wtf man ..
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At many a times .. when u tot some1 has finally came so close to u n u tot u will be able to have her .. then as when the truth sink in .. ur world seemed to collaspe .. so tormenting n sad .. doesnt it ?
haix .. i nv had any gf b4 .. nt becos i look like shiit or wat .. prehaps i m nt flirty enough to be able to hook up more gals .. so as usual .. i waited .. i waited for the simple n nice gal tat i could ever wish for .. BUT .. everytime i fall for sm1 .. i jus couldnt get her .. all attempts will fail n the frenship might even be torn apart .. thus i wonder .. wats wrong with me ?
my self esteem has suffered .. ppl told me i aint bad looking n i look great n stuffs .. but jus wtf is wrong with me ? nt that i m despo for some gal but then the feeling of loneliness can be so so so much depressing ..
i remember my 1st love .. at age 10 .. yes ppl can say i m too young for tat .. but i was cool headed n i koe tat was my 1st .. it was the sweetest memory i have .. i remember doing little things for that gal in my class .. getting her little gifts even so it mean to burn a hole in my pocket ( i aint rich during pri sch ) ..
we eventually got up to the same sec sch together .. i was pretty sure we felt something for each other .. then it came crashing down when the gal eventually did something drastic to me .. n thus crush my pride n prehaps hurt me deep inside which had nv heal ..
So many yrs hav passed .. i had seen ppl ard me getting together n breaking up numerous times n sometimes i feel happy for them but still ... i couldnt help but feel jealous n to the pt of hatred .. oso i cant helped but feel tat i m a loser .. ppl come n go .. i could see their success everywhere .. but i don have any which i could be proud of .. y m i such a failure ?
In the holidays .. i managed to find some1 whom i tot is nice n sweet .. although at 1st i didnt habour any tots for her .. but nw i do .. she is simply too great .. her character .. her charm .. the way she is ...is what any1 would ever wished for .. eventually we gt close .. so close to a pt i tot she is gonna be mine .. we went out regularly .. study late at nite ..able to talk bout anything under the sun .. i would massage her back when she is tired .. hold her hands when she feels cold .. n gently wiped away the rain droplet on her cheeks .. she gave me a feeling tat she is my gf .. this feeling of being loved is what i yearn for so long ..
However all dreams came shattered.. i feel lost .. i wast really rejected .. but i guess i don stand a chance in the 1st place cos she can be tat friendly for any1 ... so i feel tat i m jus nothing much of a good fren in her heart .. jus a mere good fren .. she said she doesnt want a rls till our exams are over .. i dunno .. i jus feel so lost n vexed today .. i have tons of hw to complete n yet i cant find the correct mood to do .. i m so pissed at myself for having such a life ..
Does any1 share similar experiences like me ? i m so depressed tat i have decided to pen in my tots in this forum .. haix ..n hope to find some light here .. thz ..
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since she say so then let it be... but maintain ur current closeness wif her lor, then after the exam then date her more b4 popping the question.... but do leave ur heart open for other gals... dun stress la.. its not the end yet...
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U wat school de? What age? Sekali is my that girl...
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lol....dont rub it in.....people so hurt le
btw hor.....there is no need to clarify u r not ugly....nobody is gonna judge u on that....but the mere fact that u brought it up only make us wonder -
Just want to confirm nia mah....so I can take acttion if he is... JC or Poly de?Originally posted by bratpig:lol....dont rub it in.....people so hurt le
btw hor.....there is no need to clarify u r not ugly....nobody is gonna judge u on that....but the mere fact that u brought it up only make us wonder Poly I dun care...JC which JC? -
its just a phase... and one word of advice-- don't believe everything people tell you. they may tell you you look great when they actually mean you are a nice person to hang out with but looks OK only...Originally posted by Saint`:At many a times .. when u tot some1 has finally came so close to u n u tot u will be able to have her .. then as when the truth sink in .. ur world seemed to collaspe .. so tormenting n sad .. doesnt it ?
