Oversensitive, emotional and think too much.
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The thread subject reflect my worst character flaws in a r/s. Any 1 have any ideas how to cure them?
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ponder, acknowledge them.. n take steps to change
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Oversensitive?
Normally it's due to personal insecurities. -
yupz... u dun have enough confidence in urself & the relationship... gotta work on it... or not, v diff to work on the r/s...Originally posted by Magnus:Oversensitive?
Normally it's due to personal insecurities. -
Awareness is there but abrupt changes is rather difficult. The best I can do now is to suppress the emotions. However I notices that all three seems to form some kind of visicous 3 way cycle. Example: I am oversensitive to what she says which makes me think too much about her every words. This in term makes my emotion rather unstable which seem to makes me even more sensiive to her words or makes me think even more.Originally posted by hopy:ponder, acknowledge them.. n take steps to change -
a journey of a thousand miles begin w/ a single stepOriginally posted by pete98:Awareness is there but abrupt changes is rather difficult. The best I can do now is to suppress the emotions. However I notices that all three seems to form some kind of visicous 3 way cycle. Example: I am oversensitive to what she says which makes me think too much about her every words. This in term makes my emotion rather unstable which seem to makes me even more sensiive to her words or makes me think even more. -
hey.. sounds familiar... someone also used to say that I'm oversensitive, emotional n that I think too much.. It was due to insecurities.. In e end I dropped tt person.. He should try to make me feel secure instead of saying such things about me...
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It's all about control.... Mind over matter!
Sometimes you gotta learn to just chill
Otherwise, find someone who thinks your flaws are assets
Heck I'm sure some girls out there love emotional, sensitive guysOriginally posted by pete98:Awareness is there but abrupt changes is rather difficult. The best I can do now is to suppress the emotions. However I notices that all three seems to form some kind of visicous 3 way cycle. Example: I am oversensitive to what she says which makes me think too much about her every words. This in term makes my emotion rather unstable which seem to makes me even more sensiive to her words or makes me think even more. -
I don't remember what i did when i encounter relationship problems...
But i think writing it down, in a diary, a blog, or even a thread here will help. I did it here once before, and it really helped me calm my feelings.
Go sweat yourself, run, swim, jog, exercise... ~
Go do the things you always wanted to do... camp in the arcade for 5 hours, play your PS2 for 10 hours straight, read a book for 5 hours, go out with friends and talk...
Sooner or later it'll pass. And you'll get over it a stronger person. -
Emm.... not sure about this, only the Professional or qualified person can answer thisOriginally posted by pete98:The thread subject reflect my worst character flaws in a r/s. Any 1 have any ideas how to cure them? 