no need to ask also can, just give him some sure hints, that will work wanOriginally posted by autumn:Sakaratulz:
I dun dare to ask him out, hehehe... If I ask, he sure knows that I like him one... so I see how lor, if he dun ask me out, then I just hv to try to let go...
Dun want la, haha... so direct. If I give him hints and it turns out that he doesn't feel the same way as I do, that will be so paisei for me.Originally posted by sakaratulz:no need to ask also can, just give him some sure hints, that will work wan
"Try to let go"? It's easier said than done, must get your doubts cleared first, maybe you can get his friends to help you find out from him, but tactfully of course. Maybe ask them to find out for you "how he feels about you" etc...Originally posted by autumn:Sakaratulz:
I dun dare to ask him out, hehehe... If I ask, he sure knows that I like him one... so I see how lor, if he dun ask me out, then I just hv to try to let go...
Jack84:
SMS is also a gd idea, but too bad... I dun carry a hp overseas, so cannot SMS him. Aiya, probably he already forgot abt me after the tripMaybe it's just foolishness on my part.
being shy wont get u anywhere...if he does not like u then nvm lor...his loss not uresOriginally posted by autumn:Dun want la, haha... so direct. If I give him hints and it turns out that he doesn't feel the same way as I do, that will be so paisei for me.
Moreover, we hv some common friends, if they also knoe that I like him, it will be so embarrasing, hehe.
[This message has been edited by autumn (edited 14 April 2002).]
Yalor, I m shy and not thick-skin..... so I guess I will not let him know how I felt abt himOriginally posted by sakaratulz:being shy wont get u anywhere...if he does not like u then nvm lor...his loss not ures
better to find out his feelings for u rite now than never ever being able to find out at all rite?
btw just to save face,r u willing to ignore ure feelings?
Can let him know that you're currently BUSY with your studies and wish to know him better after you're back from your studies...?Originally posted by autumn:Yalor, I m shy and not thick-skin..... so I guess I will not let him know how I felt abt him
Btw, u r a guy mah, surely u know that guys will automatically call a gal if he likes her right? If he doesn't call anymore, then there's probably a high chance that he doesn't have feelings for the gal anymore, am I right?
Originally posted by bigdeal:she likes me NOT!
Hi Devil1976,Originally posted by Devil1976:Can let him know that you're currently BUSY with your studies and wish to know him better after you're back from your studies...?
when he first ask u out and u decline the offer, he might feel its a rejection(some guys do)thays y u never hear from him and u probably wont unless u do something abt itOriginally posted by autumn:Btw, u r a guy mah, surely u know that guys will automatically call a gal if he likes her right? If he doesn't call anymore, then there's probably a high chance that he doesn't have feelings for the gal anymore, am I right?
Is there a general "yardstick" tat measures the lvl of rejections guys can take? hmm.. guess nowadays guys prefer gers to be more pro-active rt?Originally posted by sakaratulz:when he first ask u out and u decline the offer, he might feel its a rejection(some guys do)thays y u never hear from him and u probably wont unless u do something abt it
Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by bigdeal:
[b]she likes me NOT!
All the best to your date, hope to hear your gd news soon...Originally posted by autumn:Hihi,
Just a little update on my case. I emailed that guy a few days ago to ask him whether he wants the photos taken together at the trip, and he replied that he wanted the photos.
Hee, in his reply email, he asked me when I was free and mentioned that he wanted to treat me for a meal... Well, I was quite happy to 'hear' that. But at the same time, I tell myself not to put too much hope in our 'friendship', keke...cos I think, maybe he's just being friendly that's all... so I shall see how it goes lor

I think that being friendly is a good start to move onwards... If you go out with him you might find out whether both of you really 'click' together or not...Originally posted by autumn:Hihi,
Just a little update on my case. I emailed that guy a few days ago to ask him whether he wants the photos taken together at the trip, and he replied that he wanted the photos.
Hee, in his reply email, he asked me when I was free and mentioned that he wanted to treat me for a meal... Well, I was quite happy to 'hear' that. But at the same time, I tell myself not to put too much hope in our 'friendship', keke...cos I think, maybe he's just being friendly that's all... so I shall see how it goes lor