haix .. i nv had any gf b4 .. nt becos i look like shiit or wat .. prehaps i m nt flirty enough to be able to hook up more gals .. so as usual .. i waited .. i waited for the simple n nice gal tat i could ever wish for .. BUT .. everytime i fall for sm1 .. i jus couldnt get her .. all attempts will fail n the frenship might even be torn apart .. thus i wonder .. wats wrong with me ?
my self esteem has suffered .. ppl told me i aint bad looking n i look great n stuffs .. but jus wtf is wrong with me ? nt that i m despo for some gal but then the feeling of loneliness can be so so so much depressing ..
i remember my 1st love .. at age 10 .. yes ppl can say i m too young for tat .. but i was cool headed n i koe tat was my 1st .. it was the sweetest memory i have .. i remember doing little things for that gal in my class .. getting her little gifts even so it mean to burn a hole in my pocket ( i aint rich during pri sch ) ..
we eventually got up to the same sec sch together .. i was pretty sure we felt something for each other .. then it came crashing down when the gal eventually did something drastic to me .. n thus crush my pride n prehaps hurt me deep inside which had nv heal ..
So many yrs hav passed .. i had seen ppl ard me getting together n breaking up numerous times n sometimes i feel happy for them but still ... i couldnt help but feel jealous n to the pt of hatred .. oso i cant helped but feel tat i m a loser .. ppl come n go .. i could see their success everywhere .. but i don have any which i could be proud of .. y m i such a failure ?
In the holidays .. i managed to find some1 whom i tot is nice n sweet .. although at 1st i didnt habour any tots for her .. but nw i do .. she is simply too great .. her character .. her charm .. the way she is ...is what any1 would ever wished for .. eventually we gt close .. so close to a pt i tot she is gonna be mine .. we went out regularly .. study late at nite ..able to talk bout anything under the sun .. i would massage her back when she is tired .. hold her hands when she feels cold .. n gently wiped away the rain droplet on her cheeks .. she gave me a feeling tat she is my gf .. this feeling of being loved is what i yearn for so long ..
However all dreams came shattered.. i feel lost .. i wast really rejected .. but i guess i don stand a chance in the 1st place cos she can be tat friendly for any1 ... so i feel tat i m jus nothing much of a good fren in her heart .. jus a mere good fren .. she said she doesnt want a rls till our exams are over .. i dunno .. i jus feel so lost n vexed today .. i have tons of hw to complete n yet i cant find the correct mood to do .. i m so pissed at myself for having such a life ..
Does any1 share similar experiences like me ? i m so depressed tat i have decided to pen in my tots in this forum .. haix ..n hope to find some light here .. thz ..
anyway, why be in such a hurry... i used to be sad i couldn't really find someone to connect with.. -
har ? .. i 18 ... sch ma .. say le then veri what sia .. y nt u tell me wats ur sch .. then i say yes or no or mayb .. haix .. i was so sad n pissed awhile ago .. but nw feeling better le .. but still .. haix
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lol....dont rub it in.....people so hurt le
hmm .. i somehw get ur pt .. but i jus say cos i feel so pissed tat y can ppl tell me tat i m nt ugly n say those flattery things n yet i don get what those nt so good looking get .. i mean .. u see the streets r overflowing with mis-matches .. if u believe ugly guys get pretty gals u koe what i mean ..
btw hor.....there is no need to clarify u r not ugly....nobody is gonna judge u on that....but the mere fact that u brought it up only make us wonder
its jus a fit of anger then i mention it .. i dun really mean tat they don deserve wat they get la .. mayb they hav superb character or wat .. n i m absolutely not prejudiced against ppl with less appeal or wat .. so don get me wrong somehw .. -
Her sch NY something...Originally posted by Saint`:har ? .. i 18 ... sch ma .. say le then veri what sia .. y nt u tell me wats ur sch .. then i say yes or no or mayb .. haix .. i was so sad n pissed awhile ago .. but nw feeling better le .. but still .. haix U lehz -
no la ... my sch at east .. victoria tampines meridian temasek jc .. 1 of them .. don worry .. i oso don wan to reveal much .. in case some1 i koe may be in this forum ..
