My furture study problem..
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facing my furture study prob..
My dad played stocks and without saying i think he had burnt his fingers. Cuz i trust my "zhi jue" Somemore nowadaes keep asking us not to anihow spent e money blah blah.. Few daes ago my mum juz asked mi wherether i realli wanna go for make up course (becuz very ex, few months need few thousand) den i asked her why, she said maybe dad not allow or wad cuz he keep on saying no $$, BUT i've already sign up liao Diposit oso give le ($200) den now dono should i go ITE or wad.. Haf to ask dad 2night.. cuz e make up course is starting soon at feb. haix..
At 1st when i signed up he agreed, now..... WTF!!! Why must ppl play stock while they know it won't be 100% win! Waste $$ onli!! -
he plays maybe to get more $ for you
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get more $ can go work more ma...like tis guarantee got $$...pay tis kinda stock no use one...once lost etg is gone...maybe u shud try to save $$ yourself...hide it up and don tell other ppl...so tat when times come u at least go $$ to use...
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being a father is not easy. u have to provide for everythg tt yr family needs n wants. tt takes alot of time, dedication n $$$. its not wrng for your dad to want more $$$.everyone does.
wether it being good or bad depends on wat the $$ is used for. your dad i belive wanted more money to provide for you n yr mum. wantg a better life for both of you. who pays for the roof above yr head? yr hp bil? yr school fees, yr allowance? yr clothes, makeup, toys......
dnt blame him n instead giv him your support in his time of need. he mite jus be very stressed out about losing his hard earn $$$. -
being a father is not easy. u have to provide for everythg tt yr family needs n wants. tt takes alot of time, dedication n $$$. its not wrng for your dad to want more $$$.everyone does.
wether it being good or bad depends on wat the $$ is used for. your dad i belive wanted more money to provide for you n yr mum. wantg a better life for both of you. who pays for the roof above yr head? yr hp bil? yr school fees, yr allowance? yr clothes, makeup, toys......
dnt blame him n instead giv him your support in his time of need. he mite jus be very stressed out about losing his hard earn $$$.
since being dad not nice he shud noe that earn $$ is even harder...y must he go pay ting tat not confirm can earn $$? he shud try more direct ways of getting $$ like work harder or more instead of using it for a windfall...ya if zun he can get tons of $$. but if fail how? etg gone...including family...gambling makes a family fall apart as easy as ABC... -
seaweed.
u mus b jus a kid. go wrk inthe real world n see wats it like
its not easy getg a good job with high pay tts enuf to provide for u n yr family. even setting aside time for yr family is not sufficient.
everyone wld want to try n giv their familes a better life. there are many options but most family men wld rather spend time with their luvd ones. thus playg with shares n stocks wld b the most appropriate form of earng xtra $$$ w/o sacrificing valuable family time.
u take wat life dishes out for u. in every task, there is a risk. even goverment jobs r no longer iron rice bowls. u can get fired or retrencthed. playg stoks is no diff. theres a risk in losing in everythg u do. -
you have my reply in the other thread you posted in...
I take it that you are not a 10 year old and is not a disavantaged person - disabilities.
you can depend on yourself and make some $ to help yourself and relief your family expenses.
People make mistakes and gross ones. Don't sulk if you folks cannot help you with your school fees. Some kids your age are earning money for their families. -
Better to forfeit the deposit cos makeup course not very useful.
Most pple can do their own make-up or rather patronise estab. beauty salons & makeover studios.
Spend it wisely on more suitable courses who can help u get a job easily since yr family is facing financial difficulties. -
why don't u pay for yr own makeup lesson if u r so persistent..
get a part-time job or something -
i'm find since tillnow! still cant find 1 fucking job.. damn no mood..
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U give me a feeling you're quite spoilt. But then you will beg to differ. Anyways, its not my say since people will propably correct me.
What's happened has happened. Is you course more important than household bills and food on the table.. its your call. Cannot find job or expectation is high or did not try hard enough? No one knows but only you know your situation and serious it is.
