i dunwan to be a morning glory
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haiz,
i have just been told by my guy friend that i m just like a morning glory, hanging so tightly to my other girl friend, and that i always have no opinion of my own, voicing out so little in the group. Why cant i be a BIG tree or some independent grass will be fine. but why m i a morning glory in the group? -
u can choose not to.... jz start to have more confidence in yourself... let ur ideas be heard to everyone
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Learn to exercie your own thoughts 1st... Then slowly contribute little by little... Or just speak up a bit to start off the sharing...Originally posted by fondsphere:haiz,
i have just been told by my guy friend that i m just like a morning glory, hanging so tightly to my other girl friend, and that i always have no opinion of my own, voicing out so little in the group. Why cant i be a BIG tree or some independent grass will be fine. but why m i a morning glory in the group? -
u guy or gal?
i think nothing wrong being sticky (that is the other word for 'morning glory') but the stick-ee might not be too comfortable with it ya? i got a very close galfren also like that, always follow crowd, no option, ask one question take 20 sms to reach in-conclusive conclusion just becos she don't want to say wat she wants (that is if she actually wants anything). but recently she started out growing that and is doing fine - finally voicing her views more often and stuff. so don't worry lah, it's just a phase in life ya?
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It comes with maturity and trials in life. So expose yourself more and you will naturally find yourself more akin to defend your own views
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Just be yourself. Be Strong.
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is it because of fear that you dare not voice out? Fear that people may not like your ideas? Or you really have nothing to voice out?Originally posted by fondsphere:haiz,
i have just been told by my guy friend that i m just like a morning glory, hanging so tightly to my other girl friend, and that i always have no opinion of my own, voicing out so little in the group. Why cant i be a BIG tree or some independent grass will be fine. but why m i a morning glory in the group?
find out what is the cause that's preventing you from voicing out, from being independent, and slowly find your way from there -
try to be more independent ?????
go out on yr own ... watch a movie on yr own... this can help build up yr courage ........ -
i've been doing that for half a year already, it does help a bit, but... it also introduced a new problemOriginally posted by meltz:try to be more independent ?????
go out on yr own ... watch a movie on yr own... this can help build up yr courage ........
loneliness 
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must learn to enjoy loneliness.............. it nice to be alone sometimesOriginally posted by loneconfuser:i've been doing that for half a year already, it does help a bit, but... it also introduced a new problem loneliness -
Just like a queen needs sycophants, some women like having a submissive man around. As long as you treat her nice enough and you're both happy with the arrangement, why bother what people say?Originally posted by fondsphere:haiz,
i have just been told by my guy friend that i m just like a morning glory, hanging so tightly to my other girl friend, and that i always have no opinion of my own, voicing out so little in the group. Why cant i be a BIG tree or some independent grass will be fine. but why m i a morning glory in the group? -
true...Originally posted by meltz:must learn to enjoy loneliness.............. it nice to be alone sometimes -
It is good to have company but sometimes need to learn to do things alone.
Guys like girls with a mind of their own.
Speak your mind, u don't have to please everyone all the time. -
It is good to have company but sometimes need to learn to do things alone.
Guys like girls with a mind of their own.
Speak your mind, u don't have to please everyone all the time. -
i am not a star in the sky..Originally posted by fondsphere:haiz,
i have just been told by my guy friend that i m just like a morning glory, hanging so tightly to my other girl friend, and that i always have no opinion of my own, voicing out so little in the group. Why cant i be a BIG tree or some independent grass will be fine. but why m i a morning glory in the group?
i am the sun!!