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Go go jio ur gal....not mine wat I dun care...go go go jio her!Originally posted by Saint`:no la ... my sch at east .. victoria tampines meridian temasek jc .. 1 of them .. don worry .. i oso don wan to reveal much .. in case some1 i koe may be in this forum .. -
Man, I think you have mis-interpreted everything!Originally posted by Saint`:hmm .. i somehw get ur pt .. but i jus say cos i feel so pissed tat y can ppl tell me tat i m nt ugly n say those flattery things n yet i don get what those nt so good looking get .. i mean .. u see the streets r overflowing with mis-matches .. if u believe ugly guys get pretty gals u koe what i mean ..
its jus a fit of anger then i mention it .. i dun really mean tat they don deserve wat they get la .. mayb they hav superb character or wat .. n i m absolutely not prejudiced against ppl with less appeal or wat .. so don get me wrong somehw ..
It's not a superb character, nor izzit the looks of guys that will determine whether he gets a partner or somethin'...
First, if you ask a girl if she'd go out with a guy who is big, fat, ugly, and hunched-back (apologize if i sounded too exagerated), she'll probably reply something like this, "Sure, why not? If we have the chemistry.."
Now what's the key word here? You got it. it's Chemistry.
To a women, chemistry is either there or it isn't.
Chemistry is about a woman perceiving that she and a guy are "naturally compatible" because her emotional and physical sparks fly when she meets or is around that guy.
Chemistry is NOT the result of a woman meeting a man and then thinking to herself "Let's see... he is six feet tall, has a good job making 20% more than the normal salary, is the correct age for child rearing... I think that we have a natural chemistry...".
Some tips to stirr up the attraction: -
1 Be humorous.
2 Be in control of urself.
3 Know how and when to tease.
4 Try creating tension, anticipation or mystic.. (whatever u call it, haha)
Well, I'll stop right here. Of course, there're many more ways to add in but the above are what I can do to help you bro..
All the best in ur future endeavors..
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She is right not to get involved in r/s right now cos "A' level is more impt.
She is rejecting you cos timing is not right, so don't take it personally. -
YOu need more confident in yourself.. once fallen and you feel that you could nver ever climp up again.. that's not the way it is.. You must learn to accept and then move on from it.. Not to dwell into it time over time.. This won't get you anywhere.. It might jus follow you around each time you tried something new..Originally posted by Saint`:At many a times .. when u tot some1 has finally came so close to u n u tot u will be able to have her .. then as when the truth sink in .. ur world seemed to collaspe .. so tormenting n sad .. doesnt it ?
haix .. i nv had any gf b4 .. nt becos i look like shiit or wat .. prehaps i m nt flirty enough to be able to hook up more gals .. so as usual .. i waited .. i waited for the simple n nice gal tat i could ever wish for .. BUT .. everytime i fall for sm1 .. i jus couldnt get her .. all attempts will fail n the frenship might even be torn apart .. thus i wonder .. wats wrong with me ?
my self esteem has suffered .. ppl told me i aint bad looking n i look great n stuffs .. but jus wtf is wrong with me ? nt that i m despo for some gal but then the feeling of loneliness can be so so so much depressing ..
i remember my 1st love .. at age 10 .. yes ppl can say i m too young for tat .. but i was cool headed n i koe tat was my 1st .. it was the sweetest memory i have .. i remember doing little things for that gal in my class .. getting her little gifts even so it mean to burn a hole in my pocket ( i aint rich during pri sch ) ..
we eventually got up to the same sec sch together .. i was pretty sure we felt something for each other .. then it came crashing down when the gal eventually did something drastic to me .. n thus crush my pride n prehaps hurt me deep inside which had nv heal ..