So you parents in trouble now. Are you going to help them or just stand around and blame them for not giving you money. -
hey! u dun understand! he earn 3000 per month. 6 family member waiting for him to feed..Originally posted by mistyblue:U give me a feeling you're quite spoilt. But then you will beg to differ. Anyways, its not my say since people will propably correct me.
What's happened has happened. Is you course more important than household bills and food on the table.. its your call. Cannot find job or expectation is high or did not try hard enough? No one knows but only you know your situation and serious it is.
So you parents in trouble now. Are you going to help them or just stand around and blame them for not giving you money.
den he go play stocks (NOT COMFIRM WIN) WASTE E MONEY!! IF HE NV LOSE, E MONEY CAN BE USED!! And NOT losee it away to useless things!! -
i wanna learn cuz i wanna work as make up artist..!Originally posted by gerrykoh:Better to forfeit the deposit cos makeup course not very useful.
Most pple can do their own make-up or rather patronise estab. beauty salons & makeover studios.
Spend it wisely on more suitable courses who can help u get a job easily since yr family is facing financial difficulties. -
Originally posted by MiCh-:
if he wins you would not be here with this kind of posts right. you would be happily spending the $$$ on yourself. You know your dad has many mouths to feed. So what are you doing to help or you expect him to provide everything and you do not need to lift a finger or even just simply save some money and be more careful with wasting cash?
hey! u dun understand! he earn 3000 per month. 6 family member waiting for him to feed..
den he go play stocks ([b]NOT COMFIRM WIN) WASTE E MONEY!! IF HE NV LOSE, E MONEY CAN BE USED!! And NOT losee it away to useless things!![/b]
And you're still thinking of getting Vday present for him ... I think your priorities are not quite right...
Maybe your dad should go and complain saying why don't my kids all work and help me? why don't my kids stop wasting money then I don't have to work so hard? Why don't my kids thank me for putting food on the table all this while? Why don't my kids understand that right now is not a good time to always want to do everything their way? Why are my kids so heartless creatures?
Have you ever thoght that maybe, just maybe, its all you 6 mouths that drove him into desparation to provide everything for you. that he risk it in stocks. So what have you done for your parent other than spend their $.
But $ is lost. So what! You bit.ching about it does not get it back. What we are all suggesting here are postive steps to help your family but apparently you yourself are not willing to even help your own family and see beyond your own wants and vanity. Make up courses can take any time. Make up course can learn from any other school. Make up courses does not make money. With you like this, i know why you can't get a job. -
living in a world lyk this...if u wan fast bucks....risks muz b taken cutie~
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fog-shu's reply: u very hungry but got only $2 ...can only buy chicken riceOriginally posted by MiCh-:i'm find since tillnow! still cant find 1 fucking job.. damn no mood..
but u rather wan to eat Mc EVM..
buf: reply: Try Mcdonald loh~ -
1st) 3k per mth supprting 6 ppl is near not possible
2nd) playing stocks is wrong....but giving u the money to learn make-up MIGHT not be right too, why?
cuz, i see u r a ger/boy who cant take comments/advice.
u'll never learn this way, mistyblue is right, u appears to be a spolit brat, who is unpolished and have NEVER EVER been esposed to the darkness of the society..
but, from your speech, i guess u r still young, thus, i dun blame u.
when u grow up abit, and u learn that supporting a family is not easy, u'll appreciatte wad ur father did.
3rd) just in case u got my meaning wrong, i nv think ur dad is right too, playing stocks is more like smart gambling, given his situation, he sldn't touch that at all, but give his situation, even if he dosen't touches the stock market, it'll still be hard for him to support u to go through the make-up course, and presumelly, i think u might even give up halfway during that course, just just flunked it.. -
frankly speaking my dad n ALL his children's realation doesn't goes too well.. And saldom talks to him. He is those unreasonable type of ppl. juz like. When he wins, he will buy his hi fi blah blah.. den he lost, he would scold us for nothing for buying things. And then there's 1 time my dad win toto i think around 20,000 or wad den he give my mum so little! i think 5000 or 500 if i'm not wrong. He is e selfish type n unresonable. All my siblings are always "talk lesser to him e better" de attudie, even ME!! And even if he talks to mi i sometimes will not even reply or reply in a very tu lan tone.Originally posted by mistyblue:if he wins you would not be here with this kind of posts right. you would be happily spending the $$$ on yourself. You know your dad has many mouths to feed. So what are you doing to help or you expect him to provide everything and you do not need to lift a finger or even just simply save some money and be more careful with wasting cash?
