what will you do
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if you are walking in orchard and you saw your gf shopping with another guy?
the guy is her colleague and they went shopping after work -
depends. are they holding hands or behaving intimately? if they behaving normal then ok what. couples still need personal space
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they just behaving normally.....chatting and laughing
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like that lor...
but would tell her i prefer it if she let me noe before hand... cos might get teh wrong idea mah.. -
yeah,it depends how they behave together.....maybe he just needed her opinions on gift n such? dun jump into conclusions.....can just ask her abt it
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hmm...don't be too suspicious la...unhealthy
if she wanna 2time u...u think so much also useless...if she is innocent...then u'll wrong her...
haiz...dun worry la...friends only ba -
If it's juz chatting n laughing.. den forget abt it.. juz give her the benefit of doubt...
ONe of the many common reasons y r/s fails is bcoz one party is over-possessive n suspicious of his/her partner..
Do u tink ur partner is trustworthy n loyal.. if so.. den dun doubt her.. dun doubt ur r/s with her.. -
tat's easy..find 1 quiet corner..k siao call her and ask her out for dinner/lunch depends on the timing..see wat's her answer...if she's lies..then u know wat's the outcome already.Originally posted by spacesurf:if you are walking in orchard and you saw your gf shopping with another guy?
the guy is her colleague and they went shopping after work
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Originally posted by spacesurf:if you are walking in orchard and you saw your gf shopping with another guy?
the guy is her colleague and they went shopping after work
What's wrong?
Now this is the question of trust - nothing else.
P.S: Remember, in a relationship, she is innocent until proven gulity.
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kill them all...rather destroy all than be mistaken once.....
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Its all about trust and understanding.
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trust a sword into them n understand they died for a good cause...lolzOriginally posted by Patrik:Its all about trust and understanding. -
even if they are just friends.......dont you mind that your gf went out with another guy?
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hide in one corner call her over her hp...see what answer she giv u for what she is doing now, who she is wif...be careful how u project your queries...if she answer feelin guitly or hesitant , u probably got a gal who is not that faithful after all...if he is her colleague (and i tink if a fem colleague dun want to mislead her male colleague/s, should go out in groups instead of 1 to 1).Originally posted by spacesurf:if you are walking in orchard and you saw your gf shopping with another guy?
the guy is her colleague and they went shopping after work
u hav no right to control yr gal's private life...but it all depends on yr progress wif her now...intimate (beware) , starting (move on, coz she is still choosing and hesitant).
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One wordOriginally posted by spacesurf:they just behaving normally.....chatting and laughing
Trust
you dont trust her, then you might as well break up
Anyway, one day, if u are just shopping with another gal and your gf saw you, do you hope that she will feel this way? -
I don't give a fcuk.
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Step up and say 'hi!'.Originally posted by spacesurf:they just behaving normally.....chatting and laughing -
do it ambicably....Originally posted by Devil1976:Step up and say 'hi!'. 
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I have only one advise for u! If you trust too much, you nvr know what she doing behind your back. Nothing is certain, even if she is your girlfriend.
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why weren't u the one shopping with her in the first place?
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If you can't even trust your gf, I think you should SPEND MORE TIME WORKING on your RELATIONSHIP....?Originally posted by Mabo:I have only one advise for u! If you trust too much, you nvr know what she doing behind your back. Nothing is certain, even if she is your girlfriend. -
I think it all depends on you. Don't be a Jealously idiot.
Your GF also needs to have her own circle of friends. If she keeps glue to you, one day also sianz..
Moreover, she has her own likes who to be with rite>? As long as she doesn't cross over the friendships line with her friends, you should more generous to trust her.
Don't be a MCP, give her some freedom to breathe.. You held on too much and more she yearns to fly away from you.
A certain amount of care and concern as a boyfriend will be enough. Not to the extent of controlling her freedom and choice of friends.
In this way, both of you should be a ble to "grow" from this relationship.
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if i saw you with another guy, i'd definitely think there was something suspicious going on...Originally posted by amuletgurl:yeah,it depends how they behave together.....maybe he just needed her opinions on gift n such? dun jump into conclusions.....can just ask her abt it