haix.. this is my prob...
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Alright i will start frm K1, i'm very slow kid in myclass and always gt nothing in my spelling and wad ever class den very jia lat.. When small sis always teach mi espacially maths den i very slow always made her lose temper den kanna scold frm here n dad even sae mi stupid!
Den till now in sec sch my maths still no chance and wads more ofcuz i hate maths! Den now i grad le actualli going for make up course at pvt sch den actualli signed up le.. Now dad budget n wants mi 2 study 1st. And den i signed for ITE den now no space. Have to wait for june intake. And oso haf to find job. Now i have nothing! And not that all.. Important is tt my bf doesn't reali understand mi well enough! Always nagging at mi bout my studies1 As i hate ppl nag at mi in this topic! Den he always sae till i lose my temper! Many times le.. haix..
You think i nv thought of my furture b4> i did infact! i did thought of it! Haix.. I love things about shop blh blah.. that's e reason i choose Retail course in ITE. And wad? there's no space... but nvm, juz find job 1st lor.. but job takes time i know.. Juz tt i'm angry cuz my bf doesn't understand how i realli feel!! haix!! -
hmmm... ok... so how can we help?
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So what if he doesn't understand? is there a need to be so angry? Juz do what you tink is best for you and of your interests....btw...do yuo understand him? Do you understand y he nags at you?Originally posted by MiCh-:Alright i will start frm K1, i'm very slow kid in myclass and always gt nothing in my spelling and wad ever class den very jia lat.. When small sis always teach mi espacially maths den i very slow always made her lose temper den kanna scold frm here n dad even sae mi stupid!
Den till now in sec sch my maths still no chance and wads more ofcuz i hate maths! Den now i grad le actualli going for make up course at pvt sch den actualli signed up le.. Now dad budget n wants mi 2 study 1st. And den i signed for ITE den now no space. Have to wait for june intake. And oso haf to find job. Now i have nothing! And not that all.. Important is tt my bf doesn't reali understand mi well enough! Always nagging at mi bout my studies1 As i hate ppl nag at mi in this topic! Den he always sae till i lose my temper! Many times le.. haix..
You think i nv thought of my furture b4> i did infact! i did thought of it! Haix.. I love things about shop blh blah.. that's e reason i choose Retail course in ITE. And wad? there's no space... but nvm, juz find job 1st lor.. but job takes time i know.. Juz tt i'm angry cuz my bf doesn't understand how i realli feel!! haix!! -
U need help? I can't offer much help unless u want someone beaten up. If u need advice, I can't offer much because I'll tio flame for my lousy advices. So sorry.
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people have different priorities - anger is temporal (being bad tempered when i was a kid so i noe) so its okay, when he nags, it means he cares about you. try to tell him that you know what you are doing, and you appreciate for his nagging. when you are angry, just brave it out, than think clearly lor.
for a small example.. today, i was angry with my friend for saying sarcastic things when i was sick. but i left my harddrive in school, den i asked her to look for me tomorrow and she was willing. so its quite okay after all, people have flaws and always misunderstand this and that, and that is your boyfriend, of cuz u'll get angry, but in the end, it will be okay. i think. think of the bright side if you can. -
yes! i understand ofcuz. He wants mi to get a cert den next time can find good job easily n oso can haf better furtureOriginally posted by dcx:So what if he doesn't understand? is there a need to be so angry? Juz do what you tink is best for you and of your interests....btw...do yuo understand him? Do you understand y he nags at you? -
ya lo at least he cared...u urself also said he wan u 2 to have gd future ma...me also ma...last time pri sch onwards maths like shit and sci also...but dunno y go to sec maths like so easy...hmmm anyway good luck to u...
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follow your heart dude thats the only advice i can give you........sad but true
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hmm... ur language disability is evident ....
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Actually, the most impt thing is not whether you understand his intention or not..it's all abt your future...you do what you think is best for you....your future....not your bf's future....studies's tough, but we face to face it to remain in the compeitive society...Originally posted by MiCh-:yes! i understand ofcuz. He wants mi to get a cert den next time can find good job easily n oso can haf better furture -
Actually, the most impt thing is not whether you understand his intention or not..it's all abt your future...you do what you think is best for you....your future....not your bf's future....studies's tough, but we face to face it to remain in the compeitive society...Originally posted by MiCh-:yes! i understand ofcuz. He wants mi to get a cert den next time can find good job easily n oso can haf better furture -
you have some SERIOUS waking up to do, gal.
you are freaking taking everything and everyone around you for granted.
