Originally posted by lady76:
My bf's ex still call him or find thing to talk to him.
My bf said only normal frd now and never meet up with her ever since he broke out with her dan be with me.
if u were me wat will u do??
Hahaha...

lady76, I would suggest you to keep in contact with some of you better guy friends...preferably your ex? There is nothing wrong with you feeling jealous or insecure cos afterall you are his gf. Sometimes a girl really need to get down and dirty in order to protect her own interests and in this case, it would be your bf. Don't worry about being seen as ungracious or unladylike in doing such things...cos girl tends to lose out in a relationship and this is one of the way where you can prevent yourself from getting hurt and also keeping your bf in line. There is nothing wrong if you ask your bf not to keep in contact with her anymore...just not keeping contact with his ex-gf.

You could tell your bf that you are interested in getting to know his ex-gf. Let him arrange some sort of meeting up with his ex. If you happened to click well with his ex-gf, then you should try to know more about her...especially her weakness while still being nice and friendly to her. Of course...never be too genuinely nice to her or she might be tempted to steal your bf away. In this way, you could keep both your bf and his ex in line while you are figuring out his ex-gf's intentions and her weaknesses.

But remember to cut away his contact with his ex-gf if you detected any hanky-panky incidents going on behind you back.

Keeping bf in line is probably one of the biggest challenge a gf could ever face during a relationship. Achieve that and you will definitely have a pleasant relationship, else...you are just waiting for your entire world to come crashing down onto you.

Good luck and ohh...don't worry if you end up looking bad in front of your bf, you can always correct that image after you have won the battle. Guys are much more easier to satisfy than girls...and they are easily forgetful people.