And you're still thinking of getting Vday present for him ... I think your priorities are not quite right...
Maybe your dad should go and complain saying why don't my kids all work and help me? why don't my kids stop wasting money then I don't have to work so hard? Why don't my kids thank me for putting food on the table all this while? Why don't my kids understand that right now is not a good time to always want to do everything their way? Why are my kids so heartless creatures?
Have you ever thoght that maybe, just maybe, its all you 6 mouths that drove him into desparation to provide everything for you. that he risk it in stocks. So what have you done for your parent other than spend their $.
But $ is lost. So what! You bit.ching about it does not get it back. What we are all suggesting here are postive steps to help your family but apparently you yourself are not willing to even help your own family and see beyond your own wants and vanity. Make up courses can take any time. Make up course can learn from any other school. Make up courses does not make money. With you like this, i know why you can't get a job.
Yester nite my elder sis, mum, n me juz quarrle wf him. And complain tt he play stocks. And den he talk back sae we spent $$. He love his so call "face" very much. He doesn't like to lose. So wadever we sae him, he will sae us oso! is like wad e... !! Anywae i've apply for ITE Jan intake.. is still open.. Have to wait for 31 to see wherether is there a space for me.. -
Originally posted by MiCh-:i wanna learn cuz i wanna work as make up artist..!
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Originally posted by MiCh-:
frankly speaking my dad n [b]ALL his children's realation doesn't goes too well.. And saldom talks to him. He is those unreasonable type of ppl. juz like. When he wins, he will buy his hi fi blah blah.. den he lost, he would scold us for nothing for buying things. And then there's 1 time my dad win toto i think around 20,000 or wad den he give my mum so little! i think 5000 or 500 if i'm not wrong. He is e selfish type n unresonable. All my siblings are always "talk lesser to him e better" de attudie, even ME!! And even if he talks to mi i sometimes will not even reply or reply in a very tu lan tone.
Yester nite my elder sis, mum, n me juz quarrle wf him. And complain tt he play stocks. And den he talk back sae we spent $$. He love his so call "face" very much. He doesn't like to lose. So wadever we sae him, he will sae us oso! is like wad e... !! Anywae i've apply for ITE Jan intake.. is still open.. Have to wait for 31 to see wherether is there a space for me..[/b] -
Yeah. Stocks aside. I've just idenified that yours is not really a 'study problem'. This course is more for your own future 'investment' / interest / personal upgrading.Originally posted by MiCh-:facing my furture study prob..
My dad played stocks and without saying i think he had burnt his fingers. Cuz i trust my "zhi jue" Somemore nowadaes keep asking us not to anihow spent e money blah blah.. Few daes ago my mum juz asked mi wherether i realli wanna go for make up course (becuz very ex, few months need few thousand) den i asked her why, she said maybe dad not allow or wad cuz he keep on saying no $$, BUT i've already sign up liao Diposit oso give le ($200) den now dono should i go ITE or wad.. Haf to ask dad 2night.. cuz e make up course is starting soon at feb. haix..
At 1st when i signed up he agreed, now..... WTF!!! Why must ppl play stock while they know it won't be 100% win! Waste $$ onli!!
Spending a few thousands dollars on a course within few months for someone who's earning $3000 a month and having to feed 6 people is indeed not a very wise choice. Especially when the course doesn't really provide value for money return, and he has a young daughter who might not be sensible enough to make good economical decision yet always against him.. -
haha.. visiting sgforums for so long. and i have never come across a time where all of the people opposes an idea... mich.. maybe its time for you to reflect upon yourself