Feeling depress
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I am feeling very sad, my gf starts to treat me more cold
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elaborate pls.Originally posted by retrolover80:I am feeling very sad, my gf starts to treat me more cold
wat should i do? -
i oso feel depressed, i just dump a guy whom i care a lot about.
depressed ppl, let's unite!
i.c.y -
Huan yin jia ru shi lian gong he guo
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I just feel that she is floating further and further away from me.
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talk to her lor, ask her wats wrong. mebbe she does have a problem and you can help her to solve it...communication is very important.Originally posted by retrolover80:I just feel that she is floating further and further away from me.
i.c.y -
I also in the recovery mode...lets all depress together
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well...me just "broke up" after an hour agoOriginally posted by p1ll0w:I also in the recovery mode...lets all depress together
and we were just a "couple" for a day, tho i care for him for a long time le...
and he was just emotionless thru the whole break up, just said okie to everything I told him...
after i told him, i cried...
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she seems like doesn't want to talk to me.
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have you tried asking her if she is alrite? sumtimes she is waiting for you to ask, esp if dat problem concerns you...Originally posted by retrolover80:she seems like doesn't want to talk to me.
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I am not sure. Now feeling very insecured.
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you should definitely talk to her. there will be no relationship if there is no communication.Originally posted by retrolover80:I am not sure. Now feeling very insecured.
i.c.y -
Breaking up is always sad.We all have our fair share of breakups.Sometimes it's difficult to communicate our true feeings to our partner,maybe it's bec we are afraid to hurt her/him.In doing so,we just let a problem stall,thinking it will resolve by itself.
Time passes,so do misunderstandings.They never seem to be solved by themselves but deepen with time until they become suspicion and the worst think we all fear....hatred.
When love becomes hate...it's the worst feeling.You want to reach out to hug someone you know so well,but want to hate him/her,you want to punish your lover for making u feel so sad,you want to put the blame on your lover.
It takes a long time for wounds to heal that way.
But there are solutions...if you can't talk about it,write it down in words and post it to your loved one.She will be surprised at your sincerity.It's the age old way of cummunication.Forget the computer or email.Let your feelings show on paper.It really works.Trust me. -
i dun hate him. If I do, I wun wish him all the best in his life. I just think it is for the best that we just move on with our life and mebbe we can find someone who is right for us.
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Maybe that's the best for both of you.Do cry over it ok....I cried for days over my lost love...It feels much better.
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I already did....cried just now so feel better le. I dunno if I will cry in the future but hopefully it will be less and less as the time goes by.Originally posted by lovetonight: Maybe that's the best for both of you.Do cry over it ok....I cried for days over my lost love...It feels much better.
Now I consider this to be a chapter closed in my life...and one day mebbe I will be brave enuff to take this book out from the shelf and smile again at the memories we had shared...
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That one day shouldn't come too soon.Originally posted by icyprincess:I already did....cried just now so feel better le. I dunno if I will cry in the future but hopefully it will be less and less as the time goes by.
Now I consider this to be a chapter closed in my life...and one day mebbe I will be brave enuff to take this book out from the shelf and smile again at the memories we had shared...
i.c.y
But the one day to instantly start anew is now.
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go out and take a walk to relax ba..........
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yea...I am starting anewOriginally posted by keuriseudo:That one day shouldn't come too soon.
But the one day to instantly start anew is now.
S.H.I.N.
I think for now, I just want to concentrate on my work le...spent too much time in this emotional relationship stuff le...
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yare yare...
This place has lots of bad karma.
Anyway onto the serious stuff, hmm if u feel she drifting further away,
have a good talk with her some where relaxing, example : beach.
Or u can do the new approach, surprise her with something pleasent.
She might be waiting for something fresh in the relationship man..
All the best to your relationships.
Same to everyone..
Peace..
Regards
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Why dump him?Originally posted by icyprincess:i oso feel depressed, i just dump a guy whom i care a lot about.
depressed ppl, let's unite!
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When you feel down, your relationship could be the next to be coming down. That's not the way to solve or save anything. BUCK UP.Originally posted by retrolover80:I am not sure. Now feeling very insecured. -
if you are depressed, then i am even more depressed than you...at least you got a gf .... i don't even have one ... and none of the girls want to chat with me... haha...maybe i am ugly
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talk to her.. try to save the relationship.. as the sayin goes..it takes two hands to clap.. there's only this much u can do to salvage.. if she refuses to d her part.. it's time u move on.. she doesnt deserve ur care n effort.. she no longer takes this relationship seriously anymore..
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my gal is avoiding communication... seems like she just wants to vanish & disappear... from my life...
i've moved to another country... far far away... to start anew...
life still goes on; take a look ard you. buck up; be forward thinking; dont look back.
he/she might come back to you years down the road...?
if he/sheshe doesnt, cherish the memories. and congratulations, you've moved forward in life.
good luck to the broken hearted