So many yrs hav passed .. i had seen ppl ard me getting together n breaking up numerous times n sometimes i feel happy for them but still ... i couldnt help but feel jealous n to the pt of hatred .. oso i cant helped but feel tat i m a loser .. ppl come n go .. i could see their success everywhere .. but i don have any which i could be proud of .. y m i such a failure ?
In the holidays .. i managed to find some1 whom i tot is nice n sweet .. although at 1st i didnt habour any tots for her .. but nw i do .. she is simply too great .. her character .. her charm .. the way she is ...is what any1 would ever wished for .. eventually we gt close .. so close to a pt i tot she is gonna be mine .. we went out regularly .. study late at nite ..able to talk bout anything under the sun .. i would massage her back when she is tired .. hold her hands when she feels cold .. n gently wiped away the rain droplet on her cheeks .. she gave me a feeling tat she is my gf .. this feeling of being loved is what i yearn for so long ..
However all dreams came shattered.. i feel lost .. i wast really rejected .. but i guess i don stand a chance in the 1st place cos she can be tat friendly for any1 ... so i feel tat i m jus nothing much of a good fren in her heart .. jus a mere good fren .. she said she doesnt want a rls till our exams are over .. i dunno .. i jus feel so lost n vexed today .. i have tons of hw to complete n yet i cant find the correct mood to do .. i m so pissed at myself for having such a life ..
Does any1 share similar experiences like me ? i m so depressed tat i have decided to pen in my tots in this forum .. haix ..n hope to find some light here .. thz ..
People come and go.. you also know how to say.. the more you fall.. the stronger you should be... and not weaker.. In this world is not only having gfs can fulfilled your loneliness.. What about your friends?? your family?? If you aren't prepared to be in a relationship don't force yourself to.. Even if you got into one.. are you sure and confident that it will last long?? or it might be jus a short one.. in the case.. wouldn't you be telling us again.. that you are shattered from a broken relationship that you tot she might be the one..
If love really comes it will come... Don't push yourself too much.. Engage yourself into more activities.. get to know more friends.. and build back your self-esteem and pride first before you start doing anything like courtship.. Cos right now.. you ain't stable enough and prepared to have any r/s.. You've been hurt once and your think the world is going to collapse.. what about those that had been through more than you..
A good personality and character is what one is looking for.. Yes.. of cos looks does take into consideration.. but not that much.. if someone who is true to you.. no matter how ugly you look.. or how handsome you can be.. she will still love you the way you are.. is your heart and sincerity.. care and concern... If i'm the girl that you are goin to chase or be with.. and i know that you are someone who have no confident and low self-esteem.. how would the girl think.. will she feel secure when she's with you.. Or will you feel inferior anot??
Right now.. you got this close to this girl.. and she says she doesn't wan to start any r/s before the exams.. then wait.. wat the rush for it?? If you are 100% sure of yourself that she's really the one.. and she can be your gf.. No matter what obstacles come you must be able to fight it.. And not sitting down here.. wailing about you cannot get her.. she treats everyone the same.. i;m just like any other good friend of hers.. If you think like this.. You NEVER succed! Think about this.. even if you failed.. at least you tried your very best.. and after you know that you couldn't get her.. don't be too depressed.. Jus be yourself.. and you both still can be friends.. If you WANT TO!
If you keep telling yourself.. you are a loser you are a failure.. FOREVER you will be one! During this period of time.. is a good chance for you to build up your confidence level.. and meanwhile.. wait till exams is over then maybe you strike.. But still keep the closeness you have for each other..
BE GENUINE and be TRUE to yourself..
Cheers..
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dude dont worry bro.
