Ideal age to settle down

• ryangian

  8 Jan 05, 23:38

  When is it going to be twenties or 30's......
  
  Just like to hear from more ppl views cause i still single and no gf to date nor any close females counterparts
• hOmEz

  8 Jan 05, 23:39

  Originally posted by ryangian:

  When is it going to be twenties or 30's......
  
  Just like to hear from more ppl views cause i still single and no gf to date nor any close females counterparts

  31 ?
  
  
• Devil1976

  8 Jan 05, 23:55

  Originally posted by ryangian:

  When is it going to be twenties or 30's......
  
  Just like to hear from more ppl views cause i still single and no gf to date nor any close females counterparts

  Depends.... On one's maturity, mentality, belief(s) and the availability of a suitable partner....
• magicdust

  9 Jan 05, 01:07

  28 is a good time for me... or so my ideal age for marriage...
  but tat doesnt mean i'll have kids straightaway...!
• aryan

  9 Jan 05, 01:27

  ASAP better. i like to settle down at 25 and have kids after 1 yr
• elektra

  9 Jan 05, 01:44

  for guys maybe 30 - 32, depends if he has a career of his own already? ready to settle down and create a family? and for women 24-28 best fertile
• Patrik

  9 Jan 05, 01:52

  I tink 28,29 is best.
• No_Problemo

  9 Jan 05, 04:32

  Originally posted by elektra:
  [b]for guys maybe 30 - 32, depends if he has a career of his own already? ready to settle down and create a family? and for women 24-28 best fertile [/b]

  over 28 how? still can produce?
• needles

  9 Jan 05, 07:08

  to me age doesn't really matter.
  what's more important is financial stability, and the ability to actually handle settling down.
  
  of course, together with age comes maturity ( normally ),
  so being older always helps.
  if i had to choose an age,
  i'd say late twenties. ( 27? 28? )
  
  hope that helped.
• thoreldan

  9 Jan 05, 08:08

  for my case, i think wanna settle before 30 also difficult
  must make sure my career/financial abilities is good enough or else make her suffer meh?
• SnowFlag

  9 Jan 05, 08:42

  in general in singapore, we hv not much choice to settle down early
• thoreldan

  9 Jan 05, 09:22

  Originally posted by SnowFlag:

  in general in singapore, we hv not much choice to settle down early

  i notice the malays generally settle earlier than their chinese counterparts
  No flame pls.
• BrUtUs

  9 Jan 05, 09:45

  guys 29-31... gals 25+
• ryangian

  9 Jan 05, 11:57

  Fianancial must be in stable condition to support kids(if they want) and the monthly instalment of HDB flats th only can settle down
• GrimR

  9 Jan 05, 12:02

  Originally posted by thoreldan:

  i notice the malays generally settle earlier than their chinese counterparts
  No flame pls.

  Yup I noticed that too.
• tankaloy

  9 Jan 05, 12:03

  think ahead of the future... i married late and i regret.. cos i have kids late too.. ideally if both of you are ready and committed, the ideal age is 24/25... too young?? think ,,after you married, have 2 years as couple life, enjoy it,travel together and see the world... at 26 have kids.. why?? when you are at this age, conceiving is easy..for the future... when you are 42 or so, your children is already 16... easy maths rite...
  saying is easy i know... but if you past that age and married even later.. u cant have the time back unless u can turn back the clock....
  
  questions in your mind: $$ is the problem..
  look at our malay community... most of them married young, age from 20 to 25,
  they survived as a young couple,and look at coples at the age in their 40s, thier eldest kids are already 16 to 20...proven..
  
  hope this helps..
  
  Tank
• elektra

  9 Jan 05, 12:55

  over 28 women less able to conceive than those younger ones la...

  
  
  Originally posted by No_Problemo:

  over 28 how? still can produce?

• wishhunter

  9 Jan 05, 16:58

  Basically any age so long as you are mentally and financially stable enough to enjoy it.
• LLbean

  9 Jan 05, 18:07

  settle down meaning having the same sex partner for the rest of your life?
• icyprincess

  9 Jan 05, 18:08

  hmm...for me the ideal age would be 25...but mebbe it might later cos depends on when I find the right person
  
  dun wan to rush into it just to end up witha divorce...
  
  i.c.y
• BabyLover

  9 Jan 05, 18:10

  think abt 24-26 for gals n guys late 20s to early 30s bah...
  
  
• ryangian

  9 Jan 05, 21:23

  if really settle down late then better don have kids, if not later $ not enough then ja lia
• hopy

  9 Jan 05, 21:33

  27 to 28?
• gasband

  9 Jan 05, 21:50

  35 years old
• technoboy

  9 Jan 05, 22:05

  I think it doesn't really matters how old. As long as u feel you partner is right then its ok. Even if you are 50 years old but you do not have confidence with your partner, it doesn't work out as well