Should i give him a chance or make him cry
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*sigh
so troubled....what shall i do?
i knoe this guy for about a year already...he says i'm "cute"
heh
i rejected him once
now he come back and tell me he can't forget me...no matter what i've done...
i'm the first girl that made him cry
it's been 6 mths...he can't forget me still
i hate to hurt him so....sigh
he's not ugly, not bad
it's just
he's 27 i'm 19...he's indian i'm chinese
i want him as a friend...nothing more...
i knoe i like him as a friend...but it's easy to like him more
but
i just can't bring myself to love him...all i think of is how my family feels, my peers...
after striving so hard to get family and peer acceptance...will it all get thrown away after this?
what shall i do?
he told me he still can't forget me today..
i feel so bad for hurting him...
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have u been madly in love b4?
i think ur juz afraid of the external pressure..
but first.. u'll need to make sure a few things before u make any decision..
can u trust this guy? well.. he came back to tell u he cant 4get u.. but in between.. wad did he do? did he tried to 4get abt u? did he think of u everyday n still like u as much? or did he went stead with some ger n now broke up liao so come back to u?
and on ur part.. how much do u know abt this guy? will u be happy with him (besides the external pressure)? do u think he's worth it for u to take the 1 big step?
love is like a gamble.. u do not know whether u'll win or lose if u dun even place the bet.. y do u afraid that everything will be thrown away? wat r u afraid of?
ur still young ger..
GAN AI GAN HENG!
[This message has been edited by ^FeRRoCiOuS^ (edited 23 April 2002).] -
ok wat u scare of
his age ?
his race ?
age seen lots of gers wif bf 10 yrs bigger den them abit disgusting but wat to do love is powerful
race eh now days see lots n lots of mix race partners . etc chinese wif malay , malay wif indian , indian wif chinese , ang mohs wif black ppl , now de world is modern no one cares about different race partners , DE new WILD GENERATION OF PPL ARE GROWING up ,
ETC. 10 yrs ago ppl were very much to them self , wear clotes like head to toe
Now. ppl are more open n they dare to speak their mind , n wear revealing clotes , some dont even wear bra , its cool n sexy :>'
If its about age , den i understand 10 yrs differents is alot
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hmm.. if i were u, i wun go into such a r/s.. cos' i am afraid of the external pressure etc. n i will give in to my parents v easily one.. n hmm.. since u have not start to 'love' him yet, u can still stop urself from doing so before it gets too bad..
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It's YOUR LIFE? You wanna decide or you want to borrow a coin from me to flick...?Originally posted by cherie:*sigh
so troubled....what shall i do?
i knoe this guy for about a year already...he says i'm "cute"
heh
i rejected him once
now he come back and tell me he can't forget me...no matter what i've done...
i'm the first girl that made him cry
it's been 6 mths...he can't forget me still
i hate to hurt him so....sigh
he's not ugly, not bad
it's just
he's 27 i'm 19...he's indian i'm chinese
i want him as a friend...nothing more...
i knoe i like him as a friend...but it's easy to like him more
but
i just can't bring myself to love him...all i think of is how my family feels, my peers...
after striving so hard to get family and peer acceptance...will it all get thrown away after this?
what shall i do?
he told me he still can't forget me today..
i feel so bad for hurting him...
sigh~
Nothing is ABSOLUTE in Life.... You gain some, you lose some... You take CHANCES everywhere... Sometimes you take risk, sometimes you don't.... You still need the coin? -
make him cry
look nobody asked him to fall in love with you. just bcos he still loves you after 6 days, 6 months, or 6 years doesn't matter. if you don't have the same feelings for him, then you shouldn't be with him, even if he still loves you after 60 years. the most you can feel is very touched that this person loves you so much, but that is all. Feeling touched isn't love.
as for age and race... you just pretend he is of your race and your age... and then see if you still want to be with him... bcos if you let yourself get blinded by small things like this, it will be very difficult for you to find love -
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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe -
If u dun love him, dun be with him. If not it will ruin both ur life and his life.
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--Appreciate what you have now and not what you don't-- -
although wad u say after this sentence got make sense but....the 3 words juzOriginally posted by Malbordus:make him cry lorhz -
love is cruel sometimes...
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*~DuN CaRe DuN GiVe a DaMn~* -
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ps. dun repeat the pics acid... same as wessy sian...
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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe -
heh she only provide two options what. boolean variableOriginally posted by OverTheParadise:although wad u say after this sentence got make sense but....the 3 words juz lorhz
(1) give chance
(2) make him cry
since i noe definitely NOT give chance, then muz be the other lor
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suits this topic mahz~Originally posted by bigdeal:ps. dun repeat the pics acid... same as wessy sian...
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One world
One love One mind
One soul One life
One peace One goal -
sigh.. most ppl here shld noe i like a malay gal hor.. aiya.. the things she said to me also the same as wat cherie had said.. "i dun wanna hurt u" ... she also the onli gal that make me drop tears..(not cry wor)...cherie, if u dun wanna hurt him right, dun ever call him to give up hope on u, and etc.. u onli will hurt him more...
p.s u cant force some1 not to like u...
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ThEsE wOrDs YoU SaId lAsT NigHt
SeEmEd hArMlEsS LikE a ChILd'S SmILe
BuT dId YoU kNoW It StUng My EvErY nErVe?
ShAtTeReD mY PrIde,
LeFt mE ScArReD
i MiGhT nEvEr bE tHe sAmE aGaiN
fOr tHeSe wOrDs YoU sAiD
aRe fOrEvEr eNgrAvEd
LiKe A MemORy CuRtAin
DraWn aCrOSs ReaSons
bUt YOU--- ReMEmBeR
I WoUld SuRviVe
[This message has been edited by bigdeal (edited 24 April 2002).] -
i guess i have....i don't really know...never had really good relationships. =\Originally posted by ^FeRRoCiOuS^:have u been madly in love b4?
sometimes i don't know even when i'm in love...i well...i don't knoe the difference between like and love i guess...i knoe i can trust him...it's just that...we're so different...different worlds, different cultures, different peers.
i'm more like a kid and he's...well...released to the adult world too young...he started living alone at 16
too different!
i'm scared..i guess, scared to love?
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life sux
bleahz -
it's ok, i appreciate it...lights up the topic anyway =)Originally posted by aCid_rAIn:suits this topic mahz~
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life sux
bleahz -
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oso can let him down gently wan mah.Originally posted by Malbordus:heh she only provide two options what. boolean variable
(1) give chance
(2) make him cry
since i noe definitely NOT give chance, then muz be the other lor
but ... i dunno how oso..
paiseh -
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u 19??? he 27???...... mmmmm he abit too old for u lah..... but u just nice for me leh!!! My phone num is ********* (just joking!!!)
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Well all i can say is taht it's up to you to decide....age and race does not matter if you really love each other..but hey, you must make sure he is true to you and not after something else.....so just be careful and also weigh the pros and cons carefully.
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give him up since u dont have the special feel 4 him,,,,
remember, u dont own him anything, love cant b force!
if 4 example..... if one fifty yr old man came n said he cant live without u, will u accepy him????????
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never play play with chances...same as letting our doors open to any possible crimes............
not knowing is a crime...how long and how far do u know this guy?
a 27 yo man can take a cry if he cries.............
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If you don't like him then no point being with him.
unless you rather hurt yourself than hurting him...
but make sure its really love and not pity him....