Confused :(

• StarPuppy

  3 Feb 05, 18:56

  Hello ppl of AA,some(little) of the ppl here know me or rather talked to me before.Anyway its been a long time(due to a downed net) and I came back with a broken heart
  
  I known this girl for 3 years now,we were pretty good friends and we got into a tiff 2 years ago and didn't talked to each other much even now,and now even we do talk,its nothing about us or personal matters.
  
  I sms her last year around christmas,delcaring my undying love to her but she didn't reply.Only when last week when my classmates were teasing about us and she said that she did recive my sms.well..... that was rather confusing to me,Now i dunno if she is giving me the hint that we shouldn't be friends anymore or I should go after her.valetiene day is coming soon,I want to buy her a rose but I think from what she said was a rejection.
  
  Another thing is that I was kicked out of the SYF(Singapore Youth Festival),the last time I didn't went(2 years back),my school got a gold and this time I am out again I only went in sec 1.... my last year in sc sch is also gone
  
  I am really lost now,I dunno who to turn to but I am hoping the AA place can give me some advice and joy
• Looking 4 Trouble

  3 Feb 05, 19:25

  Studies is good. Try getting to know more women and mix around. Keep their contacts. They may turn useful one day. As for the girl you liked, come on, it's just another crush. Go and concentrate on your studies.
  
  
  
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  I'm Looking 4 Trouble, where are you?
• _Aaron_

  3 Feb 05, 23:38

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  Hello ppl of AA,some(little) of the ppl here know me or rather talked to me before.Anyway its been a long time(due to a downed net) and I came back with a broken heart
  
  I known this girl for 3 years now,we were pretty good friends and we got into a tiff 2 years ago and didn't talked to each other much even now,and now even we do talk,its nothing about us or personal matters.
  
  I sms her last year around christmas,delcaring my undying love to her but she didn't reply.Only when last week when my classmates were teasing about us and she said that she did recive my sms.well..... that was rather confusing to me,Now i dunno if she is giving me the hint that we shouldn't be friends anymore or I should go after her.valetiene day is coming soon,I want to buy her a rose but I think from what she said was a rejection.
  
  Another thing is that I was kicked out of the SYF(Singapore Youth Festival),the last time I didn't went(2 years back),my school got a gold and this time I am out again I only went in sec 1.... my last year in sc sch is also gone
  
  I am really lost now,I dunno who to turn to but I am hoping the AA place can give me some advice and joy

  I can't say i know you.. but we're always ready to help a lost soul.
  
  Well, when it comes to relationships, there are certain ways of doing it. Your way may not be the one the girl is expecting, or maybe she doesn't need you in her life now.
  
  I don't think undying love should be sent in smses, it really does show a lack of sincerity and courage. Perhaps next time you should do it in person, and only after you know she's ready for a relationship, and she likes you a lot, more than friends.
  
  You can send her flowers, but just send her 1, telling her you want to be friends for now?
  
  As for what you're facing... i'm sure alot of us are also lost. The only one who can find the path is but you yourself. Search out your heart, remember all the ambitions you once had and wanted, and then go for it. Seek your dream~
  
  Only by living for a dream, and an ambition, can our life be truly fulfilling. Otherwise life can get rather meaningless..