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GOD... GET A GRIP OF YOURSELF!!! You can START CRYING when the 'battle' is OVER...?? Now you're ONLY HALF-WAY there and you're EXHAUSTED ALREADY...??Originally posted by Saint`:At many a times .. when u tot some1 has finally came so close to u n u tot u will be able to have her .. then as when the truth sink in .. ur world seemed to collaspe .. so tormenting n sad .. doesnt it ?
haix .. i nv had any gf b4 .. nt becos i look like shiit or wat .. prehaps i m nt flirty enough to be able to hook up more gals .. so as usual .. i waited .. i waited for the simple n nice gal tat i could ever wish for .. BUT .. everytime i fall for sm1 .. i jus couldnt get her .. all attempts will fail n the frenship might even be torn apart .. thus i wonder .. wats wrong with me ?
my self esteem has suffered .. ppl told me i aint bad looking n i look great n stuffs .. but jus wtf is wrong with me ? nt that i m despo for some gal but then the feeling of loneliness can be so so so much depressing ..
i remember my 1st love .. at age 10 .. yes ppl can say i m too young for tat .. but i was cool headed n i koe tat was my 1st .. it was the sweetest memory i have .. i remember doing little things for that gal in my class .. getting her little gifts even so it mean to burn a hole in my pocket ( i aint rich during pri sch ) ..
we eventually got up to the same sec sch together .. i was pretty sure we felt something for each other .. then it came crashing down when the gal eventually did something drastic to me .. n thus crush my pride n prehaps hurt me deep inside which had nv heal ..
So many yrs hav passed .. i had seen ppl ard me getting together n breaking up numerous times n sometimes i feel happy for them but still ... i couldnt help but feel jealous n to the pt of hatred .. oso i cant helped but feel tat i m a loser .. ppl come n go .. i could see their success everywhere .. but i don have any which i could be proud of .. y m i such a failure ?
In the holidays .. i managed to find some1 whom i tot is nice n sweet .. although at 1st i didnt habour any tots for her .. but nw i do .. she is simply too great .. her character .. her charm .. the way she is ...is what any1 would ever wished for .. eventually we gt close .. so close to a pt i tot she is gonna be mine .. we went out regularly .. study late at nite ..able to talk bout anything under the sun .. i would massage her back when she is tired .. hold her hands when she feels cold .. n gently wiped away the rain droplet on her cheeks .. she gave me a feeling tat she is my gf .. this feeling of being loved is what i yearn for so long ..
However all dreams came shattered.. i feel lost .. i wast really rejected .. but i guess i don stand a chance in the 1st place cos she can be tat friendly for any1 ... so i feel tat i m jus nothing much of a good fren in her heart .. jus a mere good fren .. she said she doesnt want a rls till our exams are over .. i dunno .. i jus feel so lost n vexed today .. i have tons of hw to complete n yet i cant find the correct mood to do .. i m so pissed at myself for having such a life ..
Does any1 share similar experiences like me ? i m so depressed tat i have decided to pen in my tots in this forum .. haix ..n hope to find some light here .. thz ..
Ever heard of the saying? "A tired soldier fights a losing battle..."
YEAH... THAT'S U
WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU, WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU...??
People say AFTER EXAMS what... Just CONCENTRATE on YOUR STUDIES and CONTINUE to be CARING for her lor.... AFTER EXAMS then try to SPEND MORE TIME TOGETHER...?? "
Though you MUST understand that in courtships, there're bound to be failures from time to time... Don't DISHEART YOURSELF... So long as nobody's really hurt (you and the one you LOVE ) in the PROCESS, just PICK YOURSELF UP and GET ON WITH LIFE
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thz for so many replies .. i discovered i have failed to look much more indepth that most of u have layed out for me .. well after 2 days of sadness .. i guess i m pretty alrite now .. now i m back on gd terms with her i suppose .. although she sort of sms me back often n nt as fast as b4 .. well .. lets hope things work out smoothly .. i try slowly again .
