by lchungwe:I just got into another relationship and I would like to know how you people manage to maintain till the day both party get married. Cos I hope to maintain the relationship that will enable me to see and hear the weddings bells. anyway I am 26 already. I do not want to have gone through another phase of finding again. Hope this round will be the last one for me.
What to avoid during the course of relationship?
Is following the concern of gals today
Understanding
Concern
Communication
Caring
and how do we maintain all this? -
The more you try to aviod making mistakes in life, the more prone you are to commit them.Originally posted by lchungwe:What to avoid during the course of relationship?
Is following the concern of gals today
Understanding
Concern
Communication
Caring
and how do we maintain all this?
I usually don't agree with moi parents but there's something they said which makes a lot sense:
" Love by itself might not be the best reason for 2 pple to become a couple...Love is not enough; a successful marriage will require mutual affection,similar expectations,shared values. Love's only a small part of it"
(Quoted by moi Dad when I insisted that I loved my girlfriend and wanted to marry her)
So in short, dump those stupid theories about "what your gal might want from you" and ask yourself...Are you capable of staying with her forever(taking into account all other aspects other than your love for that gal).
And ask her to do the same thing.
good luck to ya
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My previous relationship lasted for 4 1/2 yrs due to e fact that i am not ready for marriage.
But time are different after the breakup as I had secured my career.
Regards
Willie -
I am 26 too. And I am planning for my marriage with my girlfriend of 5 yrs.
To put it simply, u would have to learn how to close one eye to trivial matters. To me, nothing is worth a retort anymore. Simple reprimanding is now and then but don't make it a habit. And try not to pursue those nitty-gritties.
Of course, she would have to learn those techniques mentioned above too. Then life would be much simpler. -
wah larry, five years liao leh!Originally posted by Larry:I am 26 too. And I am planning for my marriage with my girlfriend of 5 yrs.
To put it simply, u would have to learn how to close one eye to trivial matters. To me, nothing is worth a retort anymore. Simple reprimanding is now and then but don't make it a habit. And try not to pursue those nitty-gritties.
Of course, she would have to learn those techniques mentioned above too. Then life would be much simpler.
when u inviting us to ur wedding??? -
got a question.. if a couple that dun really talk much when together but when there's a 3rd party, they always poke fun and talk also.. do u think there's still a slim chance??
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Guess no one can provide a standard answer to ur question becos it's juz not possible.I'm still trying to find the answer myself too.I quite agree with Devil.Believe in ur heart and it shld not go wrong.Moreover,ur partner shld also play his/her part to maintain a r/s.One person will and can never do the job.
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Every relationship has their own problems... one answer cannot always fit into everyboby's shoes.
LARRY CONGRATS!
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Think I'm unforgiven to this world
Think I'm unforgiven
Step inside the light and see the fear
Of God burn inside of me
The gold was put to flame
To kill, to burn, to mold its purity -
It takes 2 hands to clap
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it takes 2 wings of an eagle to fly!!!Originally posted by eagle:It takes 2 hands to clap -
it also take a prick n a pussy to hv baby