She says that i don't care about her.

• HeckKER

  25 Jan 05, 03:28

  My gf whom i have known for 1 year, was very much in love with me...but recently i have not called her for about 3 weeks and we only smsed each other slightly...
  
  I was recently bogged down by school work...and its really really busy now...
  and im going to have tests soon...
  
  She told me through sms..."you don't care about me...you always spend ur time surfing net and playing games.."
  
  haiz..
• EvilDead

  25 Jan 05, 04:03

  she is right, instead of wasting your time on the net posting away in forums you should be spending time with her.
• pete98

  25 Jan 05, 04:43

  3weeks=21days
  1day=24hours
  1hour=60mins
  1 simple phonecall=5mins
  Total:
  3weeks=6048phonecalls
  Even minus half we get 3024calls. So if you don't even make a effort to call her even once it only means you don't love her enough.
• xiao_p

  25 Jan 05, 05:10

  well... how hard izzit to make a call
  5 mins a day taken out from ur net surfing isn't hard at all rite
  
  i believe most pple can afford to make a 5 mins call everyday
  if u dun call dat means u dun wan to
• droopyeyes

  25 Jan 05, 09:57

  schoolwork and tests are just excuses..
  
  a phonecall can be easily made. but it's up to you whether you want or not.
  
  i
• ditzy

  25 Jan 05, 10:06

  3 weeks! Pal, is it so difficult to make a call even if its a few mins?
  
  It could mean one thing for you, the r/s is not on top of your priority. Not number 1, nor 2, nor even 3. Its probably not even within the top 5.
  
  Better rethink what you wish for in the near future ahead of you. If you're not ready to commit, don't waste the other party's time. It's hard on both at the end of it all.
• FireIce

  25 Jan 05, 10:10

  quit the net and keep her company 24/7
  
  go!
• Devil1976

  25 Jan 05, 11:42

  Originally posted by HeckKER:

  My gf whom i have known for 1 year, was very much in love with me...but recently i have not called her for about 3 weeks and we only smsed each other slightly...
  
  I was recently bogged down by school work...and its really really busy now...
  and im going to have tests soon...
  
  She told me through sms..."you don't care about me...you always spend ur time surfing net and playing games.."
  
  haiz..

  Create some activities in which both of you can enjoy doing...
• $e@wEeD

  25 Jan 05, 11:45

  lol...relax man...gal like to be pampered ba...try trying her u love her lo...or maybe a kiss or wat...
• gerrykoh

  25 Jan 05, 12:57

  Someone I know calls his gf every night even on exam days & during camp.
  Once when he was on holiday, he even stayed up till 3am (due to time difference) just to chat with her on internet.
  If u don't put in effort, then don't regret when yr gf leaves u.
• _Aaron_

  26 Jan 05, 21:00

  Originally posted by gerrykoh:

  Someone I know calls his gf every night even on exam days & during camp.
  Once when he was on holiday, he even stayed up till 3am (due to time difference) just to chat with her on internet.
  If u don't put in effort, then don't regret when yr gf leaves u.

  x2~
• chunyong

  26 Jan 05, 21:02

  wayang show.....mai ge xiao lah
• icebaby0

  28 Jan 05, 15:40

  well, if u really love the person...show some "love" lah.
  
  Instead of logging online, call her lah.
  
• ditzy

  28 Jan 05, 15:47

  Yeah hor. Got time to log on here and post crap threads, no time to call her? wtf?