marriage options
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Jus like to ask this question and get some opinions from the rest of u guys (Especially from the girls). Sorry if this is a bit long
If u are above 30 years old and still single, most of your friends are married. Your family members, relatives and friends are asking u when u are going to get married, what will u choose when given these options:
A. Continue searching 4 the one whom u love and he/she will loves u back
B. Jus find some1 whom u don't love, suits u as a life partner and he/she loves u
C. Jus find some1 whom u don't love, suits u as a life partner but he/she doesn't loves u
For those who choose B or C, what do u think will keep the marriage going besides commitment ? If one day u happen 2 meet some1 whom u loved and he/she loves u, will u regret making the choice and what will u do? -
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These are not good choices. I would void all of them.
If you simply want someone, then any tom dick harry/mary jane lian will do.
Even little cats and dogs will do fine.
If you are looking for happiness and meaningful things in life, you can be happy with or without a partner.
If letting people's words and judgement force me to do something, then I rather not live. And these people can have their words shoved up their arse. -
tell them u wanna be a monk lahOriginally posted by starExcaliblur:Jus like to ask this question and get some opinions from the rest of u guys (Especially from the girls). Sorry if this is a bit long
If u are above 30 years old and still single, most of your friends are married. Your family members, relatives and friends are asking u when u are going to get married, what will u choose when given these options:
A. Continue searching 4 the one whom u love and he/she will loves u back
B. Jus find some1 whom u don't love, suits u as a life partner and he/she loves u
C. Jus find some1 whom u don't love, suits u as a life partner but he/she doesn't loves u
For those who choose B or C, what do u think will keep the marriage going besides commitment ? If one day u happen 2 meet some1 whom u loved and he/she loves u, will u regret making the choice and what will u do? -
how to live with someone u don't love?Originally posted by gemini2:tell them u wanna be a monk lah
is like taking poison every day
slowly dies away
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i choose A..
no point coz of other ppl rushing u to get married for the sick of doin it..in the end u will end up not being happy!!
come on la..u only got 1 life..dun waste ya whole lifetime spending wif someone u dun love..very "tong ku" wan... -
X 2...Originally posted by tissue:i choose A..
no point coz of other ppl rushing u to get married for the sick of doin it..in the end u will end up not being happy!!
come on la..u only got 1 life..dun waste ya whole lifetime spending wif someone u dun love..very "tong ku" wan... -
A...he must love me more than i love him though
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my answer is D: tell relatives to fark off...
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If cannot find anyone u love, remain single & be happy.
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seriously i'll choose B.
bcos feelings can be pei yang one
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I'll choose A.
If there's not meant to be anyone in my life...
There's no point choosing anyone in the streets just because i want to get married.
heck, its like getting the number of a chio bu in the street, then jio her go stead.
Love and Marriage/Relationships is a sacred thing that i respect, and i'm trying to understand. So i will not demean it by choosing someone just for the sake of doing it.
Maybe that's why my friend said i'll never get a gf until i give up this mindset.
Will i be 30+ when i finally understand/giveup?
Hope i won't have to post a thread like this when i'm 30+ .. haha.. -
Never never go into a relationship without love. Love is such a wonderful thing and u will regret later when you finally find the one u love.Originally posted by gemini2:how to live with someone u don't love?
is like taking poison every day
slowly dies away
I will definitely go for A. -
Of coz there's some pressure, however i will not marry anytime or anyone even though if all my frds r married. I wil not take risk to marry a person whom i dun really lov or he dun really u..i rather use more time to find. U shld know the phrase " Dong xi ke yi ran chi, dan ke bu jia cuo lang "
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I know many will choose A de.
That is why so long still not married -
X3Originally posted by Devil1976:X 2... -
Rule no. 1 - Don't think so much(you'll grow old faster), just go with the flow and be HAPPY, let love come by itself to you, it's automatic and modern world nowOriginally posted by starExcaliblur:Jus like to ask this question and get some opinions from the rest of u guys (Especially from the girls). Sorry if this is a bit long
If u are above 30 years old and still single, most of your friends are married. Your family members, relatives and friends are asking u when u are going to get married, what will u choose when given these options:
A. Continue searching 4 the one whom u love and he/she will loves u back
B. Jus find some1 whom u don't love, suits u as a life partner and he/she loves u
C. Jus find some1 whom u don't love, suits u as a life partner but he/she doesn't loves u
For those who choose B or C, what do u think will keep the marriage going besides commitment ? If one day u happen 2 meet some1 whom u loved and he/she loves u, will u regret making the choice and what will u do?