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Gal, u got to wake up and stop freaking out.
Just put it this way, stop trying to find fault at everyone else but not urself.
1st, plan what u want to do
2nd, if u want ur family to stop nagging...try to do something about it! By finding a job, stop taking ur own sweet time...NOTHING will "fall" on ur lap. You got to WORK HARD for it!
3rd, focus on what u want!
Hey, I was a slow student too. Did not too fantastic in PSLE. Made it to N levels stream. Work damn hard so that I can even get to Poly. After poly I did my degree. Now I even have a post grad cert. If u have the will, u have the way. All comes down t working hard and not slack! -
errrrr... told her tat but she totally got angry...Originally posted by icebaby0:Gal, u got to wake up and stop freaking out.
Just put it this way, stop trying to find fault at everyone else but not urself. -
i agreed wf ur thinknigOriginally posted by dcx:Actually, the most impt thing is not whether you understand his intention or not..it's all abt your future...you do what you think is best for you....your future....not your bf's future....studies's tough, but we face to face it to remain in the compeitive society... -
Human gets frustrated easily when grown up, as he/she is to step into the next stage soon. More stresses, more responsiblilty.
Your bf cares for your future, you should appreciate it. Think your short anger should have calm down now. As long you know how you are to help yourself facing the on-coming difficulties.
(Solved questions, nothing to worry about ; unsolved questions, no point worrying.)
Warmest Regards -
1. Start spelling properly. This is really important.
2. Education isnt just about learning textbook material. The most important aspect of education is that it broadens your mindscape. You learn how to think. Yes, thinking is a skill.
3. Plan for your future. So you want to go into retail. Do you want to be a retail manager? Store supervisor? Or higher? Take pen and paper and start charting your ambitions.
4. Don't ever despise yourself. If even you think you are useless, what would others think? Of all the people you will know in your life, you are the only one you will never leave or lose.
5. Best of luck.[/code] -
Talk is free...and you don't just agreed with my thinking...and you don't go and dream or think what you're going to work as...since you want to go into retail/sales which you believe you can do well...whatsoever of your interests, you should start working towards it(goal,ambition,future) and not just by thinking/dreaming. Maybe there're juz some advices you might want to consider.Originally posted by MiCh-:i agreed wf ur thinknig
1) Since the course in Retail (Got such a course?),anyway, will begin in the mid month and you've a few months with nothing to do, Go and look for a temp job as a salesperson or retailer...
2) Once you're wroking as a retailer/salesperson, at the same time earning $$$, you must know the rules and the structure of Retailing/Sales. Know how the people work, the way they present themself to the customers, the ways they talk to the customers, i.e. Tactics, Communications...etc...so much more to learn.
3) Though a few months working as a retailer/salesperson is short, but no one says that you can't work if you're studying..make full use of your working experiences in Retail/Sales to apply in your course works and make full use of what you'll be learning in the Retail course and apply them in your work. It'll sure make you a better Retailer/Salesperson, which in turn, who knows, you'll be promoted to a more senior or higher position.
4) Do note that without much qualifications that you had, from the start, you'll be in a very low position, but you must work hard and proves yourself worthy. Prove to them that you're a capable Retailer/Salesperson. At the same time, do your studies well n get a good qualification. ITE'll only upgrade you for a short while..you'll need to upgrade yourself even more higher (Dun worry abt that yet, concentrate on what you're going to do now).
5) With the will, determination and DISCIPLINE, you'll be a very successful person whom you want to be.
Nothing comes free. YOU'll have to work hard, very hard. -
grown??Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:Human gets frustrated easily when grown up, as he/she is to step into the next stage soon. More stresses, more responsiblilty.
Your bf cares for your future, you should appreciate it. Think your short anger should have calm down now. As long you know how you are to help yourself facing the on-coming difficulties.
(Solved questions, nothing to worry about ; unsolved questions, no point worrying.)
Warmest Regards
more like growing..