Reasons for Relationships
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1. Some people get into a relationship because they're lonely. They may also believe that by going into as many relationships as possible, they will one day find the one they're looking for. (If you don't actively search for them, how will you find them?)
2. Some people do not get into relationships because they don't want to de-mean the meaning of love, and also because they want to make sure they fall in love with a special person. The people here may also believe that being in many relationships, also mean giving bits and pieces of their heart away.
In the end, they may end up with only 25% of their heart to the special one they love, while the other 75% belongs to the other girls who has been in his life.
(Love is very important to me, i cannot and will not fall in love with a girl just because she's pretty.)
3. Since the girl likes me, and i like the girl, why not try it out? It may turn out to be something good, she may be the girl i marry eventually. (Opportunity knocks, open the door.)
Category 1 will end up with many relationships in their life, some nicer than others, some not as nice.
Category 2 will end up with very few relationships in their life, but also some being nicer, and some bad.
Category 3, depending on how pretty/yandao you are, will determine the number of relationships in your life.
Which category are you? And why do you believe it is so?
Do you believe that eventually all 3 categories will find the true love they seek? -
4. because relationships does not benefit the person's life at this point of time, either out of financial insecurity or other mudune reasons and so will sacrifice relationships for practical reasons. this type of people might also end up getting into relationships due to reasons other than love.
Counted?
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Yea. sounds reasonable. ^_^Originally posted by Ito_^:4. because relationships does not benefit the person's life at this point of time, either out of financial insecurity or other mudune reasons and so will sacrifice relationships for practical reasons. this type of people might also end up getting into relationships due to reasons other than love.
Counted? -
I prefer to see it as of a relationship that became at the right time.
Law of probablity allows us to experience different relationship and see different dimensions - angle - emotions - depths - maturity of LOVE between two persons.
To m© theory - everything is risky yet save(look thru Yun's Risk Calculation). Different perspective allows every situation to solve it's own problems.
If you've never tried, you're probably missing a great deal of lessons.
If you're too afraid, you probably not know what love is.
If you're too cautious, you'll never understand how much more a human can love and experience the power of love between two person.
If there's a desire, go for it. Even if it ends with hurts, it has it's reasons to happen.
There must be balance in everything we do.Originally posted by _Aaron_:Which category are you? And why do you believe it is so?
Do you believe that eventually all 3 categories will find the true love they seek?
Those 3 'reasons' above are excuses get into relationships.
The ideal reason is when two person became attracted to one another and share their lives together.
But in those 3 Catergories - all will find love IF they tried.
True love is never judged by its product. Manytimes true love are actually processes and journey.
Sometimes it takes a person many years to have realise that he had experienced true love. But was blinded then. All he did was look up to heaven and thank fate of time to allow him to be enlightened. - M©
Click here - There's no Absolut Answers to Love -
I will only get into a relationship if I feel something special for that person. Not because I am lonely, not because everyone else around me is already behaving like husbands and wives...those are not and will never be my reason. When I say that three magical words to that person, I want to know it deep within myself, that I really do mean it. I don't want to know that I say it just because I want companion. Yea, it is a practical reasn, but for me, it kinda cheapens the true meaning of love.
People said I am too idealistic. There has been many who said I am too stubborn and stupid for my own good. But I can never go against my own principles just bcos I want to have someone with me.
i.c.y -
Cat 2.Originally posted by _Aaron_:1. Some people get into a relationship because they're lonely. They may also believe that by going into as many relationships as possible, they will one day find the one they're looking for. (If you don't actively search for them, how will you find them?)
2. Some people do not get into relationships because they don't want to de-mean the meaning of love, and also because they want to make sure they fall in love with a special person. The people here may also believe that being in many relationships, also mean giving bits and pieces of their heart away.
In the end, they may end up with only 25% of their heart to the special one they love, while the other 75% belongs to the other girls who has been in his life.
(Love is very important to me, i cannot and will not fall in love with a girl just because she's pretty.)
3. Since the girl likes me, and i like the girl, why not try it out? It may turn out to be something good, she may be the girl i marry eventually. (Opportunity knocks, open the door.)
Category 1 will end up with many relationships in their life, some nicer than others, some not as nice.
Category 2 will end up with very few relationships in their life, but also some being nicer, and some bad.
Category 3, depending on how pretty/yandao you are, will determine the number of relationships in your life.
Which category are you? And why do you believe it is so?
Do you believe that eventually all 3 categories will find the true love they seek? -
practical reasons???Originally posted by Ito_^:4. because relationships does not benefit the person's life at this point of time, either out of financial insecurity or other mudune reasons and so will sacrifice relationships for practical reasons. this type of people might also end up getting into relationships due to reasons other than love.
Counted?
age ?
family commitments ?
money ?
fear of getting hurt by love ? -
well there are actually a lot of practical reasons I can think of, but none of them make sense to me...
i.c.y -
Confusing
But I think it's 3 -
Juz have to accept it this wayOriginally posted by M©+square:I prefer to see it as of a relationship that became at the right time.
Law of probablity allows us to experience different relationship and see different dimensions - angle - emotions - depths - maturity of LOVE between two persons.
To m© theory - everything is risky yet save(look thru Yun's Risk Calculation). Different perspective allows every situation to solve it's own problems.
If you've never tried, you're probably missing a great deal of lessons.
If you're too afraid, you probably not know what love is.
If you're too cautious, you'll never understand how much more a human can love and experience the power of love between two person.
If there's a desire, go for it. Even if it ends with hurts, it has it's reasons to happen.
There must be balance in everything we do.
Those 3 'reasons' above are excuses get into relationships.
The ideal reason is when two person became attracted to one another and share their lives together.
But in those 3 Catergories - all will find love IF they tried.
True love is never judged by its product. Manytimes true love are actually processes and journey.
Sometimes it takes a person many years to have realise that he had experienced true love. But was blinded then. All he did was look up to heaven and thank fate of time to allow him to be enlightened. - M© Click here - There's no Absolut Answers to Love