Give up
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For the past few years of my life, I've been making new friends with so many people of different races here. And majority of them are Chinese, I don't know why I have so many Chinese friends, may be it's the way that I was brought up when I only 6 years old I spend most of my time with my Chinese neighbours.
I've tried to make friends with the Malays, but unfortunately majority of them they are not my type, they are conservative people and their mind is full of negative thoughts or maybe I mixed with the wrong group of Malays at that time, I am not sure of myself now.
Well, the group of Malays that I am referring now is totally different people, instead of helping each other out they hurt and bully me deeply and emotionally, they gossip and create rumours and backstabbed each other and they don't care whether you're their buddies or close friends. I tried to understand them but in the end I give up, I just cannot trust them anymore. I give up these Malays, I am just sick and tired of them.
Now, if I come across any Malays I will try to avoid them or just pretend that I am not watching them at all, becoz they make my life farking crazy
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Do you shun away from an entire race, because you have bad experiences with a few of them?Originally posted by juzded:For the past few years of my life, I've been making new friends with so many people of different races here. And majority of them are Chinese, I don't know why I have so many Chinese friends, may be it's the way that I was brought up when I only 6 years old I spend most of my time with my Chinese neighbours.
I've tried to make friends with the Malays, but unfortunately majority of them they are not my type, they are conservative people and their mind is full of negative thoughts or maybe I mixed with the wrong group of Malays at that time, I am not sure of myself now.
Well, the group of Malays that I am referring now is totally different people, instead of helping each other out they hurt and bully me deeply and emotionally, they gossip and create rumours and backstabbed each other and they don't care whether you're their buddies or close friends. I tried to understand them but in the end I give up, I just cannot trust them anymore. I give up these Malays, I am just sick and tired of them.
Now, if I come across any Malays I will try to avoid them or just pretend that I am not watching them at all, becoz they make my life farking crazy
Man, you're missing out. I know quite a few of them, and some of them have enriched my life in many ways.
I must admit, there are some of them who hates us chinese, and speak badly of us. But Hey, there are lots of us who do not like malays as well, so its all balanced (not good though.)
Point is, regardless of whether its a chinese, malay, or indian, Keep your eyes open when looking for friends. Its your judgement that matters, not the pigment of colour you see in your eyes. -
tat life , life sux
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many people are racist.
but i'm glad, at least my friends of different races are not racist.
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yup not all Malays are good, here i'm just talking about i cannot get along with them, am not racist it's just their character and attitude and their way of thinking about those they cannot take it.. i guess, i've always give in and tolerate wif them but now i give up totally i simply cannot trust them anymore, too much of giving in to them make their heads grow bigger, you know what i mean, well i still have my other expats friends and Indian friends and others .. it's only these small group of Malays are just not my type but then they hurt me badly that i have no choice but to do it this way, i do it my way, if you were in my shoe now you will know how i feel at this momentOriginally posted by droopyeyes:many people are racist.
but i'm glad, at least my friends of different races are not racist.
haha. cos they're my friend. =) 
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Ha! Ha! Ha!Originally posted by junk:tat life , life sux -
Btw wat's ur race?Originally posted by juzded:For the past few years of my life, I've been making new friends with so many people of different races here. And majority of them are Chinese, I don't know why I have so many Chinese friends, may be it's the way that I was brought up when I only 6 years old I spend most of my time with my Chinese neighbours.
I've tried to make friends with the Malays, but unfortunately majority of them they are not my type, they are conservative people and their mind is full of negative thoughts or maybe I mixed with the wrong group of Malays at that time, I am not sure of myself now.
Well, the group of Malays that I am referring now is totally different people, instead of helping each other out they hurt and bully me deeply and emotionally, they gossip and create rumours and backstabbed each other and they don't care whether you're their buddies or close friends. I tried to understand them but in the end I give up, I just cannot trust them anymore. I give up these Malays, I am just sick and tired of them.
Now, if I come across any Malays I will try to avoid them or just pretend that I am not watching them at all, becoz they make my life farking crazy -
what's wrng wif my race??? and what abt urs? haa..Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:Btw wat's ur race? -
Hey, good for you. At least you saw light
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am pure indonesian girl so am not chinese or malay am mixed here andOriginally posted by bratpig:Hey, good for you. At least you saw light
there.... so how? good huh to have mixed races in life.. -
nah. race is unimportant. it's better to make friends with an open heart
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always have black sheep here and there.
Life is full of shit and you are bound to step on it. -
ya lah may be some black sheep are not a good sheep at all.. dats life,Originally posted by wishhunter:always have black sheep here and there.
Life is full of shit and you are bound to step on it.
life is full of shit ...maybe i just kill them all LOL