Hiaz....
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My bf's ex still call him or find thing to talk to him.
My bf said only normal frd now and never meet up with her ever since he broke out with her dan be with me.
if u were me wat will u do?? -
She call u to check about him??
U on close terms with her??? -
I dunno her at all.Originally posted by Patrik:She call u to check about him??
U on close terms with her???
but my bf told me alot about her.
my bf older dan her think abt 5yrs.
my bf trying not to talk to her but she keep losor and find thing to ask him.
Anyway to stop her from calling?
Should i tell her off? (but i feel not rite leh) -
tell your bf this is not right and u r not comfortable with it. a doting bf will nvr put his gf in a situation whereby she is uncomfortable in
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Is he giving his ex hopes?
Sometime i told him if he want to go back to her just go lo.
he always tell mi no cos she too young for him.
but if ur ex ditch u will, u call him again?? -
hi, personally i think ur bf should spare a thought for you, he should be more sensitive towards ur feelings...ask him to put himself in ur shoes, if ur ex bf keep calling you to chat, how wud he had felt?...
i can only say that once u're in a relationship, either one have to be more sensitive and think of each another's feelings...have to always keep a reasonable distant with their ex...afterall, they used to be an item, sure have feelings for that person no matter what....
and for his ex that keep calling her, i think she might be up to no good...who wud wanna call on their ex so much if they know they're already into another relationship, this only goes to show she has motives or something...
up til now, i think u shud have a good talk to ur bf regarding this issue, let him know that u're very uncomfortable abt the whole thing...if u're jealous, juz tell him so, these kinda thing shud not hidden from him....let him know how u feel for him... -
Be confident of yourself. Tell yourself you are better than his ex gf. She's the loser and you are the winner. You are feeling insecure at the moment. Wake up in the morning in front of the mirror telling yourself you are the most prettiest girl in the world.Now don't give a fcuk what people says about you. Don't act confident. Be confident.Originally posted by lady76:My bf's ex still call him or find thing to talk to him.
My bf said only normal frd now and never meet up with her ever since he broke out with her dan be with me.
if u were me wat will u do?? -
Just show him the fist
,hahahahahaha,kidding.... u must be honest abt all these....tell him ur not happy,then lets c wat he's gotta say abt that....is he gonna promise u that he wont return to his ex ????? -
Hahaha...Originally posted by lady76:My bf's ex still call him or find thing to talk to him.
My bf said only normal frd now and never meet up with her ever since he broke out with her dan be with me.
if u were me wat will u do??
lady76, I would suggest you to keep in contact with some of you better guy friends...preferably your ex? There is nothing wrong with you feeling jealous or insecure cos afterall you are his gf. Sometimes a girl really need to get down and dirty in order to protect her own interests and in this case, it would be your bf. Don't worry about being seen as ungracious or unladylike in doing such things...cos girl tends to lose out in a relationship and this is one of the way where you can prevent yourself from getting hurt and also keeping your bf in line. There is nothing wrong if you ask your bf not to keep in contact with her anymore...just not keeping contact with his ex-gf.
You could tell your bf that you are interested in getting to know his ex-gf. Let him arrange some sort of meeting up with his ex. If you happened to click well with his ex-gf, then you should try to know more about her...especially her weakness while still being nice and friendly to her. Of course...never be too genuinely nice to her or she might be tempted to steal your bf away. In this way, you could keep both your bf and his ex in line while you are figuring out his ex-gf's intentions and her weaknesses. But remember to cut away his contact with his ex-gf if you detected any hanky-panky incidents going on behind you back.
Keeping bf in line is probably one of the biggest challenge a gf could ever face during a relationship. Achieve that and you will definitely have a pleasant relationship, else...you are just waiting for your entire world to come crashing down onto you.
Good luck and ohh...don't worry if you end up looking bad in front of your bf, you can always correct that image after you have won the battle. Guys are much more easier to satisfy than girls...and they are easily forgetful people.
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ask ur bf to ask her out for a cup of cofee. bring you along.Originally posted by lady76:I dunno her at all.
but my bf told me alot about her.
my bf older dan her think abt 5yrs.
my bf trying not to talk to her but she keep losor and find thing to ask him.
Anyway to stop her from calling?
Should i tell her off? (but i feel not rite leh)
then u know what to do la.
hey, I dun mean kill her or what hor. -
Think his ex hate me into the bone liao u think she will want to meet up or not?
i dun wanna to meet up too cos he told me his ex tok bad abt mi too.
Maybe she still not mature yet.